Self-acceptance, sexuality, and facing reality: healing the lower chakras from a transgender perspective.

[Serbon]

I'm happy to see you advance Meteor

 

[Sundara]

This is a lot to read so I skimmed it. I’ve had a lot of very personal interactions with trans, and transitioning people, as well as purely gay people. Most of the true gays do not understand being transgender and the trans people who I’ve had the opportunity to talk to about their experiences blatantly say that this is an illness and that their transition did not help them. It’s very confusing, but on a mass scale what I notice is these people are too stuck in themselves, picking themselves apart, and honestly the majority have no “real” trauma persay. A lot of it is very imagined.

This isn’t to put fault on the individuals. There’s more to this. I notice the families are often weak in their own cultural identities and “transgenderism” often occurs within rat packed cities. It makes sense that transgenderism (as it’s called) is much less an ism than it is an evolutionary hiccup embedded within a person whose line is very weak and who’s been exposed to few things that build their character, on top of being in a very culturally mixed area. Less of an ability to keep up with competition in the world around them and find things they feel strongly about.

You hardly ever see anyone who is transgender who does anything BUT talk about themselves. Except for the ones who get into politics, who do so to mainly talk about themselves. Whatever brain scans show, doctors often fail to help guide a person towards the fact they can certainly change the way their own brain works and have all but given up on helping anyone.

I can’t really say much more on the subject or suggest any quick simple tips that’s a cure all but if a trans person early on or even now could block out and void out this self focus for just one year and directed their energy outward towards maybe working out, getting educated on literally anything but being trans, not worrying about “who they are” but more so creating themselves maybe they’d be happier. Maybe get into some straight up casual fist fights idk.

The most tragic thing ever is when I see someone completely mutilate their body only to absolutely hate it.

 

[Henu the Great]

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So, why did it have to be this way? That's for the same reason that everyone is born different: no reason in particular, it's just how it is. That's something that I'm still learning to accept, but it's only by accepting that, that I can truly be at peace with reality, and with myself. It's only by accepting that, that I will fully heal from all of this.

I was about to write something about acceptance and how that is a key concept about yourself as part of the world, but at the end of the post you already mentioned this.

Looks like your healing process is going well. Congratulations.

 

[CrossRoadsPedestrian]

This is a lot to read so I skimmed it. I’ve had a lot of very personal interactions with trans, and transitioning people, as well as purely gay people. Most of the true gays do not understand being transgender and the trans people who I’ve had the opportunity to talk to about their experiences blatantly say that this is an illness and that their transition did not help them. It’s very confusing, but on a mass scale what I notice is these people are too stuck in themselves, picking themselves apart, and honestly the majority have no “real” trauma persay. A lot of it is very imagined.

This isn’t to put fault on the individuals. There’s more to this. I notice the families are often weak in their own cultural identities and “transgenderism” often occurs within rat packed cities. It makes sense that transgenderism (as it’s called) is much less an ism than it is an evolutionary hiccup embedded within a person whose line is very weak and who’s been exposed to few things that build their character, on top of being in a very culturally mixed area. Less of an ability to keep up with competition in the world around them and find things they feel strongly about.

You hardly ever see anyone who is transgender who does anything BUT talk about themselves. Except for the ones who get into politics, who do so to mainly talk about themselves. Whatever brain scans show, doctors often fail to help guide a person towards the fact they can certainly change the way their own brain works and have all but given up on helping anyone.

I can’t really say much more on the subject or suggest any quick simple tips that’s a cure all but if a trans person early on or even now could block out and void out this self focus for just one year and directed their energy outward towards maybe working out, getting educated on literally anything but being trans, not worrying about “who they are” but more so creating themselves maybe they’d be happier. Maybe get into some straight up casual fist fights idk.

The most tragic thing ever is when I see someone completely mutilate their body only to absolutely hate it.

I agree with all of the casual factors you listed here Sundara. Most of the trans people i met were very intelligent individuals, but at the same time, they were not holistically or emotionally intelligent at all.

Meteor, i think an introspective question you may ask yourself is

"If I was living in an earlier time-period in human history where transpeople didn't exist on the scale that they do now, would I still be trans?"

In other words, if you lived in a time period where people weren't exposed to the idea of being trans at all because it simply didn't exist in that time period, then would you be trans? (Maybe there were a few trans people in ancient history but it definitely wasn't a topic that most people talked about at all during their lifetimes)

On a personal note, Meteor I can never accept you as a trans person because it goes against my beliefs, but i can accept you as a person, as a fellow human, and whatever you choose to do I wish you the best. Keep asking yourself hard questions so that you can get closer to knowing whether your decisions regarding being trans is based on your Will or based on an (((outside influence)))

 

[The Outlaw Torn]

There's a very simple counter argument which easily refutes that logic: "People didn't talk openly about being gay either."

I can’t tell if this comment is rooted in ignorance or malice. Lumping us together with with the “T” is very insulting because homosexuality and T are very different things.