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Lost another lover...

jrvan said:
My reply to Aquarius was sarcastic, but also playful in nature and intent. I thought maybe he would appreciate it. Hopefully that answers that part of your question. For the other part, it's a loaded question and my answer is to go fuck yourself.

My apologies, I had misunderstood your intent.

Let me reflect upon this, so I no longer needlessly stain my name with foolish judgement and behavior.

The standard I speak of to others must be upheld by myself first and foremost.

Hail Satan!
 
Bravera said:
The Outlaw Torn said:
Dude it was half a month grow the hell up. It sounds like you have abandonment issues. And in black terms stop trying to be captain save a hoe. I can’t believe hetero relationships are like this.

I wanted to share a story about me chasing one of my most important goals. I will never "grow" out of this honestly. I love flirting and dating, but I only want one women. If I pick someone, I'm gonna put everything I can until I'm sure it's over.

I want to, like our great civilizers, build great families and kingdoms, I have to start with my own. If I had the right women in my life, I know I would be greatly empowered, but I will not let my anyone impact my spiritual growth negatively, I've got enough of a problem dealing with my own self.

Thanks for your concern, but I like to find the faults in what others might find as logic. How many billions of children were borne out of the labor of love? How many great men chose to be a POWERFUL man for his Beautiful yet less powerful women? That should be every man's responsibility, it gives true respect, honor, and alignment with what Nature has bestowed to us.
Then you need to take this situation seriously and look for a woman that does not have issues. Imagine if she has issues around your children or abuses them.

You need to find a woman that isn't traumatized, one that doesn't have vices ,wants kids, is successful, Competent, has an optimistic and positive mindset. You don't want a woman that is traumatized or has issues.

You don't have to waste your time trying to fix a woman. Just like you can't turn a hoe into a housewife you cannot trust a woman who is traumatized.

Yes ,this is a very sad reality of this world but with the situation we are all in you don't want to waste unnecessary time and energy on fruitless endeavors.

We have the tools to find a very compatible person who does not have issues. So why not use it ?
 
Blitzkreig [JG said:
I think developing discernment about following advice is also a larger part of being a mature adult. It tests one's character and what one is developing himself into.

Knowing yourself involves performing action and discovering things about yourself and developing your character along the way.

Whatever advice the OP takes from his thread he will have to personally deal with the consequences and learn about himself.

People who are compatible with each other do not have situations like he described. If he takes the wrong advice and gets back with her and experiences relationship issues continuously he will then realize that the advice that he took was wrong and that the opposite advice was right.

He will then not repeat the same thing again.

I personally have a hunch that the OP is an intelligent dude who will figure it out quickly and do workings to release all bonds with her, clean himself of any trauma and attract a compatible woman.

The edgy "I will purposefully put my hand in the fire even when I know it burns to try to affirm that it burns" advice falls on deaf ears. This community is composed of Intelligent people who can take intelligent mature decisions.

We are our Choices in the end.

If you're tapped in ,no matter what happens life will turn out beautiful for you. For this there is no doubt.
 
Bravera said:
It was only half a month, but each day was so full of life. She had problems, serious ones, I wanted to show her my strength and intelligence, that I could help lift her out of this pain. I do believe she really did like me, maybe it was even true when she said she loved me. I was sure I had found love..

I looked past all of her problems, and honestly I feel sick and drained right now, my stomach is queasy and losing her made me cry. But, I have a renewed hope in finding true love.. a renewed hope in chasing my goals with the full strength of whatever youthfulness and soul I have remaining.

I thank the Gods for guiding me through this relationship, I won't give up on love.

Do you have a stable job? If not, maybe she was insecure and didn't trust you.
 
Jack said:
I think developing discernment about following advice is also a larger part of being a mature adult. It tests one's character and what one is developing himself into.

Knowing yourself involves performing action and discovering things about yourself and developing your character along the way.

Whatever advice the OP takes from his thread he will have to personally deal with the consequences and learn about himself.

People who are compatible with each other do not have situations like he described. If he takes the wrong advice and gets back with her and experiences relationship issues continuously he will then realize that the advice that he took was wrong and that the opposite advice was right.

He will then not repeat the same thing again.

I personally have a hunch that the OP is an intelligent dude who will figure it out quickly and do workings to release all bonds with her, clean himself of any trauma and attract a compatible woman.

The edgy "I will purposefully put my hand in the fire even when I know it burns to try to affirm that it burns" advice falls on deaf ears. This community is composed of Intelligent people who can take intelligent mature decisions.

We are our Choices in the end.

If you're tapped in ,no matter what happens life will turn out beautiful for you. For this there is no doubt.

I believe you are correct here, and you make some good points.

Something is wrong in the relationship, likely too many things to make it worthwhile to salvage. Of course, emotions are involved, which makes this more difficult to be objective. Despite what this thread has become, Bravera was wise to seek outside counsel, for that reason. Ideally, he can take the correct action without learning the hard way.

In regards to discernment, this is totally true and why everyone needs to work with their upper chakras to better sense reality. For example, I am fond of Virgo energy, due to its ability to tap into both the air and earth element. In this way, it is able to problem solve and analyze effectively. Not that the other Mercury signs don't have their benefits, just that Virgo is notable in that way.
 
jrvan said:
There's also the possibility that this woman was a good match for Bravera and they could have a future together which is what he believed, and they only left because of their own fickleness or some other trivial thing. We just don't know, and that's why I keep saying that Bravera knows his own situation best and we have to trust him to be wise enough to make the right decisions for his own life that he understands the in's and out's of better than we do.

What would be the point on seeking advice from others if it is said that the individual themselves known best?

Not to mention, when a person is making a mistake, can it really be said they do indeed know best?

One might say we can only assume, however that is an assumption on your part. While it might be difficult to know with true certainty, a lot more can be understood and inferred from people by an advanced SS even if no information is given.

The right answers can be found even if almost nothing is known through the utilizing of psychic ability.

In simpler cases it can be seen blatantly by looking at the situation at hand without requiring any psychic sight, but simply drawing from experience and accumulated understanding.

Regardless what one thinks of Jack, we can all agree Blitz has enough of both wisdom and advancement to make accurate and wise judgements on most subjects, and is absolutely qualified to give rights or wrongs and to give advices which are worth listening to.

Not to mention it is possible to infer insights into things beyond what is given to find the necessary understanding required to answer and advice accurately.

It is a basic principle that advanced SS do use, both consciously and subconsciously to advice and answer questions, precisely because an accurate answer cannot be given if one is limited to assumption on which to draw their conclusions.

Hail Satan!
 
Blitzkreig [JG said:
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Jack said:
I think developing discernment about following advice is also a larger part of being a mature adult. It tests one's character and what one is developing himself into.

Knowing yourself involves performing action and discovering things about yourself and developing your character along the way.

Whatever advice the OP takes from his thread he will have to personally deal with the consequences and learn about himself.

People who are compatible with each other do not have situations like he described. If he takes the wrong advice and gets back with her and experiences relationship issues continuously he will then realize that the advice that he took was wrong and that the opposite advice was right.

He will then not repeat the same thing again.

I personally have a hunch that the OP is an intelligent dude who will figure it out quickly and do workings to release all bonds with her, clean himself of any trauma and attract a compatible woman.

The edgy "I will purposefully put my hand in the fire even when I know it burns to try to affirm that it burns" advice falls on deaf ears. This community is composed of Intelligent people who can take intelligent mature decisions.

We are our Choices in the end.

If you're tapped in ,no matter what happens life will turn out beautiful for you. For this there is no doubt.

I believe you are correct here, and you make some good points.

Something is wrong in the relationship, likely too many things to make it worthwhile to salvage. Of course, emotions are involved, which makes this more difficult to be objective. Despite what this thread has become, Bravera was wise to seek outside counsel, for that reason. Ideally, he can take the correct action without learning the hard way.

In regards to discernment, this is totally true and why everyone needs to work with their upper chakras to better sense reality. For example, I am fond of Virgo energy, due to its ability to tap into both the air and earth element. In this way, it is able to problem solve and analyze effectively. Not that the other Mercury signs don't have their benefits, just that Virgo is notable in that way.
Men in general just make a lot of bad decisions because of having no guidance in life. A lot of men make promises to women that aren't compatible with them and they are then shocked when the relationship does not work out. Since they've been taught also to be "a man of their word" they can't let go and create their own circle of doom where they keep going back to a failed relationship because they've given their word to this woman.

Men in today's day and age do not have any big cause to give their allegiance to. They have no purpose in their lives and they walk through life aimlessly in this Consumerist culture.

And since men need a purpose in life ,most men have made Love their purpose and given it an idealistic meaning in their minds due to the lack of a real purpose in life.

I was in a relationship with a woman once and she was just really insecure and had serious issues. She was just completely obsessed with me and demanded that I give hours and hours of attention to her.

I once made a passing comment about her Friend looking cute just as a joke and this bothered her to the point that she had me block her friend on all social media's. She had an issue with me not giving her attention and demanded that I stop grinding and just marry her and settle down with her..

Since I had made the mistake of telling her that I would always be with her at the beginning of the relationship when everything was fun and dandy (the honeymoon phase) I could not predict what would happen next. That vow that I gave her also created a Karmic bond.

That woman wad most definitely not compatible with me or my future. I had to break up with her. Then I had to break the Karmic bonds ,remove trauma from the both of us. I also did a working for her so that she attracted a man that would take care of her completely and gave her what she wanted. Which manifested and I got the news 1 month after id completed that working.

I had to do it because I'd promised that I'd take care of her. But I couldn't so I had to facilitate another man to take care of her the way she wanted. I had to break thr Karmic bonds also.

These mistakes men make destroy their entire lives. If I didn't have the Tantric tools that I have ,I could have continued to give her what she wanted ,rejected my own wants and destroyed my life just because of my word.

SS atleast have the tools to do all this. The average man is in a perpetual cycle of doom in terms of his relationships.
 
Jack said:
Men in general just make a lot of bad decisions because of having no guidance in life. A lot of men make promises to women that aren't compatible with them and they are then shocked when the relationship does not work out. Since they've been taught also to be "a man of their word" they can't let go and create their own circle of doom where they keep going back to a failed relationship because they've given their word to this woman.

Men in today's day and age do not have any big cause to give their allegiance to. They have no purpose in their lives and they walk through life aimlessly in this Consumerist culture.

And since men need a purpose in life ,most men have made Love their purpose and given it an idealistic meaning in their minds due to the lack of a real purpose in life.

I was in a relationship with a woman once and she was just really insecure and had serious issues. She was just completely obsessed with me and demanded that I give hours and hours of attention to her.

I once made a passing comment about her Friend looking cute just as a joke and this bothered her to the point that she had me block her friend on all social media's. She had an issue with me not giving her attention and demanded that I stop grinding and just marry her and settle down with her..

Since I had made the mistake of telling her that I would always be with her at the beginning of the relationship when everything was fun and dandy (the honeymoon phase) I could not predict what would happen next. That vow that I gave her also created a Karmic bond.

That woman wad most definitely not compatible with me or my future. I had to break up with her. Then I had to break the Karmic bonds ,remove trauma from the both of us. I also did a working for her so that she attracted a man that would take care of her completely and gave her what she wanted. Which manifested and I got the news 1 month after id completed that working.

I had to do it because I'd promised that I'd take care of her. But I couldn't so I had to facilitate another man to take care of her the way she wanted. I had to break thr Karmic bonds also.

These mistakes men make destroy their entire lives. If I didn't have the Tantric tools that I have ,I could have continued to give her what she wanted ,rejected my own wants and destroyed my life just because of my word.

SS atleast have the tools to do all this. The average man is in a perpetual cycle of doom in terms of his relationships.

Very good post.

I have experienced exactly the same in the past, and used a very similar method to fix this, break the karmic bonds and clear myself from this binding attachment that was in manifestation no different than a curse upon my soul.
 
jrvan said:
Jack said:
That woman wad most definitely not compatible with me or my future. I had to break up with her. Then I had to break the Karmic bonds ,remove trauma from the both of us. I also did a working for her so that she attracted a man that would take care of her completely and gave her what she wanted. Which manifested and I got the news 1 month after id completed that working.

Is that really true?
Yes it is. Why ?
 
It was an experience you've had that not many have. Be grateful to have had such a wonderful relationship and continue your journey because it's not the end. Many women will come and many other wonderful moments too. There are powers greater than you and me and perhaps it was not meant to be, only to have experienced it. You will find another some day and laugh back at your previous relationship, it's just a matter of time. You'll be okay.
 

Al Jilwah: Chapter IV

"It is my desire that all my followers unite in a bond of unity, lest those who are without prevail against them." - Shaitan

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