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Jack said:
I think developing discernment about following advice is also a larger part of being a mature adult. It tests one's character and what one is developing himself into.
Knowing yourself involves performing action and discovering things about yourself and developing your character along the way.
Whatever advice the OP takes from his thread he will have to personally deal with the consequences and learn about himself.
People who are compatible with each other do not have situations like he described. If he takes the wrong advice and gets back with her and experiences relationship issues continuously he will then realize that the advice that he took was wrong and that the opposite advice was right.
He will then not repeat the same thing again.
I personally have a hunch that the OP is an intelligent dude who will figure it out quickly and do workings to release all bonds with her, clean himself of any trauma and attract a compatible woman.
The edgy "I will purposefully put my hand in the fire even when I know it burns to try to affirm that it burns" advice falls on deaf ears. This community is composed of Intelligent people who can take intelligent mature decisions.
We are our Choices in the end.
If you're tapped in ,no matter what happens life will turn out beautiful for you. For this there is no doubt.
I believe you are correct here, and you make some good points.
Something is wrong in the relationship, likely too many things to make it worthwhile to salvage. Of course, emotions are involved, which makes this more difficult to be objective. Despite what this thread has become, Bravera was wise to seek outside counsel, for that reason. Ideally, he can take the correct action without learning the hard way.
In regards to discernment, this is totally true and why everyone needs to work with their upper chakras to better sense reality. For example, I am fond of Virgo energy, due to its ability to tap into both the air and earth element. In this way, it is able to problem solve and analyze effectively. Not that the other Mercury signs don't have their benefits, just that Virgo is notable in that way.