I have failed my wife.

[serpentwalker666]

This is an extremely mild form of cheating; they have children and a family, and he confessed right away and didn't have affairs on the side.

I have both cheated and been cheated on in life, I would say no, this isn't mild and we shouldn't down play it.

I just hope there is a positive resolution for our fellow Zevist in some form, even if that's not reconciliation.