Jack
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I think developing discernment about following advice is also a larger part of being a mature adult. It tests one's character and what one is developing himself into.Blitzkreig [JG said:"]
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Knowing yourself involves performing action and discovering things about yourself and developing your character along the way.
Whatever advice the OP takes from his thread he will have to personally deal with the consequences and learn about himself.
People who are compatible with each other do not have situations like he described. If he takes the wrong advice and gets back with her and experiences relationship issues continuously he will then realize that the advice that he took was wrong and that the opposite advice was right.
He will then not repeat the same thing again.
I personally have a hunch that the OP is an intelligent dude who will figure it out quickly and do workings to release all bonds with her, clean himself of any trauma and attract a compatible woman.
The edgy "I will purposefully put my hand in the fire even when I know it burns to try to affirm that it burns" advice falls on deaf ears. This community is composed of Intelligent people who can take intelligent mature decisions.
We are our Choices in the end.
If you're tapped in ,no matter what happens life will turn out beautiful for you. For this there is no doubt.