ᥫ᭡. Echos ৻ꪆ
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In all honesty, you need to detach yourself.
She is Muslim. Her family is Muslim. Things will not change and she will most likely not wake up to the reality of the world because she is tied to the religion and the culture.
She has shown that she has little care, respect, and dedication to her bond with you.
And you sound quite young. Why chase after this woman that is not even an Zevism and making a fool out of yourself?
Focus on your studies if that's what you want to do. Or build your career. Grow spiritually.
Life as it is passes too fast to focus on the wrong people.
Another thing is: even if you DID meet her thanks to the Gods, look at it this way - the Gods might push us towards someone or something based on the potential it has to be good.
That does not guarantee that it will have a good outcome. Perhaps there could have been chances to build a good relationship with her, if she acted the right way, had dignity and respect, and showed care towards you.
However, she did not.
You shouldn't hang on the possibility that this is what the Gods wanted for you. The Gods want you to grow and find someone that will fulfill you, not make you feel like this.
I would recommend you to detach yourself spiritually from her and focus on your own growth.
About feeling lonely - you need to work on that too. You sound co-dependent on her, which isn't a good thing. You need more friends. Your partner should not be your only friend or the only person you talk to. Go out and find more people, join more spaces for your hobbies online, expand your social circles.
I wish you best of luck and don't forget that this isn't the end of the world. Everyone goes through similar experiences sooner or later, unfortunately.
She is Muslim. Her family is Muslim. Things will not change and she will most likely not wake up to the reality of the world because she is tied to the religion and the culture.
She has shown that she has little care, respect, and dedication to her bond with you.
And you sound quite young. Why chase after this woman that is not even an Zevism and making a fool out of yourself?
Focus on your studies if that's what you want to do. Or build your career. Grow spiritually.
Life as it is passes too fast to focus on the wrong people.
Another thing is: even if you DID meet her thanks to the Gods, look at it this way - the Gods might push us towards someone or something based on the potential it has to be good.
That does not guarantee that it will have a good outcome. Perhaps there could have been chances to build a good relationship with her, if she acted the right way, had dignity and respect, and showed care towards you.
However, she did not.
You shouldn't hang on the possibility that this is what the Gods wanted for you. The Gods want you to grow and find someone that will fulfill you, not make you feel like this.
I would recommend you to detach yourself spiritually from her and focus on your own growth.
About feeling lonely - you need to work on that too. You sound co-dependent on her, which isn't a good thing. You need more friends. Your partner should not be your only friend or the only person you talk to. Go out and find more people, join more spaces for your hobbies online, expand your social circles.
I wish you best of luck and don't forget that this isn't the end of the world. Everyone goes through similar experiences sooner or later, unfortunately.