Using swear words

[Antichrist]

I'm interested in a girl, but what disturbs me is her tendency to swear a lot. If a person often uses swear words, does it mean that he or she is spiritually low human?

 

[High Priest Zevios Metathronos]

No, it doesn't mean that they are spiritually low. Maybe you just find it just sits really bad in your eyes though.

 

[Jack]

I'm interested in a girl, but what disturbs me is her tendency to swear a lot. If a person often uses swear words, does it mean that he or she is spiritually low human?

She might have been raised with parents who curse a lot or her friends might have been like that growing up. It doesn't mean she can't change. Tell her to consciously have control and realize what she's saying. Tell her it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone, when she constantly swears and everyone looks down upon her and talks behind her back about how stupid and distasteful she sounds,therefore she should change the way she speaks. Women are very mindful of social proof so making her realize these things can help her change.

 

[Aquarius]

I'm interested in a girl, but what disturbs me is her tendency to swear a lot. If a person often uses swear words, does it mean that he or she is spiritually low human?

She might have been raised with parents who curse a lot or her friends might have been like that growing up. It doesn't mean she can't change. Tell her to consciously have control and realize what she's saying. Tell her it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone, when she constantly swears and everyone looks down upon her and talks behind her back about how stupid and distasteful she sounds,therefore she should change the way she speaks. Women are very mindful of social proof so making her realize these things can help her change.

I get it that you like redpill forums and the alpha male mentality but being a dick to people and especially those you are interested in isn’t the way to go.

 

[FancyMancy]

I'm interested in a girl, but what disturbs me is her tendency to swear a lot. If a person often uses swear words, does it mean that he or she is spiritually low human?

She might have been raised with parents who curse a lot or her friends might have been like that growing up. It doesn't mean she can't change. Tell her to consciously have control and realize what she's saying. Tell her it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone, when she constantly swears and everyone looks down upon her and talks behind her back about how stupid and distasteful she sounds,therefore she should change the way she speaks. Women are very mindful of social proof so making her realize these things can help her change.

I get it that you like redpill forums and the alpha male mentality but being a dick to people and especially those you are interested in isn’t the way to go.

"Who the fuck do you think you are to tell me not to fucking swear? Fuck off." Oops. You just lost your chance with her! Have fun - or don't! Just chill. Sheesh. It's a bit more mature to ignore silly behaviours than to try and be religious and force someone to change their Mind - which you cannot do very easily! People don't change their Minds very easily, so don't waste your time, energy, effort in trying to change someone. Alternatively, use Magick to encourage her to chill herself out a bit, as well, if it is necessary.

 

[lilquote]

I'm interested in a girl, but what disturbs me is her tendency to swear a lot. If a person often uses swear words, does it mean that he or she is spiritually low human?

She might have been raised with parents who curse a lot or her friends might have been like that growing up. It doesn't mean she can't change. Tell her to consciously have control and realize what she's saying. Tell her it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone, when she constantly swears and everyone looks down upon her and talks behind her back about how stupid and distasteful she sounds,therefore she should change the way she speaks. Women are very mindful of social proof so making her realize these things can help her change.

I get it that you like redpill forums and the alpha male mentality but being a dick to people and especially those you are interested in isn’t the way to go.

I agree. As a female who happens to swear a lot, using certain words to express intensity, anger, whatever the case, is not necessarily a bad thing. You can ask someone you like to tone it down around you specifically. If they value you back, they will. But I would not advise you to tell this girl that she seems "dumb", "illiterate", socially low class, or "stupid or distasteful". That's a disrespectful and abusive approach to the situation. Have a conversation asking her to swear less around you and see how it goes.

 

[lilquote]

I'm interested in a girl, but what disturbs me is her tendency to swear a lot. If a person often uses swear words, does it mean that he or she is spiritually low human?

She might have been raised with parents who curse a lot or her friends might have been like that growing up. It doesn't mean she can't change. Tell her to consciously have control and realize what she's saying. Tell her it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone, when she constantly swears and everyone looks down upon her and talks behind her back about how stupid and distasteful she sounds,therefore she should change the way she speaks. Women are very mindful of social proof so making her realize these things can help her change.

I get it that you like redpill forums and the alpha male mentality but being a dick to people and especially those you are interested in isn’t the way to go.

I agree. As a female who happens to swear a lot, using certain words to express intensity, anger, whatever the case, is not necessarily a bad thing. You can ask someone you like to tone it down around you specifically. If they value you back, they will. But I would not advise you to tell this girl that she seems "dumb", "illiterate", socially low class, or "stupid or distasteful". That's a disrespectful and abusive approach to the situation. Have a conversation asking her to swear less around you and see how it goes.

 

[Jack]

I'm interested in a girl, but what disturbs me is her tendency to swear a lot. If a person often uses swear words, does it mean that he or she is spiritually low human?

She might have been raised with parents who curse a lot or her friends might have been like that growing up. It doesn't mean she can't change. Tell her to consciously have control and realize what she's saying. Tell her it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone, when she constantly swears and everyone looks down upon her and talks behind her back about how stupid and distasteful she sounds,therefore she should change the way she speaks. Women are very mindful of social proof so making her realize these things can help her change.

I get it that you like redpill forums and the alpha male mentality but being a dick to people and especially those you are interested in isn’t the way to go.

Whats aplha male or 'redpill' or a 'dick' about this ? Didn't your parents tell you how to have proper interactions and not curse all the time ? They didn't do it because they had something to care. It was because they genuinely care about you.

 

[Jack]

She might have been raised with parents who curse a lot or her friends might have been like that growing up. It doesn't mean she can't change. Tell her to consciously have control and realize what she's saying. Tell her it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone, when she constantly swears and everyone looks down upon her and talks behind her back about how stupid and distasteful she sounds,therefore she should change the way she speaks. Women are very mindful of social proof so making her realize these things can help her change.

I get it that you like redpill forums and the alpha male mentality but being a dick to people and especially those you are interested in isn’t the way to go.

"Who the fuck do you think you are to tell me not to fucking swear? Fuck off." Oops. You just lost your chance with her! Have fun - or don't! Just chill. Sheesh. It's a bit more mature to ignore silly behaviours than to try and be religious and force someone to change their Mind - which you cannot do very easily! People don't change their Minds very easily, so don't waste your time, energy, effort in trying to change someone. Alternatively, use Magick to encourage her to chill herself out a bit, as well, if it is necessary.

People naturally get comfortable with silly things and ignore them. The reason why the OP took the effort to seek advice from us is because in his mind its not a silly thing and is a recognizable problem which is causing him strife.

In this case, wouldn't being religious mean doing the same things you've always done and keep getting the same thing you've always gotten ?

Ignoring it will help him keep the girl (potentially). But he's constantly in strife as he's not happy with the relationship and neither can he voice his opinion. In a healthy relationship both parties should be able to give constructive criticism to each other which enables more bonding. Its not good to keep feelings pent up and be silent about things. You should be able to freely talk with the other party about anything. There shouldn't be any fear of communication or the consequence of such when you genuinely want to convey something.

Although as you say beginning with something occult wise he could ease his way into solving the problem. I can't think of anything as a working though, can you ?

 

[sunrise]

This is obviously superficial in my understanding and your 'category' is very widespread.
I have never met AND I SAY NEVER MET, intelligent and/or cult people who run away from vulgar words.
In fact, I could say it's the other way around,

All the 'vulgar' people I've met in my entire life have a vocabulary and a culture that 'butterflies' (like you and others), who dislike bad language, will never reach.
This does not mean that it is ok to swear for free, anywhere, with anyone, etc

Etichete and class are the most important ASSETS in life. Knowing when, where and how to act, dress, speak etc.

Don't run away from swearing or vulgar words there is not such a thing. Just vulgar ACTIONS and stupidity.

 

[Aquarius]

She might have been raised with parents who curse a lot or her friends might have been like that growing up. It doesn't mean she can't change. Tell her to consciously have control and realize what she's saying. Tell her it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone, when she constantly swears and everyone looks down upon her and talks behind her back about how stupid and distasteful she sounds,therefore she should change the way she speaks. Women are very mindful of social proof so making her realize these things can help her change.

I get it that you like redpill forums and the alpha male mentality but being a dick to people and especially those you are interested in isn’t the way to go.

Whats aplha male or 'redpill' or a 'dick' about this ? Didn't your parents tell you how to have proper interactions and not curse all the time ? They didn't do it because they had something to care. It was because they genuinely care about you.

I’m not against telling her that she should use less swear words, I am against humiliating her in front of people, that’s a dick move.

 

[Jack]

I get it that you like redpill forums and the alpha male mentality but being a dick to people and especially those you are interested in isn’t the way to go.

Whats aplha male or 'redpill' or a 'dick' about this ? Didn't your parents tell you how to have proper interactions and not curse all the time ? They didn't do it because they had something to care. It was because they genuinely care about you.

I’m not against telling her that she should use less swear words, I am against humiliating her in front of people, that’s a dick move.

I think you misread what i wrote . I didn't say you should humiliate her infront of everyone . I said you should tell her, this is what people think about you and therefore you should change . Which i take back because what FancyMancy recommended the OP to do is better .

 

[Aquarius]

Whats aplha male or 'redpill' or a 'dick' about this ? Didn't your parents tell you how to have proper interactions and not curse all the time ? They didn't do it because they had something to care. It was because they genuinely care about you.

I’m not against telling her that she should use less swear words, I am against humiliating her in front of people, that’s a dick move.

I think you misread what i wrote . I didn't say you should humiliate her infront of everyone . I said you should tell her, this is what people think about you and therefore you should change . Which i take back because what FancyMancy recommended the OP to do is better .

Tell her it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone, when she constantly swears and everyone looks down upon her and talks behind her back about how stupid and distasteful she sounds,therefore she should change the way she speaks.

No I didn't misread because you wrote exactly that, don't change your words.

 

[Jack]

I’m not against telling her that she should use less swear words, I am against humiliating her in front of people, that’s a dick move.

I think you misread what i wrote . I didn't say you should humiliate her infront of everyone . I said you should tell her, this is what people think about you and therefore you should change . Which i take back because what FancyMancy recommended the OP to do is better .

Tell her it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone, when she constantly swears and everyone looks down upon her and talks behind her back about how stupid and distasteful she sounds,therefore she should change the way she speaks.

No I didn't misread because you wrote exactly that, don't change your words.

No i didn't. You just misread it. I said "tell her(meaning to her) it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone (meaning tell her, when shes talking like that around everyone,it feels dumb). I think im making some kind of linguistic error so your having problems understanding me or is english not your first language ?

 

[TheFlea]

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Hey Dirty Blonde Hair of Tight Curls, you sure Jack didn't mean "Tell her she sounds stupid in front of everybody," you know, as in "you sound stupid when you're cursing in front of everybody", hence his following words about how people talk about her behind her back? Considering they would likely do that if she incessantly cursed in front of them all the time... Just a guess, Blue Pill. Correct me if I'm wrong, Jack.

 

[Powstanie Pogańskie]

I think you misread what i wrote . I didn't say you should humiliate her infront of everyone . I said you should tell her, this is what people think about you and therefore you should change . Which i take back because what FancyMancy recommended the OP to do is better .

Tell her it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone, when she constantly swears and everyone looks down upon her and talks behind her back about how stupid and distasteful she sounds,therefore she should change the way she speaks.

No I didn't misread because you wrote exactly that, don't change your words.

No i didn't. You just misread it. I said "tell her(meaning to her) it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone (meaning tell her, when shes talking like that around everyone,it feels dumb). I think im making some kind of linguistic error so your having problems understanding me or is english not your first language ?

To see if I'm following right, you're basically saying to tell her it makes her sound dumb/illiterate in the eyes of people around her, as opposed to telling her that in a public setting in front of everyone who'd hear?

 

[Aquarius]

I think you misread what i wrote . I didn't say you should humiliate her infront of everyone . I said you should tell her, this is what people think about you and therefore you should change . Which i take back because what FancyMancy recommended the OP to do is better .

Tell her it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone, when she constantly swears and everyone looks down upon her and talks behind her back about how stupid and distasteful she sounds,therefore she should change the way she speaks.

No I didn't misread because you wrote exactly that, don't change your words.

No i didn't. You just misread it. I said "tell her(meaning to her) it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone (meaning tell her, when shes talking like that around everyone,it feels dumb). I think im making some kind of linguistic error so your having problems understanding me or is english not your first language ?

Oh well if you mean it like that I take back what I said.

 

[ZirGohed999]

If one puts up some replies on this thread and matches them with other threads, they will grin widely from the walking contradictions. For instance, the fancymancy who uses their keyboard endlessly was recently emotional about how it's hard to change people but they are here advising the OP to talk some sweet sense into his partner to change her character. I think it better to acknowledge the incompatibility between or better still learn to use only one finger to type so you catch quickly yourself (and remember your stance on similar issues) while typing at the speed of light. Or Maybe one has lots of mutable qualities.

 

[Jack]

No I didn't misread because you wrote exactly that, don't change your words.

No i didn't. You just misread it. I said "tell her(meaning to her) it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone (meaning tell her, when shes talking like that around everyone,it feels dumb). I think im making some kind of linguistic error so your having problems understanding me or is english not your first language ?

To see if I'm following right, you're basically saying to tell her it makes her sound dumb/illiterate in the eyes of people around her, as opposed to telling her that in a public setting in front of everyone who'd hear?

Yeah that was my original advice. But reevaluating it I believe it would a bit more polarizing that Fancy's advice which be softer on the ears.

 

[Jack]

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Hey Dirty Blonde Hair of Tight Curls, you sure Jack didn't mean "Tell her she sounds stupid in front of everybody," you know, as in "you sound stupid when you're cursing in front of everybody", hence his following words about how people talk about her behind her back? Considering they would likely do that if she incessantly cursed in front of them all the time... Just a guess, Blue Pill. Correct me if I'm wrong, Jack.

Atleast someone understands me.

 

[FancyMancy]

If one puts up some replies on this thread and matches them with other threads, they will grin widely from the walking contradictions. For instance, the fancymancy who uses their keyboard endlessly was recently emotional about how it's hard to change people but they are here advising the OP to talk some sweet sense into his partner to change her character. I think it better to acknowledge the incompatibility between or better still learn to use only one finger to type so you catch quickly yourself (and remember your stance on similar issues) while typing at the speed of light. Or Maybe one has lots of mutable qualities.

How is it a contradiction to say that it is very difficult to change people and then say to not be aggressive and forceful to befriend them in the hopes that they might chill out a bit? Even with Magick use, if the target is very resistant, then it still wouldn't be very easy. Also why do you think I was emotional in what I said? Lastly - have we established that this girl is Nero's partner yet, or am I correct in thinking that they're not together still?

No i didn't. You just misread it. I said "tell her(meaning to her) it feels like she's dumb or illiterate in front of everyone (meaning tell her, when shes talking like that around everyone,it feels dumb). I think im making some kind of linguistic error so your having problems understanding me or is english not your first language ?

To see if I'm following right, you're basically saying to tell her it makes her sound dumb/illiterate in the eyes of people around her, as opposed to telling her that in a public setting in front of everyone who'd hear?

Yeah that was my original advice. But reevaluating it I believe it would a bit more polarizing that Fancy's advice which be softer on the ears.

I haven't claimed to be an authority on things. It was quite obvious to me that if you tell someone, in private or in public, that they have a list-full of problems and that you want them to change to make you happy, then they would more likely than not not enjoy your company anymore.