Toxic Femininity - Real or Fake, it still says a lot

[FancyMancy]

 

[Priest - Alexandros Iowno]

While there are many women like these, I feel that it is purposeful that girls of this kind are shown and created predominantly in the media.

I would also state that, very important, and people might not know, especially young men, women of this kind and most of them, do shape and assimilate what a man would teach her.

In other words, in a relationship, a woman will suit the man. Ideally and in general.

Therefore this toxic *NOT* femininity (that's masculine not feminine) is something easily changed by someone and a true prospect of love.

Women who are interested and are genuine on love and other types of relationships, who are serious about you and share themselves to you, as a man, will change for you extensively. Will accept many things.

The rest is on low level existence and games. No one should see the world by these lenses in their personal life, rather know this is the case externally.

A girl like the above, if ignored, would actually pursue the man, even if he's short.

There is also more than "enough" good and beautiful women in this world, who don't have their ego in dream land, and are true and genuine beings of beauty. Women who are beautiful yet don't even know it to the extent, who are listening and willing to sustain and surrender to a man.

If you are a man who wants very feminine girls, there are plenty. As there are plenty of types and way one can know or change that.

I strongly advise to experience the world and not accept that all women are of the same kind, or whatever bullshit you see.

A motive that mature men find, is that young females who are "boss bitches" are actually shaking at the touch of a powerful man. And when things get onto a truthful and open territory, they abide by their inner core femininity.

Women need real men for them to become real women. The opposite is also true.

Women are also exceeding the logical and reality faculties by their age against most men of the same age. One should learn by that.

 

[xlnt]

:lol:
That was actually quite funny.
I've had similar experiences from online dating.

One girl blocked me out of nowhere.
In the conversation I mentioned I work in a store in the central city I live in.
As she lives in another city she replied "you mean Uppsala or what? Haha", and I replied "Hmm I think it says Stockholm in my profile...". Then she immediately thought I was rude and blocked me.


This kind of 'toxic' behaviour is probably rooted in low self esteem and bad health due to lack of meditation and all other things we here are in the know of. Feminism and other toxic culture also plays in, but I would mostly say this is a health and self esteem issue more than anything else. I feel bad for these people.
They should go to http://www.templeofzeus.org and find the Truth about their unlimited potential and how to activate it.
Then we would not find these kind of cringy behaviours anymore.

 

[Bluecollarbutch666]

While there are many women like these, I feel that it is purposeful that girls of this kind are shown and created predominantly in the media.

I would also state that, very important, and people might not know, especially young men, women of this kind and most of them, do shape and assimilate what a man would teach her.

In other words, in a relationship, a woman will suit the man. Ideally and in general.

Therefore this toxic *NOT* femininity (that's masculine not feminine) is something easily changed by someone and a true prospect of love.

Women who are interested and are genuine on love and other types of relationships, who are serious about you and share themselves to you, as a man, will change for you extensively. Will accept many things.

The rest is on low level existence and games. No one should see the world by these lenses in their personal life, rather know this is the case externally.

A girl like the above, if ignored, would actually pursue the man, even if he's short.

There is also more than "enough" good and beautiful women in this world, who don't have their ego in dream land, and are true and genuine beings of beauty. Women who are beautiful yet don't even know it to the extent, who are listening and willing to sustain and surrender to a man.

If you are a man who wants very feminine girls, there are plenty. As there are plenty of types and way one can know or change that.

I strongly advise to experience the world and not accept that all women are of the same kind, or whatever bullshit you see.

A motive that mature men find, is that young females who are "boss bitches" are actually shaking at the touch of a powerful man. And when things get onto a truthful and open territory, they abide by their inner core femininity.

Women need real men for them to become real women. The opposite is also true.

Women are also exceeding the logical and reality faculties by their age against most men of the same age. One should learn by that.

There are a lot of toxic people like the above but luckily not everyone is like this. it's baffling when you come across them though. They don't want to do anything for you but expect you to drop everything in their lap.

Women and men need to suit and attempt to make one another happy in my opinion, without this being a one-way street. It's unfair to expect someone to accept all sorts of flaws about oneself while reserving the right to pursue what one finds alluring and attractive themselves, and I don't mean just physically. Compromises are important as is seeing each other instead of only one chasing. Why should only one chase and qualify themselves to the other instead of both going for someone they genuinely want a connection with? To me making someone chase you and do all the work is also an ego game. No games. Go after someone if they want you and you want them. No bullshit, no complicated things. Just, "I like you ando you like me, let's get to know each other and make it work." I like that a lot.

 

[Yurei]

This is why I don't bother dealing with the general public. I'm just going to do a working to attract a partner instead.

 

[Bluecollarbutch666]

This is why I don't bother dealing with the general public. I'm just going to do a working to attract a partner instead.

Go for it. Venus square is coming up by the way you might wanna take advantage! I bet with the work and right opening you will attract someone who falls right over you. I hope for you!

 

[tabby]

Well... there's a reason she's single. :lol:

The hilariousness of the hypocrisy aside, it's also a small example of how far desiring a healthy partner has basically been turned into a crime these days in people's minds. Girl wants tall guy, no issues. Guy wants healthy weight girl but he's the one with the verbal bullet being shot through his head? The absurdity is unreal.

 

[Bluecollarbutch666]

To me making someone chase you and do all the work is also an ego game. No games. Go after someone if they want you and you want them. No bullshit, no complicated things. Just, "I like you ando you like me, let's get to know each other and make it work." I like that a lot.

Sounds like you wouldn't get along with Venus in Aries types :lol:

No I wouldn't, others might but hey everyone is set up different granted also everyone's ideal courting style. I just believe in putting the work and authentic selves from both sides and maybe this is done In different ways by different people. Different dynamics I may not care for or like maybe mutual to two other people and as someone who studies astrology it would be blind to be honest not to recognize that. A courting behavior I find attractive someone else may not.

 

[xlnt]

:lol:
That was actually quite funny.
I've had similar experiences from online dating.

One girl blocked me out of nowhere.
In the conversation I mentioned I work in a store in the central city I live in.
As she lives in another city she replied "you mean Uppsala or what? Haha", and I replied "Hmm I think it says Stockholm in my profile...". Then she immediately thought I was rude and blocked me.

There are different types of sarcasm, and different ways of being sarcastic. It might seem normal to you to say something like that, but it actually is a negative type of sarcasm which is off-putting and would make someone feel stupid. Rather, it would be more likely a case of healthy self esteem to not tolerate a message like that, and perhaps someone with low self esteem would have continued the conversation with you.

I'm not saying this to be mean or to shame you at all. I'm only telling you for your awareness and future advantage. There are many people similar who haven't learned to differentiate between playful sarcasm (or positive sarcasm which doesn't offend anyone) and negative sarcasm (which hurts people and comes across as a deliberate attack).

I had smiley after it just so you know.

 

[Soul Wings]

Again like Cobra said it's not about masculinity or femininity. She is just a toxic loser. Both of them are losers.
Preferences? OK. Perfectly fine.
Double standards, not OK. I get the message.
You wanna open a conversation with your preference, we already know who you are. The girl is pathetic and can't handle the heat in the kitchen. I wouldn't bother with a guy who did the same thing.
Still the guy is fucking petty anyway, don't waste your breath, just leave losers like this alone and spend your time finding better girls.

 

[High Priestess Lydia Coventina]

In any case it's no reason to block someone just like that unless you're some snowflake.
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I'll add my 2 cents: Communicating online is not the same as in person. So while you used a smiley face to that girl, she had no way of knowing if you were actually making a joke. Smiley faces do not guarantee a legit smiling face on the other end of the internet. A lot of weirdos use smiley faces to make themselves seem nice. So while you are probably a great guy, the weirdos ruined the nice reputation of the smiley face for you.

Girls are flooded by messages from men online. It's insane. For every decent guy, they have hundreds of creeps after them. I tried internet dating once after a friend recommended it, I did not even have my pic up and I received so many emails my inbox imploded. 500+ in the first few days. I had to quit after like the 4th day.

And, a lot of men are doing "game", or however it's worded. Make the woman feel like she's stupid, then make her feel like he is her only option. Women are used to that tactic, so if she blocked you, don't take it personally. She's just narrowing her many options down.

Again, I will stress: if a woman rejects you (this goes for all men), do not take it personally. It has nothing to do with you personally, it's just that we have too many options and need to narrow down quickly. That woman most likely does not have a hundred hours in a day to carefully consider everyone who tries to talk to her.

 

[Henu the Great]

I honestly find it pathetic and complete asshole-tier type shit that the both of you are essentially putting blame on him for getting pissed and angrily reacting to what is basically some ungrateful bite-the-hand that-feeds type of comment when Jrvan was just trying to help you Xlint.

Relax. I observe a pattern and told another member to not worry about it. If you see this as as being an asshole, so be it.

 

[xlnt]

Just woke up to this shit show omg :lol:
Thread derailed

 

[Henu the Great]

As I mentioned I have only partially seen other arguments before regarding Jrvan. I have not seen all starts and ends or how exactly those happened and it's not important to me. But when I see someone being wrongly attacked and disrespected especially after trying to extend their hand to someone it really pisses me off.

You should be aware of the broader picture. In this instance, we are not talking about the same subject. You refer to the original comment and intent. I refer to the continuation of the comment and how the thing evolved.