Struggling to deal with my xain family.

[Brandonn]

To give context. I am the oldest in my family, and since around 12 or so I've had to grow up and be the man of the house. My 2 younger brothers the second and third oldest come from a different father.

So for the longest time I have been sacrificing majority of my time and goals in order to make sure everything at home is good, I've always had this issue where my other siblings get special treatment. Where certain things don't apply to them.

But lately every since the enemy has chosen to convince my youngest brother that " Jesus" is speaking directly through him and he is the chosen one all that. It has become intolerable. Now he doesn't need to do anything of behave or listening because " his doing the Lord's work" and he recently decided to head to his Father and complain that I'm telling him off about his bad behaviour and some how it comes back as " Me abusing him, giving him unfair treatment and his special now so he can't be treated like other kids" I have absolutely had it. Now I'm perspective enough to understand that at this point there's nothing I can do and I don't hate them but for my own peace and sanity I just need to leave them.

Which has been rather a hard decision for me to actually come to terms with as I've always put them above everything else, and now I have to put myself.

I am certain this came at the perfect time also as I was planning on marriage within the second half of year and I don't want them there, although I'll have my family there attending.

And this isn't a issue that steams from anything else I haven't had a any bad vibes towards or over the edge issues. It's just only now recently that this has been an issue. So I'm choosing peace.

Also as the " chosen " he somehow acts like his untouchable and all mighty. Walking around judging and condemning those who he doesn't like. Trying to convert people children and created a whole " spiritual group" made of kids. And of course no one seeing and issues with that, and I've even had to beg my mother to talk to him and make sure they both acted normally at a family event we went too cause I didn't want to have them cause more issues.

I would love to hear any additional advice anyone has.

Hail Zeus
Hail Satan

 

[Acolyte Of Pan 666]

Bind his rabbi-worshipping ass

 

[WoadWarrior]

Keep in mind some kids just do stupid shit sometimes, its very likely a phase that being said if its an issue use ISA to bind him from this harmful behaviour, if its your wedding its your rules, dont worry about it for now and honestly I would just starve him for attention as it sounds like hes doing attention seeking behaviour dont engage, dont let it rile you up and if this escalates further please give an update and we can help.

Honestly this might be the sign you need that you need to leave your family home, theres nothing wrong with that and its entirely natural.

That being said its hard to tell how concerning his behaviour is, this could be anything from him trolling to attention seeking to full blown psychosis, so keep in mind my advice is based off the idea that its just a kid being annoying but it may be more severe than that.

 

[OuroborphicMystery]

I was going to suggest binding, but it seems others beat me to it.

You can also remind him, or if needed, everyone, of your position. If you have been the man of the house for so long, your brother lives on your dime. Sure, he has his father too from what I understand but either way, doesn't he live under your roof? Remind him of that. You don't have to get into a "religious" clash - I do love to do that when it is safe for me to do so because I find every opportunity to deconvert people useful; but there is a time and place for that. You can just be a secular-minded guy in this argument and make your argument purely on what a goofy, creepy weirdo he is being; especially with kids and all.

In short, do not be afraid to be a little manipulative and administer some tough love. You are the authority in this case; in literally every sense of the word. Not him. You don't need to "beg" anyone for anything, including your mother (though of course, be respectful to your ancestors). If this little guy is giving you a hard time, just make him stop. I usually find that Zevists, being more evolved beings on average, tend to be too nice when they should be harder sometimes. Don't forget your self-worth.

All the power to you, Brother. May your half-brother get his head out of the rabbi's ass soon. You still share blood, I wish him well.

 

[WoadWarrior]

I should also note when I say bind him I mean in a good and beneficial way, not only is he your family but he is also a child a binding can be very negative and you do not want to do that, I shouldnt have said binding and ISA is probably too strong for this task try Ehwaz rune instead, its far more harmonious and would better in this situation as instead of simply preventing the bad behaviour it will help foster good behaviour.

Keep the affirmations positive, see it more as blessing as your deterring him from harmful behaviours.

 

[Basileus]

Whatever you chose, it's solely your own decision but I wouldn't let myself influenced by others when it comes to family related businesses.

You could not bind/curse and simply leave, you could do both or none. You could leave and never come back and the list continues.

If you're providing and also continue to provide for the Almighty Chosen one then, congrats, you're either a divine slave either a complete fool.

I understand that you've already sacrificed so life for family and this is understandable as I've done the same but we got to consider our own lives.

If he considers of himself being chosen and all powerful, then get him a job at McDonald's and show him real life.

Some people regardless of their beliefs think that all should come to them without having to move the ass, but ass is ugly if not worked out, isn't it?

You should not chose nobody options here but rather look at them all and analyse for yourself, what would best option to take? What's more important for yourself? Has anyone asked you've that? Do you ask yourself that?

 

[Basileus]

Additionally to this.

I don't know how much you're into astrology but from what you've said this looks like an example of Saturn in the 3th house, of where one has this kind of life of which a brother is "privileged" and the other suffers.

This might be your case, if that so then my solely advise would be to break up, you could speak to him and etc but live your life.

 

[TheVoiceOfVictory]

To give context. I am the oldest in my family, and since around 12 or so I've had to grow up and be the man of the house. My 2 younger brothers the second and third oldest come from a different father.

So for the longest time I have been sacrificing majority of my time and goals in order to make sure everything at home is good, I've always had this issue where my other siblings get special treatment. Where certain things don't apply to them.

But lately every since the enemy has chosen to convince my youngest brother that " Jesus" is speaking directly through him and he is the chosen one all that. It has become intolerable. Now he doesn't need to do anything of behave or listening because " his doing the Lord's work" and he recently decided to head to his Father and complain that I'm telling him off about his bad behaviour and some how it comes back as " Me abusing him, giving him unfair treatment and his special now so he can't be treated like other kids" I have absolutely had it. Now I'm perspective enough to understand that at this point there's nothing I can do and I don't hate them but for my own peace and sanity I just need to leave them.

Which has been rather a hard decision for me to actually come to terms with as I've always put them above everything else, and now I have to put myself.

I am certain this came at the perfect time also as I was planning on marriage within the second half of year and I don't want them there, although I'll have my family there attending.

And this isn't a issue that steams from anything else I haven't had a any bad vibes towards or over the edge issues. It's just only now recently that this has been an issue. So I'm choosing peace.

Also as the " chosen " he somehow acts like his untouchable and all mighty. Walking around judging and condemning those who he doesn't like. Trying to convert people children and created a whole " spiritual group" made of kids. And of course no one seeing and issues with that, and I've even had to beg my mother to talk to him and make sure they both acted normally at a family event we went too cause I didn't want to have them cause more issues.

I would love to hear any additional advice anyone has.

Hail Zeus
Hail Satan

I am unsure how old you are currently, among the rest of your situation, but I can advise to formulate a plan to pick up and leave.

I would not call it cowardice, especially if those who do wrong, glorify themselves in their wrongdoing, celebrate it, and actively pull others into it in not only hurting themselves, knowingly or unknowingly, but also pull you and your own personal life into things. That drama is toxic, 1000 fold if not more when it involves the enemy spun into the situation. For now, I would imagine it would be good, especially if you are trying to accelerate your life, to become more independent, to find opportunities to do that in a stable fashion.

I had grown up in a nasty xian environment too, will spare details, but it was not a happy environment to say the least. I left on an unstable footing, and tripped and fell ALOT along the way, though, after quite some time I regained footing and am where I am today. I had enough and I just ran, given there was what would have been potentially a stable direction, it was extremely emotionally motivated as well, without proper control. I give this credit to staying afloat mainly to Zeus and the Gods above all, but I came along eventually despite complicating much of the progress with my own hands. Of course, sparing many details so this reply is not extreme in length.

I ran in search of independence without a proper plan, though, looking back on quick options that would have given some footing so long as I actually applied myself, there are many paid apprenticeships, and if you have the stable time and place, schooling programs to attend to get you into at least some decent place to start out. I had also had to overcome looking down upon money and luxury as well and very much had felt that manifest at points being without it, and what trouble that can get you in to, on the inside and the outside. More obstacles that I had to overcome ultimately, but better now in both of those worlds.

Something that will get you up and out of where you are, maybe even the general city, or state, province, what have you. Get away from those who will constantly be trying to pull you down and find a different community. Practice silence and reserve yourself until you are properly in private so you can stabilize progression. Remember and practice the 36 Virtues and adhere to the chapter of the Al-Jilwah, these do help lead to the straight, if not most straight path forward and I have noticed High Priest Hooded Cobra has done a great job of explaining things in regards to these, that is let alone all I have read of his works, not to mention the many I have not yet read. Don't forget the 18 Life Ethics as well.

If the environment is particularly bad, I would recommend to get out of it, even if it means leaving behind what you used to know. This can also detach you from people's lives, minds, and souls from the passing of time as well, so certain negative connections can fade and break with time, especially if paired with active cleansing rituals to cut negative spiritual links from their source, and send the negative energy and curses back. I would not recommend leaving on a whim unless you have a stable go-to to float you while you restructure your life. I would not recommend this over structuring a more stable approach to exiting a bad place to be as you have described.

I have my own stories of rough times I have lived through, and thankfully I am here today with all Brothers and Sisters here, able to participate and hopefully also do some good here in the Temple of Zeus as well. I believe you will have to find a way to run your course as well and beyond, but do your best to do it in the most stable fashion possible. Ensure the emotions are controlled, used to empower what you are doing, not to overpower your actions. Ask questions, establish goals, accept failures and adapt to overcome so you may be successful in attaining your goals. Consider self-preservation here, as you wake and sleep as no one else but your own self every day and night and no one lives life for you directly but yourself.

I would say, this is a physical approach to this, mainly, and would say a variety of spiritual workings could help a lot of this forward as well. But, if you are in a shared household with the folks causing issues, I have found this to be something that plagued me growing up, and doing things like vibrations of Runes and Mantras was not something I could comfortably accomplish with an actively malicious person nearby most times, one who held power in the environment and could convince the others purely in malicious acts. Not having proper privacy is rough. I was the target until I left, and then others felt that terrible energy and thankfully their eyes, at the least, partially opened to what was really going on, despite it being under similar awful circumstances. As for other places I personally could have done these, that time was used getting myself into other situations that needed to be learned from, but again, thankfully, done and learned now in those things. You will hopefully make better choices than I did. I make these recommendations on a general and slightly similar condition that your situation is similar to what I have experienced, but would apply to many others I am sure. I am also sure I could say more, but I feel this is good for now, though I would answer more questions to help you probe out some answers for yourself if you ask. Try and ask in such a way you protect your identity.

I also hope this is not too much, but, either way, I am sincere in this and would give more detail if I could. Just know that life can be better, and what you are experiencing is not the end, only a glimpse of what you must get past to get to the beginning. You can do it Brother, and likely better than I did. Stay strong and hang in there.


HAIL SATYA
HAIL ZEUS

 

[Brandonn]

Thank you very much for all the responses... I'll heavily consider binding him.

Definitely taking all these things into consideration, the primary reason why I had not moved out earlier was I had to take up the role of 'Man of the house' and take care of everybody.

But it's really gotten to that toxic, no moment for peace level of annoyance. So I had been considering a multiple options but at this point with everything happening it's just seems like time.

 

[Brandonn]

Bind his rabbi-worshipping ass

 

[Brandonn]

That being said its hard to tell how concerning his behaviour is, this could be anything from him trolling to attention seeking to full blown psychosis, so keep in mind my advice is based off the idea that its just a kid being annoying but it may be more severe than that.

It's bordering on the insane in my opinion, " God talks through him", crying because someone unrooted flowers that are God's creation or when he steps on an ant. Into going into full possession... From praying to screaming God's words it really just crazy and his put together this group of kids his age, calling themselve the last stand ...

Which cause a problem with a neighbour cause he doing the same crazy things and their family didn't approve and I had to be the one to cool things down... But can't really say much cause " his the chosen one"

 

[Brandonn]

I was going to suggest binding, but it seems others beat me to it.

You can also remind him, or if needed, everyone, of your position. If you have been the man of the house for so long, your brother lives on your dime. Sure, he has his father too from what I understand but either way, doesn't he live under your roof? Remind him of that. You don't have to get into a "religious" clash - I do love to do that when it is safe for me to do so because I find every opportunity to deconvert people useful; but there is a time and place for that. You can just be a secular-minded guy in this argument and make your argument purely on what a goofy, creepy weirdo he is being; especially with kids and all.

In short, do not be afraid to be a little manipulative and administer some tough love. You are the authority in this case; in literally every sense of the word. Not him. You don't need to "beg" anyone for anything, including your mother (though of course, be respectful to your ancestors). If this little guy is giving you a hard time, just make him stop. I usually find that Zevists, being more evolved beings on average, tend to be too nice when they should be harder sometimes. Don't forget your self-worth.

All the power to you, Brother. May your half-brother get his head out of the rabbi's ass soon. You still share blood, I wish him well.

I've acted multiple times even grounding him ... He just goes rats on me to his dad, who then calls our mom who then has issues and then it's a 3 v 1....

Word for word " Why is my son receiving unfair treatment" was what I heard on their call when my brother had been going in and out the house without telling anyone where his going or when he'll return, in my attempt to correct him ... That's what he goes and does and in no way does he ever apologies but only deliver excuses as to why he did what he did... It's too a point where it's doesn't register in his brain at all.

 

[Brandonn]

Whatever you chose, it's solely your own decision but I wouldn't let myself influenced by others when it comes to family related businesses.

You could not bind/curse and simply leave, you could do both or none. You could leave and never come back and the list continues.

If you're providing and also continue to provide for the Almighty Chosen one then, congrats, you're either a divine slave either a complete fool.

I understand that you've already sacrificed so life for family and this is understandable as I've done the same but we got to consider our own lives.

If he considers of himself being chosen and all powerful, then get him a job at McDonald's and show him real life.

Some people regardless of their beliefs think that all should come to them without having to move the ass, but ass is ugly if not worked out, isn't it?

You should not chose nobody options here but rather look at them all and analyse for yourself, what would best option to take? What's more important for yourself? Has anyone asked you've that? Do you ask yourself that?

I've completely stopped engaging with him or anything around him...

As the oldest brother and man of the house I wanted to talk to him first but now that has been spat back to my face. I'm detaching myself.

It's not worth being friendly too xains to that degree. This is a choice I've fought with for long and had decided to try everything else first and now here I am.

I just wanted to hear everyone else just incase I haven't fully considered things but this all had just solidified what I already knew.

 

[Basileus]

I've completely stopped engaging with him or anything around him...

As the oldest brother and man of the house I wanted to talk to him first but now that has been spat back to my face. I'm detaching myself.

It's not worth being friendly too xains to that degree. This is a choice I've fought with for long and had decided to try everything else first and now here I am.

I just wanted to hear everyone else just incase I haven't fully considered things but this all had just solidified what I already knew.

In all due respect and honesty , regardless of whoever else opinion you should make up your own choices my Brother , that's how life works.
Letting yourself guided by others but not your inner self can lead to some serious interior problems later on , trust me I know.
You shouldn't maybe go too much of an extreme , like fully abandoned but you can't carry on neither the way you've done.
In life, you should always focus on yourself , no matter what , no matter how many people you love or how much enemies you've got.
Live your own life and proceed with your own journey , all of this familial and humans will eventually fall behind and you will be a new.
This life is important , make the best of it , sometimes , we should upgrade ourselves in order to carry on with other things such as other people.
Your priority shouldn't be focusing on others but mostly should be on your own self , in the end so you could ask yourself , what Is that I have accomplished and done?
Was it worth it , would it be worth it ? Is there anything else beside others then yourself , there is , be free Brother and carry on.

 

[OuroborphicMystery]

I've acted multiple times even grounding him ... He just goes rats on me to his dad, who then calls our mom who then has issues and then it's a 3 v 1....

Word for word " Why is my son receiving unfair treatment" was what I heard on their call when my brother had been going in and out the house without telling anyone where his going or when he'll return, in my attempt to correct him ... That's what he goes and does and in no way does he ever apologies but only deliver excuses as to why he did what he did... It's too a point where it's doesn't register in his brain at all.

It's going to be brash and blunt but when someone is being a bitch, it may be a useful strategy "sink to their level", so to speak. And even further beyond. Just to show that yes, you can go there too. If he is "reporting" you to your parents like a kindergartener, you can also do the same but tattle on every little thing he does. Just for a little while. Just to show him how it feels, and that you could do it too - you just didn't want to stoop to it. Often works for me.

Or, as you said, you have already detached. You can simply try my advice if you do happen to, or are forced to, attach again at some point. Otherwise, it's fine. You are already being very mature and constructive - perhaps too constructive.

Salutations to you, Brother. May this issue be resolved in a manner most beneficial and agreeable to you.

 

[TheVoiceOfVictory]

Thank you very much for all the responses... I'll heavily consider binding him.

Definitely taking all these things into consideration, the primary reason why I had not moved out earlier was I had to take up the role of 'Man of the house' and take care of everybody.

But it's really gotten to that toxic, no moment for peace level of annoyance. So I had been considering a multiple options but at this point with everything happening it's just seems like time.

You can do it Brother. The whole situation sounds like a big red flag. I had remembered our High Priest Hooded Cobra 666 had mentioned we ought to not be out martyring ourselves in riots or otherwise, and I would figure in such a case as yours, on a smaller scale, the same can be applied. There has to be a place you draw the line, and if no one else wants to do the right thing, at the minimum, "you"/"we," can, applied as a personal and general fashion to you, and us Zevists, and sometimes that is best done elsewhere. Sometimes it is unavoidable, as if one was a minor, like in my situation for a time, but was able to get up and out, even as rocky as a process that had been. Try and stay out of physical fights, try and not let anyone provoke you.

Stay strong Brother.