Promiscuity

[Godmode]

I don't know about everyone else here but I am personally not promiscuous at all. It has nothing to do with libido or erectile function but mainly a problem with getting close to others. I wish I had a girlfriend so I wouldn't be frustrated all the time but shit happens. I would probably be promiscuous in some other circumstance I guess but I don't know maybe I wouldn't.

So I'm wondering what all your opinions on promiscuity are & also why some people are shy and why some people aren't. I personally think people are promiscuous because they are insecure about their value and don't want to feel replaceable or unlovable. Plus, it's just the mainstream thing so people do it because it feels good and its OK to do. It's easier to say that someone you love doesn't want you to date you because they're scared of how sexual you are, than to admit that maybe the person you really want just doesn't like your personality, trust you, or want you back.

I know that sounds harsh but in my experience it's true in at least some cases. I know a guy who told me that he's able to sleep around a lot because he specifically lowers his standards to groom sexually naive girls. I also know three women like this, who prey on male virgins and rack up large numbers of sexual partners. Its kind of like, "well I only have sex with beta-males so I'm not a REAL slut... per say..." lol
Well anyways the man told me he does this because he's never been able to handle rejection from women he actually really wanted. To me it seems like he's just cheating at the game and damning himself in his own mind in a sense. There's also STDs and nobody who sleeps around actually wears protection. Thoughts?

 

[Tala]

One way we are lucky as SS is we have a chance to get to know our true selves and desires through meditation and spiritual growth.

When I was a teen I fell into a trap that it was cool to be promiscuous because my friends were. This was damaging to me for years after because by nature I'm monagomous I just didn't have time and ability to figure it out.

If anyone wonders if they should be promiscuous or not then probably they are not.

 

[Powstanie Pogańskie]

I'm very interested in sexuality and why we like the things we do and how we go about trying to sate those desires. At one point I thought human sexuality would be an interesting field to study back when I was a psych major. I'm still probably just pulling shit out of the deepest recesses of my ass, but regardless I've contemplated it some.

I think in regards to shy vs. outgoing, that really does lie in the soul and can be seen astrologically, but it is a spectrum that can fluctuate based on that person's circumstance(s). At least that's how it is for me; when my mental health is in a poor state, I am significantly more shy and outright uncomfortable with strangers. Their presence unnerves me to the point that I get frustrated and even angry. Thus during these lowly periods I tend to isolate myself and refuse to do things that might involve interacting with strangers. However, when my health is good and I'm not down, I can be very boisterous and gracious with people I don't know. Conversation flows with such ease that I wouldn't think myself capable of it had I not demonstrated that I am.

On top of that, I am admittedly a horndog that likes to look at all the men, but I never attempt to pursue any of them. After some reflection on my one recent dating experience and my emotions and desires during, I concluded that I'd probably do best in a small, close-knit polyamorous arrangement, and that I'd be open to casual sex with a friend I know. So mayhaps I would lean in the promiscuous direction - or at least I share some traits with promiscuous people. But I can't go full-blown hump-n-dump promiscuity; the idea of seeing someone as just a means to the end that is my sexual release, and/or them seeing me as the same, makes my soul recoil in disgust and shame. The people you mentioned sound exactly like what I'm talking about. As for why they do it, I'd say it varies and it'd be hard to get the truth out of some of them. Some people have those hang ups and fears like your friend; some people are genuinely selfish and couldn't give two shits and a fuck about the people they sleep with. Means to an end.

I think another issue for me is, I don't want to just sleep with anyone. Risk of STDs aside, I feel a need to bond with whoever I might consider having sex with, even if just getting to know them as friends. Because if it turns out I don't like them as people, that attraction might just dissipate into nothingness, and I'd wind up regretting getting intimate with such a person. A big part of why I don't seek out partners amongst the massive crowds of non-Satanists - who I've taken to dubbing "nieświadomki" for the sake of having an ambiguous term - is exactly that. I look down upon a lot of the shit they say and do. And men in the "LGBTQ" community, almost collectively, conduct themselves and their sexual relations in ways I find to be abhorrent. They are rife with questionable "age play", heavily promote race-mixing to the point of shaming all those who would prefer to not do that, and such a startling number are just so...sassily feminine. And not feminine in a manner that would suit a proper Gentile woman of Satan.

I feel that this is a tad rambly, but hopefully my thoughts came out sensibly. We're all certainly free to see to our sex lives as we personally deem appropriate, but in a Yehubor-corrupted society, you will of course see vicious attacks upon and the twisted deformation of sexuality and actions that embrace it. Thus you'll have more people like the ones you described.

 

[Braun666]

Ones chart can factor in the levels of if there's Venus in Gemini for men or Mars in gemini for women. Other supporting factors can amplify this position and make one totally okay with this.

Some of our Gods have several wives. Satan has 5 wives.

While some gods are monogamous. This is individual and there's no right or wrong.

 

[High Priestess Lydia]

Try to see how life would be without xianity or hangups. A lot of people are simply playful when it comes to sex, and don't have hangups. And a lot of people take their time getting to know someone before having sex. It really depends on one's soul nature, and people should just do what's best for them, but of course safely.

But a lot of people unfortunately sleep around for the wrong reasons. Most people are so out of tune with nature :/

 

[Egon]

On top of that, I am admittedly a horndog that likes to look at all the men, but I never attempt to pursue any of them.

I see you're a man of culture as well.

 

[Powstanie Pogańskie]

On top of that, I am admittedly a horndog that likes to look at all the men, but I never attempt to pursue any of them.

I see you're a man of culture as well.

Damn right.~

I suppose though that it's not accurate to say I never pursue any of them; sometimes I do. There's just often such a personality clash with so many of them that I've taken a look-but-don't-touch approach. I've figured that the time for relationships will come when I've fixed problems in my own life, and focusing on those things will ultimately yield more success and happiness in the long run.