I fell in love with a girl then lost her

[Darksage666]

How can you really love someone without knowing them and really connecting? It’s more of just an obsession that you dwell on. It’s better not to do things like this. You should of approached her while you had the chance, though not all girls want to be approached at a gas station lol.

If you see her again, you need to grow a pair and go up and talk to her. You cannot get a women if you aren’t willing to speak for them, even if you do a spell on them. It’d be kind of pointless, if you’re not willing to do the actual foot work.

If you don’t see her again, try to go out somewhere where you can flirt with women or find a new one etc.

Or do a working to attract the right partner in your life instead but be willing to talk to her/approach her. This will work, provided you start the working during the right time and put the right energy into it.

 

[High Priestess Lydia]

Contrary to what some men seem to think, not talking to a woman does not leave her emotionally upset...

Perhaps detaching would be the way to go, detach your energy that you had put into thinking of her over these months.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

Don't get too involved in wanting her. Don't make it worse.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

Maybe do something with Klim or Kama to attract someone. But not her, don't think about her anymore. Just someone in general.

 

[FancyMancy]

Infatuation is a bitch. You need to douse that fire with water, not petrol. If you need to cry, then cry. Then after, realise how silly it was, and then move on. "What doesn't kill you..." Yay! - You have learnt and grown!

By the way - you can't save her Soul. Only she can save her own Soul, really, at the end of the day, no matter how much you think you love her or are just infatuated with her.

After quite a while after you've got over her, then review it (again - you might think it was silly) and see how you feel about her then. Then you will know if you want to do a working to be with her or not. You might also wish to consult a God or Goddess for help.

 

[Shael]

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Talk about it with the Gods and you'll meet her again someday if she is really worth it. If she is meant to become an SS eventually then you will meet again one way or another.

 

[Aldrick Strickland]

Contrary to what some men seem to think, not talking to a woman does not leave her emotionally upset...

Perhaps detaching would be the way to go, detach your energy that you had put into thinking of her over these months.

Why does the cringe sting so bad. A girl walks by you and goes tehe and your dick gets hard. Then its all they talk about. I could never stand guys till they get mid to late 20s.

Its like one of those videos, try not to cringe challenge. Like nails on a chalk board. Gosh.

 

[Syt]

Infatuation is a bitch. You need to douse that fire with water, not petrol. If you need to cry, then cry. Then after, realise how silly it was, and then move on. "What doesn't kill you..." Yay! - You have learnt and grown!

By the way - you can't save her Soul. Only she can save her own Soul, really, at the end of the day, no matter how much you think you love her or are just infatuated with her.

After quite a while after you've got over her, then review it (again - you might think it was silly) and see how you feel about her then. Then you will know if you want to do a working to be with her or not. You might also wish to consult a God or Goddess for help.

Well said. This wisdom needs to be applied before starting any love/sex workings as well.

 

[Jack]

Infatuation is a bitch. You need to douse that fire with water, not petrol. If you need to cry, then cry. Then after, realise how silly it was, and then move on. "What doesn't kill you..." Yay! - You have learnt and grown!

By the way - you can't save her Soul. Only she can save her own Soul, really, at the end of the day, no matter how much you think you love her or are just infatuated with her.

After quite a while after you've got over her, then review it (again - you might think it was silly) and see how you feel about her then. Then you will know if you want to do a working to be with her or not. You might also wish to consult a God or Goddess for help.

Neither petrol not water. I'm optimistic this guy may actually get this girl and so I don't think demotivating him is the answer. The answer might be to tell him to just go do it, because he might be waiting for some sort of confirmation from the outside world .

Therefore the fire needs to be doused with propane and not petrol or water. Speaking of propane, I remembered this eminem song.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uelHwf8o7_U

 

[FancyMancy]

Infatuation is a bitch. You need to douse that fire with water, not petrol. If you need to cry, then cry. Then after, realise how silly it was, and then move on. "What doesn't kill you..." Yay! - You have learnt and grown!

By the way - you can't save her Soul. Only she can save her own Soul, really, at the end of the day, no matter how much you think you love her or are just infatuated with her.

After quite a while after you've got over her, then review it (again - you might think it was silly) and see how you feel about her then. Then you will know if you want to do a working to be with her or not. You might also wish to consult a God or Goddess for help.

Well said. This wisdom needs to be applied before starting any love/sex workings as well.

Having been infatuated before, I'm speaking from some experience.

Infatuation is a bitch. You need to douse that fire with water, not petrol. If you need to cry, then cry. Then after, realise how silly it was, and then move on. "What doesn't kill you..." Yay! - You have learnt and grown!

By the way - you can't save her Soul. Only she can save her own Soul, really, at the end of the day, no matter how much you think you love her or are just infatuated with her.

After quite a while after you've got over her, then review it (again - you might think it was silly) and see how you feel about her then. Then you will know if you want to do a working to be with her or not. You might also wish to consult a God or Goddess for help.

Neither petrol not water. I'm optimistic this guy may actually get this girl and so I don't think demotivating him is the answer. The answer might be to tell him to just go do it, because he might be waiting for some sort of confirmation from the outside world .

I would fear that too much lust, possibly false-love, and certainly hurt feelings would trigger something which would cause a person, in this case satanichonour, to end up not being heterosexual - and probably not by choice - for a decade or more... Then if one particular group of j00z decides in one particular country that she is too young, then there is that on top of it.

Therefore the fire needs to be doused with propane and not petrol or water. Speaking of propane, I remembered this eminem song.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uelHwf8o7_U

Uncontrolled emotions and feelings - or if, as we're talking about infatuation here, then the new burst of emotions and feelings all of a sudden - are lies. They are exaggerated and greedy and selfish, self-serving. I've said numerous times before that people need to think with their brains, not with their emotions and feelings. All it takes is a split-second decision of not using one's brain...

 

[Alek666]

I don't think it is silly because of the things I mentioned you can definately save someones soul and they will listen to you if they love you much sure, and you can read them as said later. To fall in love and just like forget about it I should have mentioned that I feel that I don't want to let her go when I stated do a rune working for another girl I meant that lightly but really not even at all, because of our experience in the story was funny and cute it adds to the intensity of what I feel. I also don't think that I would change my mind to clear it all up you can fall in love with someone if you can see their soul I realize that if you are mature enough you can read someone pretty easily, and that's all. I am not selfish and to let her go would feel selfish to me because of the fact that I care about her very much; that"s just ignoring her letting her go, that would be like letting cancer eat me up lollol. By the way I ran into her once just at a just the local downtown gas station in my town, I don't know anything about her and her friends or where she goes other than school lol. I am pretty sure she remembers my sweater I thought about saying marco ..Blue polo sweater. :lol: down the street. I would love to give her that sweater.
What do you think should I do it.
I mean shes stays up late.... bad girl. and I would rather do that then. That would be cute if I found her that way though.
That is a really good song too.

 

[Alek666]

Sigh* Now I feel like I am put on the spot again and I scolded at, because of something that is totally natural.

 

[Alek666]

Contrary to what some men seem to think, not talking to a woman does not leave her emotionally upset...

Perhaps detaching would be the way to go, detach your energy that you had put into thinking of her over these months.

I replied to your post must not have went through. One important thing (I can't rememeber all I have said) I stated was that in that anatomy in the soul the mans soul can actually stand out as a transcended being and be perfect. My soul has always been so weird, Like It seems like karma is my Dna.
Sorry I lost the rest of the post.

 

[Alek666]

So you are older than her by an amount that is more than half of her entire lifetime? That's weird, you're too old for her. You even said it's illegal where you are.

I also wanted to add that I have seen 17 year olds that look in the average mid 20s. So they would look weird with someone 1 year younger than them.

 

[Aldrick Strickland]

I don't think it is silly because of the things I mentioned you can definately save someones soul and they will listen to you if they love you much sure, and you can read them as said later. To fall in love and just like forget about it I should have mentioned that I feel that I don't want to let her go when I stated do a rune working for another girl I meant that lightly but really not even at all, because of our experience in the story was funny and cute it adds to the intensity of what I feel. I also don't think that I would change my mind to clear it all up you can fall in love with someone if you can see their soul I realize that if you are mature enough you can read someone pretty easily, and that's all. I am not selfish and to let her go would feel selfish to me because of the fact that I care about her very much; that"s just ignoring her letting her go, that would be like letting cancer eat me up lollol. By the way I ran into her once just at a just the local downtown gas station in my town, I don't know anything about her and her friends or where she goes other than school lol. I am pretty sure she remembers my sweater I thought about saying marco ..Blue polo sweater. :lol: down the street. I would love to give her that sweater.
What do you think should I do it.
I mean shes stays up late.... bad girl. and I would rather do that then. That would be cute if I found her that way though.
That is a really good song too.

Love? Love is built through years of trust. Building a relationship. This is infatuation. Over sunk into someone you barely know. Then as soon as it doesnt work she will be discarded like garbage. Onto the next girl who will possibly fulfil all your needs.

Then the girl feels broken and in dismay because how could a guy be so heartless. Act like they care and then suddenly turn and split. Then they think all men are horrible. So they begin to use men to get back at them.

Then the male runs into women that turn the tables on him and suddenly hes all hurt and confused because how dare they do that to him.

What I am suggesting is perhaps dropping the selfishness. Taking a step back and saying how do I get to know this girl. Enjoy your time with her and then fall in love little by little. Then its sweet like a Beautiful poem weaving its way together.

Then suddenly the words drop from your lips to your own shock and surprise, I Love You. The energy intensifies and explodes between you. You kiss softly to seal your new found realization.

But this is Mature Love, something that adults do or people from another era. Everything has progressed to be done faster faster, instant gratification, eat the one marshmallow now, rather then 2 in 10 minutes.

So its I love you, lets bang, then who the Hell are you? Fuck off.

You cheapen love. Oh I love this girl im not with and know nothing about. How about we be Honest here. Im Horny and gonna bang this girl. I really want it. Nothing wrong with that. Thats Nature. But its Honest.

Love is a very special thing. Its not just oh look a girl gave me attention, it must be for her. I do not know if my Lover is Human or Demon. But my soul is Connected to someone. I walk this entire life alone. Because they cannot be with me.

It is Lonely, painful and Dark. But I lived a life before, I felt love, true love. It lasts lifetimes. You go without because why would you want anything other then them?

Every girl you guys get with anymore is the one youre gonna marry, you havent even been on Date one yet, but its gonna happen. Then it falls apart very quickly and immediately, look I found wife number 2!

Why, I have never done this and do not understand. Stop cheapening Love with this child play pretend shit. I would like to hear from people that truly make it work and find that special bond that will last for a thousand years or more.

 

[Alek666]

What the hell this is not even creepy, but if one of the gods that looked younger that did this that probably be just fine with you. Wouldn't it.
I have had it with this post anyway most of the time I just get put down here and I am not even new. :lol:
waking up to being called creepy three times when obviously creepy is not my intention neither is being foreceful. Age was already talked about lucifitus and you can read about that, it also depends on the person.

 

[Alek666]

You want to force yourself on a young child. You know that this is not okay. You don't even know her.

A couple weeks ago, I was at the pet store and a girl about 15 years old was staring at me all mesmerized like she wanted me and couldn't look away, for like 5 minutes when I was standing on line then paying for my items across from her. So I did the right thing and 100% ignored her, and never thought about it again until now. That's the normal reaction to a situation like that. You're just being creepy!

That's not being creepy lucifitus. I have thought about her more than until now.. Also, not talking to her for reasons of lack of void meditation, which if you knew my problem, was completely respectable decision, not talking to her. it is not being creepy. And i wasn't in line for 5 minutes with her. We walked past eachother twice, is that creepy too., I suppose so. :lol:

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

I am a musician also and look beautiful and clean, I do have good blood. Anyway these girls come up to me frequently when I play guitar so it's no wonder. I'd be happy to show you what I look like.

So what? What does that have to do with anything?

We are satanists and it makes me question how much power and ability you think you have because you should be surprised by your power.

I don't think that I have much power at all, and I never pretend to either. I've never said that I have a lot of power. I'm often wrong about things and I don't pretend to be perfect, but I'm usually right about a lot of things. I'm just trying to help, and I'm saying what I think I should say to help you. If you don't like it that's your problem. Sometimes people need to be told things that they don't want to be told, because it's what's best for them. You're seeming crazy, and I'm just trying to help you stop that before it gets any stronger and worse than it already is.

 

[Jack]

Infatuation is a bitch. You need to douse that fire with water, not petrol. If you need to cry, then cry. Then after, realise how silly it was, and then move on. "What doesn't kill you..." Yay! - You have learnt and grown!

By the way - you can't save her Soul. Only she can save her own Soul, really, at the end of the day, no matter how much you think you love her or are just infatuated with her.

After quite a while after you've got over her, then review it (again - you might think it was silly) and see how you feel about her then. Then you will know if you want to do a working to be with her or not. You might also wish to consult a God or Goddess for help.

Well said. This wisdom needs to be applied before starting any love/sex workings as well.

Having been infatuated before, I'm speaking from some experience.

Infatuation is a bitch. You need to douse that fire with water, not petrol. If you need to cry, then cry. Then after, realise how silly it was, and then move on. "What doesn't kill you..." Yay! - You have learnt and grown!

By the way - you can't save her Soul. Only she can save her own Soul, really, at the end of the day, no matter how much you think you love her or are just infatuated with her.

After quite a while after you've got over her, then review it (again - you might think it was silly) and see how you feel about her then. Then you will know if you want to do a working to be with her or not. You might also wish to consult a God or Goddess for help.

Neither petrol not water. I'm optimistic this guy may actually get this girl and so I don't think demotivating him is the answer. The answer might be to tell him to just go do it, because he might be waiting for some sort of confirmation from the outside world .

I would fear that too much lust, possibly false-love, and certainly hurt feelings would trigger something which would cause a person, in this case satanichonour, to end up not being heterosexual - and probably not by choice - for a decade or more... Then if one particular group of j00z decides in one particular country that she is too young, then there is that on top of it.

Therefore the fire needs to be doused with propane and not petrol or water. Speaking of propane, I remembered this eminem song.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uelHwf8o7_U

Uncontrolled emotions and feelings - or if, as we're talking about infatuation here, then the new burst of emotions and feelings all of a sudden - are lies. They are exaggerated and greedy and selfish, self-serving. I've said numerous times before that people need to think with their brains, not with their emotions and feelings. All it takes is a split-second decision of not using one's brain...

There's a fundamental problem with this situation i.e people are under the impression than infatuation can only be fixed through detachment. If you think about it a guy who doesn't infatuate over the girl and gets her asap or gets rejected isn't under this radar or threat intellectually than someone whose been thinking about a girl for a long time. Infatuation is a process through which one associates illusonary qualities with said person which may or may not be true. One way to get over this perpetual hell is to detach and think logically think about the process and try to short circuit it. The other way would be to actually get balls and get with this woman and actually experience what she is in real life so that perpetual hell is replaced with actual understanding of fact. A love that is not acted upon is completely useless. Experience can shatter infatuation with real feelings so there's no reason to tell him to go the other way. Besides the girls going to come of age soon so it won't be illegal. If we were to fear the authorities about every step of the way i doubt in the future any man can ever approach a woman. As an ostensibly mature adult who says he's not a newbie to ss i do not think he would be so rash as to get arrested for absolutely no reason at all.

 

[Jack]

Sigh* Now I feel like I am put on the spot again and I scolded at, because of something that is totally natural.

Then there's nothing to discuss further. You got your confirmations and you can see the majority of people here are against the idea. I for one have no problem morally about this if you approached her romantically in the next year as it becomes legal for you to do so. Do what you feel is correct.

 

[Alek666]

...

Talk about it with the Gods and you'll meet her again someday if she is really worth it. If she is meant to become an SS eventually then you will meet again one way or another.

Thank you, Shael. I will talk to Satan.

 

[Alek666]

I don't think it is silly because of the things I mentioned you can definately save someones soul and they will listen to you if they love you much sure, and you can read them as said later. To fall in love and just like forget about it I should have mentioned that I feel that I don't want to let her go when I stated do a rune working for another girl I meant that lightly but really not even at all, because of our experience in the story was funny and cute it adds to the intensity of what I feel. I also don't think that I would change my mind to clear it all up you can fall in love with someone if you can see their soul I realize that if you are mature enough you can read someone pretty easily, and that's all. I am not selfish and to let her go would feel selfish to me because of the fact that I care about her very much; that"s just ignoring her letting her go, that would be like letting cancer eat me up lollol. By the way I ran into her once just at a just the local downtown gas station in my town, I don't know anything about her and her friends or where she goes other than school lol. I am pretty sure she remembers my sweater I thought about saying marco ..Blue polo sweater. :lol: down the street. I would love to give her that sweater.
What do you think should I do it.
I mean shes stays up late.... bad girl. and I would rather do that then. That would be cute if I found her that way though.
That is a really good song too.

Love? Love is built through years of trust. Building a relationship. This is infatuation. Over sunk into someone you barely know. Then as soon as it doesnt work she will be discarded like garbage. Onto the next girl who will possibly fulfil all your needs.

Then the girl feels broken and in dismay because how could a guy be so heartless. Act like they care and then suddenly turn and split. Then they think all men are horrible. So they begin to use men to get back at them.

Then the male runs into women that turn the tables on him and suddenly hes all hurt and confused because how dare they do that to him.

What I am suggesting is perhaps dropping the selfishness. Taking a step back and saying how do I get to know this girl. Enjoy your time with her and then fall in love little by little. Then its sweet like a Beautiful poem weaving its way together.

Then suddenly the words drop from your lips to your own shock and surprise, I Love You. The energy intensifies and explodes between you. You kiss softly to seal your new found realization.

But this is Mature Love, something that adults do or people from another era. Everything has progressed to be done faster faster, instant gratification, eat the one marshmallow now, rather then 2 in 10 minutes.

So its I love you, lets bang, then who the Hell are you? Fuck off.

You cheapen love. Oh I love this girl im not with and know nothing about. How about we be Honest here. Im Horny and gonna bang this girl. I really want it. Nothing wrong with that. Thats Nature. But its Honest.

Love is a very special thing. Its not just oh look a girl gave me attention, it must be for her. I do not know if my Lover is Human or Demon. But my soul is Connected to someone. I walk this entire life alone. Because they cannot be with me.

It is Lonely, painful and Dark. But I lived a life before, I felt love, true love. It lasts lifetimes. You go without because why would you want anything other then them?

Every girl you guys get with anymore is the one youre gonna marry, you havent even been on Date one yet, but its gonna happen. Then it falls apart very quickly and immediately, look I found wife number 2!

Why, I have never done this and do not understand. Stop cheapening Love with this child play pretend shit. I would like to hear from people that truly make it work and find that special bond that will last for a thousand years or more.

Actually Aldrick the definition of love is a deep interest and pleasure in something or an intense feeling of affection but the more proper way to go about it is what you stated, yes. I'm not trying to nazi you but when you say stop cheapening love with this child play pretend shit, it is like an insult so please allow me to explain.
This is not child play this is more serious to me because I have already stated unless it was not approved that this was not about selfishness to me I said that she likes me I could tell clearly, and that I wanted to give her what she wanted not what I wanted, I want her to be happy, I want her to be with a satanist from joyofsatan which I pick to be me, I want to give her knowledge, I don't want her to age!!! What I got from what Lydia is literally stating that girls won't fall for you no matter who you are and that guys are no big deal, You can easily see when an attractive Satanist is a big deal, the knowledge we have received here is no joke. and so Lydia I am not that average guy that has been taken away from perfection and the soul but I feel like to have a profile picture on here is necessary. I could brag about experiences but I am not going to.

I have had experience with a relationship not working out because she was disorganized schizophrenic and did not like Satan. So with that being said I am old enough to know these things do happen. To look at every situation in the best case scenario like my soul is supposed to do and not "cheapen love", because I would obviously be on a lower dimension if I were to think negative like you stated, it makes me think that you guys don't know your own power or have the correct wisdom or at least acknowledge the correct wisdom. The purest soul is about positivity and our high priests have stated this about the gods, otherwise they wouldn't be gods. Which leaves me feeling like some of you arn't even on a level you claim to be, even though you have had the necessary experiences.
ie.) Lucifitus obviously does not study his own soul along with he doesn't care about his own morality/karma. There is not a snowflakes chance in hell you are as high as you make yourself out to be dude. No fucking way.
You cheapen love. Oh I love this girl im not with and know nothing about. How about we be Honest here. Im Horny and gonna bang this girl. I really want it. Nothing wrong with that. Thats Nature. But its Honest.
Moving on to the end of your post my emotions for her have nothing to do with the desire for sex with her.
I find it also disgusting and repulsive that I am here talking about loving her and caring for her and because I thought about sex that it's all about sex. Really honestly I don't even want sex with her, that's not what I had planned just cause I fantasized or thought of it.