Relationships #80621 Relationship with the girl Zevist

[Ask Satya Operator]

I have the opportunity to meet such a Zevist-girl, and I want to become her support and emotional support (stroke her, listen to her and hug her). But at the same time, I have my own girlfriend, who is now very far away, and we have an agreement not to communicate with others, except in business relationships, that is, we have a ban on any close contact. My girlfriend doesn't mind if I arrange this format, communicate with her and live together to help each other, but without an emotional connection. The problem is that this girl is in love with me and I don't know if I should start communicating at all then.And at the same time, I understand that we, brothers and sisters, have to help each other and support each other.

 

[Head Guardian Blitzkreig]

I have the opportunity to meet such a Zevist-girl, and I want to become her support and emotional support (stroke her, listen to her and hug her). But at the same time, I have my own girlfriend, who is now very far away, and we have an agreement not to communicate with others, except in business relationships, that is, we have a ban on any close contact. My girlfriend doesn't mind if I arrange this format, communicate with her and live together to help each other, but without an emotional connection. The problem is that this girl is in love with me and I don't know if I should start communicating at all then.And at the same time, I understand that we, brothers and sisters, have to help each other and support each other.

To be honest, this looks like you are in need of intimacy that your girlfriend cannot currently provide, so you are trying to find this here and justify it as platonic or friendly support. Did ToZ tell you that you must move in with other Zevists? I thought we said the opposite, which is to stay private. Further, they can receive help through text message, including writing to us here, not just you. There is not a real requirement that they must be hugged by you for spiritual growth.

I think there is a different problem here. In my opinion, what you have with this girl is already past a business relationship at this point, as you know she outright loves you and you also have intimate emotional desires towards her. Further how can you live together in a house, a place of shared living, and not develop emotional bonds?

You should bring this up with your girlfriend and tell her honestly, possibly consider even asking for her permission for this if you really want, but it should be understood that there is this obstacle here in the relationship. Even if you block yourself from this current Zevist girl, the desire for intimacy will remain.

Without physical contact with your current girlfriend, there should be a serious attempt to create a better connection with her, like regularly scheduled video calls, including sexual interaction. There are many options for this if one looks around. Some people can go without this, but the reality of long distance relationships is that the bonding activities reduce significantly, which can be hard on both people and needs real effort to counter.

 

[Asra]

I think this crazy arrangement is meant to fulfill some needs on your side. You shouldn't mistake cuddling and living with other women for something platonic. Helping or listening to her is only a pretext. This kind of interaction isn't needed if you actually want to help somebody. You have desires you should admit, and look to fulfill them without cheating on your girlfriend.

we, brothers and sisters, have to help each other

And do not use the community rules as a pretext for whatever bizarre views on relationships you might have. Or for meeting Zevists in real life.

 

[ManofZeus]

I have the opportunity to meet such a Zevist-girl, and I want to become her support and emotional support (stroke her, listen to her and hug her). But at the same time, I have my own girlfriend, who is now very far away, and we have an agreement not to communicate with others, except in business relationships, that is, we have a ban on any close contact. My girlfriend doesn't mind if I arrange this format, communicate with her and live together to help each other, but without an emotional connection. The problem is that this girl is in love with me and I don't know if I should start communicating at all then.And at the same time, I understand that we, brothers and sisters, have to help each other and support each other.

Hello, aaa, I'm beginning to look at you some how? weren't you the one who posted last year that you don't like girls because of your experience "whorish women". Hope this girl far way isn't the same girl, because if honestly you know it's the same girl then you'll not like the shock of it. That's a rhetoric question and you should give it the appropriate answer and action.

Secondly you have to know what you don't want and what you want in a girl. Having a zevist girlfriend is not a solution because she's a zevist. But having the best attitudes and characters based on your person towards a woman and what you want and don't want in a girl.

Thirdly, from a masculine point of view, you don't want to live with a woman if you have your life to live. Trust me. Most men know.


Thirdly, you sound needy. I mean posting this means it's so important for you. I'll advise and that you shouldn't have a human being as your priority of decisions.

The Gods, your money with purpose of getting to give to the Gods, your growth and accomplishment should be your life changing decisions not a human being.

Sooner or later you'll understand!

 

[High Priestess Lydia]

Hello, aaa, I'm beginning to look at you some how? weren't you the one who posted last year

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