An important issue for me

[AlevRA]

I recently shared a post about how manipulative and awful my mum is.
She’s currently seeing a man, and he’s just as much of a scumbag as she is; they’re currently seeing each other and are thinking of getting married soon. This man is against me going to university because I’m a girl living away from my mum, and he’s constantly talking to my mum about it. My mum is emotionally very weak and would do anything for a man, so could you suggest a spell that would make this man feel repulsed by her? Which runes would work for this?

There’s something about that man that really irritates me; I don’t want to live in the same house as him.
I don’t want him to have a relationship with my mum.
I’m 22 years old and studying at university on a full scholarship on my own. I don’t want to lose my freedom just because of that bloke, and I don’t want him in my life. They’re pressuring me to study at university in the same city as them and live with them, and they’ve only just met. I don’t want to lose everything because of that idiot. It’s impossible for me to cut my mum out of my life; she’s a woman who’s completely obsessed with me.

 

[AlevRA]

Ever since I was eight years old, I’ve been struggling with my mother’s sexual, physical and psychological abuse. The men she brings into her life are just as awful as she is. I know that if it weren’t for my mother, I’d be in a situation a hundred times better than where I am now. I’ve distanced myself as far as I physically can, but they’re still trying to pull me back. I really need a lot of help with this. I don’t want those men—or my mother—to be a part of my life. in my life. To achieve this, I’m studying at university and working two jobs, but she still has the chance to lock me back in that house. I need another year to escape physically. Until then, I must not return to that house, and she must not marry that man. I really need help.

 

[Alexander666]

You can start creating a Aura of protection for yourself. It will significantly reduce the negative influence of others. Also you can bind this man to not harm you and your mother. You can do aop for your mother too if you have enough time and energy.
Also prey to your GD and ask for guidance.

 

[Alexander666]

If you are dedicated of course.

 

[Lucius Invictus [NG]]

If you're 22, and not living with your mother already, then what is compelling you to obey her request?

In my opinion, your mother's relationship with this man is her own business. And if they're discussing marriage they must be happy, yes?

I understand that there is a negative history between you two. If you need space, take it, but don't use magic unjustifiably. If magical intervention is ethical, then okay (although I don't see the justice in separating your mother from this man unless he is an abuser, as an example).

 

[AlevRA]

If you're 22, and not living with your mother already, then what is compelling you to obey her request?

In my opinion, your mother's relationship with this man is her own business. And if they're discussing marriage they must be happy, yes?

I understand that there is a negative history between you two. If you need space, take it, but don't use magic unjustifiably. If magical intervention is ethical, then okay (although I don't see the justice in separating your mother from this man unless he is an abuser, as an example).

This man doesn’t know me; he’s putting pressure on my mum because I’m studying at university away from home. And this man has only been in my mum’s life for a week – it’s not normal for him to be meddling in my life when he’s only been thinking about marrying my mum for a week
So isn’t there something odd about this? Also, he wants to marry me off to a man in his own family who is 15 years older than me. THIS MAN HAS ONLY BEEN IN OUR LIVES FOR A WEEK, yet my mother is looking favourably on this because she has a submissive personality. Because after university, I put an emotional distance between myself and my mother—meaning that returning home to live with them isn’t good for her either, given that unhealthy dependency she has on me , so of course she’ll see this in a positive light. I was managing the situation fine without this man; my mum puts every man who enters her life at the centre of her world—even a man she’s only known for a week—and she’s interfering in my life based on this man’s word.
I’m studying law and working; I have a very busy schedule, so I can’t work full-time—I work part-time. Also, the unemployment rate in my country is very high, and I won’t be able to find a job straight after graduating; I’ll have to do a compulsory one-year internship. So, if my mum cuts off the money she’s giving me now, forces me back into that house, or makes me marry that man—if he’s already manipulating me this much in the first week, I don’t even want to think about what will happen once we’re married. I want to be a girl who lives on her own, relying on her own strength; I don’t want to be forced to marry a man I don’t know who’s older than me. I’m not in a difficult situation in my life, but living in the same house as that woman—my mother—the 14 years of torment she inflicted on me won’t leave my mind; my body and my mind can’t handle it.

 

[Aquarius]

You must bind your mother and ask help to your Guardian God.

This situation must not be allowed to go on.

Bind your mother for 40 days straight so that she cannot harm you in any way, and pray to your Guardian for help and to guide you in this situation, explain to him/her the whole situation and remain open for guidance.

 

[Lucius Invictus [NG]]

I understand.
Given the context you provided, I recommend, like Aquarius suggested, asking your Guardian God for help. Additionally, a powerful AOP, cultivated over time, will provide the necessary protection to make the situation more manageable, if not resolving some of the lesser karmic events.

It is peculiar that their relationship is so short, along with the marriage arrangements. I am sorry that you are faced with this challenge, but I am confident that the Gods will take care of you, provided that you ask for their help and take action.

Example AOP:

Raise your energies (Pranayama, Yoga, etc)
SOWILO & TIWAZ X multiple of 10 each. For example, SOWILO X 40 - TIWAZ X 40.
I am now completely safe, secure, and protected at all times from all negativity, in the best way for me, forever.
AUM X 1

This will be more effective than a binding spell, and more useful over time to your overall development.

In addition, before bed, you can use the Rune BERKANO for feminine protection (concealment, nourishment, the womb), which may be useful given the marriage prospect.

BERKANO X 18, 36, or 54, etc
These energies now guard and shelter me from all threats to me, mentally, spiritually, and physically, in the best way for me, forever.

 

[Acolyte Of Pan 666]

A ritual to Nemesis may be required here. I know that if some stranger started messing with my life for no good reason, especially for stupid reasons like gender, I'd show no tolerance for shit like this.

No one has a right to control your life this way or abuse you. I wouldn't suggest a ritual for Nemesis unless I thought the person involved started to become a bane to your life, especially if they're trying to threaten your finances and freedom in a dire situation like this. You could ask Nemesis in full respect to justly banish him from your life and perhaps also to enact justice on your mother for her abuse on you. Remember to emphasise justice when praying to the Goddess after the ritual, not just blind rage.

 

[AlevRA]

I understand.
Given the context you provided, I recommend, like Aquarius suggested, asking your Guardian God for help. Additionally, a powerful AOP, cultivated over time, will provide the necessary protection to make the situation more manageable, if not resolving some of the lesser karmic events.

It is peculiar that their relationship is so short, along with the marriage arrangements. I am sorry that you are faced with this challenge, but I am confident that the Gods will take care of you, provided that you ask for their help and take action.

Example AOP:

Raise your energies (Pranayama, Yoga, etc)
SOWILO & TIWAZ X multiple of 10 each. For example, SOWILO X 40 - TIWAZ X 40.
I am now completely safe, secure, and protected at all times from all negativity, in the best way for me, forever.
AUM X 1

This will be more effective than a binding spell, and more useful over time to your overall development.

In addition, before bed, you can use the Rune BERKANO for feminine protection (concealment, nourishment, the womb), which may be useful given the marriage prospect.

BERKANO X 18, 36, or 54, etc
These energies now guard and shelter me from all threats to me, mentally, spiritually, and physically, in the best way for me, forever.

Then why am I experiencing these problems? What happened in my past life that I'm living through this karma in this way?

 

[Lucius Invictus [NG]]

Then why am I experiencing these problems? What happened in my past life that I'm living through this karma in this way?

The soul descends through the planetary spheres, acquiring "garments" (χιτῶνες) of increasingly dense psychic material. The thickness of these garments determines how much effort will be required to shed them. Some souls wear light garments. Some wear heavy ones. The path is the same for all, but the distance varies.

Eudaimonia: The End Goal of Zevism

 

[Meow!]

since you are above 18. perhaps you can use the law aspect that you are studying to help you as well. check things out to see what legal rights you have to make sure you can't be forced to marry against your will. Protect yourself in every way you can. Center your self mind and body with the various ways you can protect yourself spiritually and phsyically.
good luck.


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