I always wondered, does your astrology chart even apply to your demoness? I know their are signs on your chart that show you have a demoness(it seems as if I am the only one here who didn't have one in past lives lol) but I thought the astrological aspects would only apply to humans as the gods are beyond such influences. This is a reason I am glad to have a demoness in the first place because looking at my chart it didn't look so good on the relationship side tbh and I kinda avoided all of that by choosing this option, so I hope it still doesn't have an effect. This is perhaps why your partner isn't domineering and it would only apply if you sought out a human, I have no indication of a dominant partner in my chart yet my demoness is very dominant so kinda the opposite situation lol, different preferences I suppose. Seeing this to be the case I don't think it applies, nevertheless even though I escaped my fate in my chart you are correct it isn't easy, but definitely worth it IMO.