Relationships #79094 my partner is on coke

[Ask Satya Operator]

My partner has taken up the habit of doing coke and he is destroying himself and me and the relationship. He turned into this lying and manipulative monster who would choose his addiction and friends that enable him over me. he attracts these bad people, dealers and enablers. he has so much potential and he is just wasting it. I just want my boyfriend back. we are both Zevists. what to do? any workings I can do? how too keep these people away? do i let him hit rock bottom? do i just protect my energy? please help

 

[Blitzkreig [TG]]

My partner has taken up the habit of doing coke and he is destroying himself and me and the relationship. He turned into this lying and manipulative monster who would choose his addiction and friends that enable him over me. he attracts these bad people, dealers and enablers. he has so much potential and he is just wasting it. I just want my boyfriend back. we are both Zevists. what to do? any workings I can do? how too keep these people away? do i let him hit rock bottom? do i just protect my energy? please help

Hitting rock bottom is synonymous with a Saturn-style event and subsequent realization of change in the person. However, as Zevists, we create our own changes in our world, and therefore ourselves or others do not necessarily need to learn "the hard way" if it can be helped.

However, the question then becomes, how much energy is needed to do this, and whether this is a fair workload for yourself. Can you handle the additional workload without making too large of a sacrifice in your own life and advancement? Further, would the end result be worthwhile for you, such as if he was finally healed? Instead, would it make more sense for yourself to look for a partner who is able to give a benefit to your life, rather than only take at this current moment in time?

This is a question that you can pose to the Gods, such as Valefor, for example, so you can make a clear decision on the matter. Maybe they will say it is possible to push your boyfriend far enough out of his hole within only 3 months of a regular working. Alternatively, maybe the opposite is true, and he is in too far, and the effort required to unlodge him is either unrealistic or without enough of a reward for yourself.

Since he is a Zevist, maybe the Gods could have an interest in saving him and would support you, but at the same time, your partner should not be a charity case, and there are other Zevists who also need and would make use of help given. Similarly, good partners do exist out there for you.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

You can't fix other people. And he will not fix himself if he doesn't want to. Will you just wait while he ruins your whole life waiting for him to possibly decide to want to change? And maybe he never gets better and only continues to get even worse. Maybe even stealing everything from you to sell to buy more drugs. I know multiple people who were in these situations and for all of them, it only continued to keep getting worse. One woman I know lost all of her life savings and her home that she bought herself before she met him because her coke addict jew husband stole so much from her, and also stole so much from many other people. He destroyed her credit by secretly putting debts in her name. She lost everything.

 

[HPS Lydia]

As he's a Zevist, tell him it will take him YEARS to recover spiritually if he continues. He needs to stop NOW and work to recovery. We have another Zevist who did coke, and his soul and aura were so filthy for years, it was like continuously regurgitating black tar. Drugs will also affect his mind, opening him to enemy influence.

Tell him to stop now before it's too late... because at some point, it will be too late for him in this life, and his only option will be to hopefully heal spiritually in his next life.

You'll need to tell him this, and if he refuses to stop, ask the Gods. If he still refuses, you will need to make a choice: stay like that, or protect yourself by leaving and cutting ties. Just because someone's a Zevist doesn't mean we have to suffer and be dragged through that lifestyle.

 

[Recycler1337]

If your partner has the money for pure, natural cocaine, I'd say they're quite wealthy.If they're rich, they have access to much more useful, enjoyable entertainment and activities; it's extremely strange that they don't understand this like Zevist.If it's chemical/dirty cocaine, they should realize that they won't last long on it, and that literally every dose destroys them in an extremely powerful way, which they should be able to feel themselves.In short, without their own awareness, understanding that they don't need it, etc., there's little they can do to help, unfortunately.

 

[Kitsunebi]

My partner has taken up the habit of doing coke and he is destroying himself and me and the relationship. He turned into this lying and manipulative monster who would choose his addiction and friends that enable him over me. he attracts these bad people, dealers and enablers. he has so much potential and he is just wasting it. I just want my boyfriend back. we are both Zevists. what to do? any workings I can do? how too keep these people away? do i let him hit rock bottom? do i just protect my energy? please help

It's sad that Zevists can be their own worst enemies. Give him two choices, he stays a coke addict and you cut all ties with him or he 180's his life and makes a good change out of himself.

 

[Kitsunebi]

It's sad that Zevists can be their own worst enemies. Give him two choices, he stays a coke addict and you cut all ties with him or he 180's his life and makes a good change out of himself.

Don't want to sound blunt here but he needs some sense knocked into him or he'll be a goner. Not everyone can be saved and I hope your boyfriend doesn't become the subject of being unsalvageable.

 

[𝐄𝐧𝐢𝐠𝐦𝐮𝐬]

Indeed, this is a very morally difficult situation for you. In addition to the answers given to you by the Clergy above, which are quite comprehensive, I would like to emphasize the following.

Your partner is in a state of voluntary enslavement. Cocaine and substances like it — are not just chemical compounds; they are Tools of the Enemy, designed for the Destruction of the Soul and the Blockage of any Spiritual Advancement. This isn't spread for no reason; it's a perfectly viable Tactic for the Enemy. A person following our Path strives for Perfection. You surely understand that drugs work in the exact opposite direction: they subjugate the Will, cloud the Mind, create breaches, Holes in the Aura, destroy the Chakra mechanism, and significantly impede a healthy Energy Exchange in the Spiritual Body.

This should be understood in the context of what was written by Lady Lidia. Your partner truly doesn't have much time to come to his senses. Because your partner isn't just «making a mistake»; he is committing a betrayal against himself, against his Divine Potential. He has traded the Work on his Soul for a cheap and fleeting surrogate for power, which is ultimately destroying him. The people who surround him — dealers and fellow users — are not just «a bad crowd». They are pawns of the Enemy's Forces who feed on his downfall. And your partner could very well have been guided down this path of self-destruction by the Enemy. They love to provoke situations where a Zevist hits rock bottom, while his Zevist circle remains helpless and powerless over it. What your partner has been drawn into — is a living manifestation of Entropy and Spiritual Regression. Keeping those who surround your partner at a physical distance is not enough.

It is necessary to completely sever all Energetic Ties with them, including those that pass through your partner. They are visible on the Astral, so I advise performing the Working only if you can perceive them with your Psychic Sensors. They can be cut, you can try to Program your partner’s Aura and Consciousness (Hypnosis is also an option, but it is difficult), reinforce the Effect with Affirmations, ask the Gods to accompany the Magical Process and do all of this during an Astrologically favorable period. This Working can be performed daily for a 180-day period, after the Full Moon and before the New Moon. The Working must begin during the Waning Moon Cycle. For this, you have to use the Mantra «TH», Focusing the Vibrations on his Chakras, Illuminating your Astral Instrument with a White/Golden Radiance. Then, to give the Working Power and Burn away all repeated attempts to form such attachments, you must choose a Sun Mantra: either SURYA or RAUM. And yeah, before the Working, you will need to Cleanse his Aura and Chakras throughout the entire interval, if possible.

But it is very important to stress here, to avoid any misunderstanding, that this is exhausting, difficult, and clearly not a panacea. It will most likely not have a Powerful Effect right away, if any at all. This is because your partner's Will is broken, which, in general, may allow you as the stronger party to «implant» the Program you need to restructure the Mental Forces of his Soul or even attach a Thoughtform to his Aura to guide him. However, your partner is incapable of being responsible for himself, and his addiction to cocaine is merely a consequence, not the cause, which lies much deeper and must be Healed either by you with the help of the Gods, or by himself. That is to say, what I have proposed above may well weaken such an Influence on him, but it is unlikely to eradicate it completely. He might find something else besides substances and will still be cut off from the Gods. In other words, you will simply be depleting the Energy Resources of your Soul in an attempt to save him, while he will be receiving a resource for his further downfall. In any case, what you can be absolutely certain of is that Protecting your own Soul is now your main priority and your direct Spiritual Duty. If you let him drag you down with him, you both lose. You must become an impenetrable fortress for yourself.

So, TG Blitzkrieg raised some rather important questions in his reply that you should answer for yourself. Is it worth it? Will it be a just measure? Is it worth saving someone, even if that someone is a Dedicated Zevist? For the most part, these are all rhetorical questions. Of course, you may love him, but that doesn't mean unconditional forgiveness, and you should consider whether you need such a partner and what to do next. Your partner's condition may not only be the Influence of Enemy Forces, but also a part of his Karma, which is very difficult to Influence and hard to Heal, and such outside interference can even be dangerous. I would also recommend that you Discern the answer in Meditation and in Communication with your Guardian or Satan/Zeus. Perhaps not all is lost yet, and the Gods will show Favor to your partner, and they will pull him out of this shit.

The question of whether to let him «hit rock bottom» — is a question about the Awakening of his own Will. An ordinary person only begins to fight when the pain of the fall becomes stronger than the pleasure of the addiction. By continuing to support him, to soften the consequences of his choices, including by Magical means, you are, in essence, preventing him from reaching that point. This is cruel, but it's the only real chance, if you are willing to take it and if he is worth it. You must present him with an absolute choice, an ultimatum: either he immediately and irrevocably chooses the Path of Strength, completely cutting all ties with his destructive present and beginning the arduous Work of restoring his Soul and Body, or he chooses his addiction, but does so without you. You must be prepared to walk away, and this is not a threat, but a statement of fact. Your Path — is a path to Nobility, to Goodness, and there is no place on it for those who have consciously chosen slavery and self-destruction, or have done so unconsciously but have no Intention of pulling themselves out of the shit, even with outside help. Perhaps it is precisely complete isolation and the realization of final loss that will force his Will to Life and Strength to Awaken. But the decision must be his to make. The Gods can help him, but you cannot do all the Work entirely for him. Your task — is to preserve yourself, your Strength, and your own Path.

 

[Engineered Trasformation]

As said. How sad is watching a Zevist falling down in his/her own misery?
I can only partially understand what is happening to you, as I have witnessed Dedicated Souls falling back and loosing their path, even partially, for internal problems, karma, weakness.
The point is, at a certain point it is possible the person falling down will bring you down with him and you will need to let him go but as TG suggested, you need to be sure of your chances by asking the Gods, or any divination method you use, maybe both.
You don't want to sink your life, in case it's too far gone. See it this way : he found Zevism in this life, advanced and then doomed to a giant setback. In the next life, or much later in this life, he will try again, very most likely.

Who knows. Maybe seeing you leaving him because of his drug abuse, will ring a very strong bell in his head ?

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

The good news is he is only a boyfriend and you are not married. This makes it easier to seperate from him. Cocaine is one of the most evil and dangerous drugs and it does turn people into subhuman monsters. I am not telling you what to do and it is your choice, but I believe that it would be important to find a way to seperate from him. Be very careful of your own safety because it is unpredictable what he might do. Ask the Gods for help and protection.