Sexuality and human nature

[Shan823]

I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....

 

[High Priestess Lydia Coventina]

Personally, I believe it's completely individual. Look at the Demons, for example. Many are monogamous, many are not. It's what suits you as an individual.

The problem with many people, is that they don't know themselves, so they don't know what suits them. Therefore, they are easily manipulated by the media etc.

People were "forced" to be monogamous. So those who need polygamous/polyandrous relationships were stifled and it negatively affected them in many ways (mentally, emotionally, physically).

And then it went from one extreme to the other, look at how things have become now. Very liberal, sleeping with everyone and their neighbor. And if you observe, many people are buying into the liberal sexuality media-pushed views, but they're not happy. They just go along because they think it's "progress".

Everybody needs to take a step back, and spend some time getting to know themselves and what they truly want/desire/need. And then act accordingly.

Hail Satan!

--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@... wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....

 

[High Priestess Lydia Coventina]

Just to clarify, by "forced to be monogamous", I meant strongly influenced by the church, peers, etc, that was the way it was for centuries until more recent decades. It was drilled into people's heads to be monogamous. Now it's being drilled into their heads to be the opposite.

--- In , "lydia_666@..." <lydia_666@... wrote:

Personally, I believe it's completely individual. Look at the Demons, for example. Many are monogamous, many are not. It's what suits you as an individual.

The problem with many people, is that they don't know themselves, so they don't know what suits them. Therefore, they are easily manipulated by the media etc.

People were "forced" to be monogamous. So those who need polygamous/polyandrous relationships were stifled and it negatively affected them in many ways (mentally, emotionally, physically).

And then it went from one extreme to the other, look at how things have become now. Very liberal, sleeping with everyone and their neighbor. And if you observe, many people are buying into the liberal sexuality media-pushed views, but they're not happy. They just go along because they think it's "progress".

Everybody needs to take a step back, and spend some time getting to know themselves and what they truly want/desire/need. And then act accordingly.

Hail Satan!


--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@ wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....

 

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[Kit Morey]

I think some couples after time get into the same routine of sex. and just as with exercise (sex pretty much is an exercise) if you do the same thing over and over you dont see different results but it doesn't mean you have to look elsewhere. changing up routines sharing new ideas for sex and even spending time apart can make you want to be with that person even more. men and women dont always share the same ideas as to sex alot has to do with boys growing up on porn and thinking every woman wants or should want crazy sex and everything else in the media. I think you should always be open minded and in touch with your partners needs and desires.
. and its said that most people often think of a celebrity or other person when they have sex so whatever floats your boat! Sex itself gives the brain the feeling of strong connection and lust also our aura is so close with the other person sharing the experience with if they have a dirty aura or a bad mess going on in their life it can have an effect on you.  it is mostly male nature to seek out a mate and move on to the next one and the next. but if we make a union and commit ourselves to one person we love it doesnt have to be boring but alot of people end up being lazy with sex it ends up being a chore. Sex has got to be one near the top of the list to maintain a good balance with in a relationship. sometimes you have to be the wife and the mistress all rolled into one LOL    

 

[malikiuun632]

"no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others."

Well this simply isn't true. He may have been reading "Sex at Dawn" which is a popular book the espouses this theory. The problem with that book in particular can be found in the book "Sex at dusk."

And I agree with the others who have commented. Your sexuality is up to you! If you wan to swing or have multiple partners then that is your preference. If, like myself, your perfectly happy and fulfilled in a monogamous relationship then good for you! There is freedom in Father's World.

Peace be with you.

--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@... wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....

 

[darrklady13]

Im not the best person to answer on this....as I believe human beings are not NATURALLY SEXUALLY monogamous. Its painful for many people to read....but its my opinion, and what I have always WITNESSED, EXPERIENCED, in my short 45 yrs.

Love and commitment, yes that is possible. I know the bond of love is strong, especially with commitment, and children.

But physical love, meaning sex,....nahh that is about trust.
Being attracted to other people is normal. But whether you ACT UPON THOSE FEELINGS, is another.

And we humans are weak when it comes to "resisting" pleasure.

But it doesn't mean it can't happen or that people can't be faithful.!!!


And like Lamont said in a different post.....

no one should have to change their own nature, just find someone who's nature is harmonious with your own.

--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@... wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....

 

[Anand Bon]

For me Lovemaking is Sacred,it have always been Sacred, However i have an Tendency to let others Spoil me,take others opinions when i should just ignore it,Love with my Chosen partner will always be sacred and will always be an Art and Show of Affection Love, Deep intimate understanding, Everything will be Different,and i will only be true and very satisfying and enjoyable at all times and so she will,Commitment,Respect,Loyalty is of utmost Importance to me,This is my Preference,When Reading such posts as these Imply ones that fit with your Nature Ignore ones that Dont,There is no Universal Right or Wrong on this, I agree with Cobra.Love is Sacred for me,and will always will be

 

[darrklady13]

I agree as well Anand.

I feel I have only been in love ONE TIME in my whole life, and it was with my ex, a female, even though I have had various relationships with men, and I have 4 children due to it.

Not so much due to it, since I wanted children. But I never could "commit" to a male, sexually or otherwise, since I never felt they were ".....worthy." MY opinion only, no offense.

When I fell in love with my most recent ex, a woman, it was unbelievable the amount of joy and happiness I have ever felt..

now that could be due to the fact she is female...but in relation to other women I had shallow encounters with.....nahhh.


My point is: It was true, it was amazing, it was outstanding.....and I COULD HAVE COMMITTED to her for life.

But she had behavior problems,....mainly, insecurity, and social issues.

And truly, I don't think she truly loved me, at least not the way I loved her.

I don't know where I was going with this....maybe it is just to say, DAmn!!! I would have committed to her, would have been with her even today, if it wasn't for her controlling nature, and her dislike for all things JOYOUS and she didn't even like listening to music!!

She made a "false commitment" to our Lord Satan, did so only to appease me, since after we split, she found a married woman, who is Catholic.....and suddenly, "converted" to xtianity.

That feeling I had for her was REAL, AND LASTING. I could have committed to her , even sexually. But sadly, it failed.

--- In , Anand Bon <anandbon@... wrote:

For me Lovemaking is Sacred,it have always been Sacred, However i have an Tendency to let others Spoil me,take others opinions when i should just ignore it,
Love with my Chosen partner will always be sacred and will always be an Art and Show of Affection Love, Deep intimate understanding, Everything will be Different,and i will only be true and very satisfying and enjoyable at all times and so she will,Commitment,Respect,Loyalty is of utmost Importance to me,This is my Preference,When Reading such posts as these Imply ones that fit with your Nature Ignore ones that Dont,There is no Universal Right or Wrong on this, I agree with Cobra.
Love is Sacred for me,and will always will be

 

[Anand Bon]

you see How That Person foolishly left an Glorious path,But it is a lesson you and her learnt, Your introducing to satanism have resulted on a weak failure initiate, I know this very well i have introduced 6 people whom all are dedicated satanists,but out of 6,4 do not take it seriously and just merely enjoys the Protection of powers of Hell, I know this,That is Ugly but however i have learnt much and Know how to Introduce Satanism and how to have promising initiates,how to make them realize the truth,the Worth of it to the BONE and SOUL,the 4 whom are close friends of mine,Sadly since they do no Fuck,Dont give a Fuck,Will Gods are not Idiots nor all Forever Giving, Their benefit from Powers of Hell is Limited, Sad but harsh truth i've made peace with a long time ago, Yes i understand Love is Troubling and takes a LoT of effort and Sacrifices and Thoughts and Actions of adjusment,changing in order to make it out,Thats life, Some of us May have ABANDON Hope on GENTILE LOVER,Only Looking forward to God Lover..Well for me I haven't Given hope on Human Mate,and I have the Will to work it out also must be Strong and Wise,Or otherwise ill end up Victim,It is all Serious Business, hehe. It is Trying but it is Possible and i will go for it, I am Sorry for the horrendous past, I have just been through such an Shitty Relationship not long ago,Thanks To Blackkat,Blacksun,My mother, My Friends,Sorath,Satan. I am through it,Got an Tremendous helping hand that lifted me from the Shithole of self pity, and spoilt bravado,changed my nature illusion,literally screwed up in all aspects plus developed an EVER-Lasting hatred for that person(an Spiritual satanist) But however im through it, Now i have met an Wonderful Person,Whom has similiar nature to me, Plus she is not an Satanist but she have changed me to my normal Self,I am now original Me now and she loves me and accepts me the way i am,Also I have grown strong from shit, I as a Man,As an Proud Strong Mighty Spiritual Satanist who is aiming to be God,For Greatness well A Man of power do not have any Weakness,I had Weakness,That was Love, I now will never allow Emotion of my Genuine affectionate generous love for others weaken me to No end,A lot of things have been learnt,Which i truly cannot fill it up on this post,But it have served well and has affected me negatively and also Positively,sift out the dross and keep the Goodies. Just there are Some Gentiles,Zevism who are truly an Jerk and have no Concern and can be such an Bitch that will lead to ones downfall and know this Those kind of People Do not Deserve your Love,They deserve others love sure but not yours,It is important whom you deem worthy to love and be ready to face everything,but also there are People who are Unworthy of your Love and Affection..

 

[Anand Bon]

Also there is an Ancient Saying When one had Left you..When that person comes back to you,Do not Accept it.this is Very deep and is very true, Also i Personally believe it fits well with Lord Satans ideal, See when one left satanism why cant they return? this is deep..Ill let your individual deep thinking and how you see it see its wisdom.

 

[hailourtruegod1]

of course i also believe its up to the person. with me ive literally been hurt so many times by girlfriends who i gave all my heart to. i would tell them i wanted to commit and really believed this even tho they didnt. i would get so passionate with them. i would fall inlove with a girl get heart broken and fall in love again with another girl and then again get hurt again. the thing is sometimes none of these gfs would be the same. they wouldnt be open with their love as i would be. to the point where i got fucked up mentally (i think it all goes deeper cuz of some personal and family problems i had when i was very young n still kind of do in my household) n thought i was doing something wrong and this is one of the big reasons i believe i fell into a depression. i started to believe like i was doing something wrong and it wasnt right for me to show my love and try to please the one i loved. and thats what made ME happy. to able to to please someone i cared about.

i even lowered my standards at one point and that is something i am not proud of.... but atleast i know better now.

but the thing is, even though i would have a girl i thought i was inlove with i would still have lust if i met another girl who i came to like alot over time. while being with the present girl at the time. i couldnt control it. to me if felt good to be lustful with more than one girl at a time. im NOT talking about trying to look cool and have various girls but i literally would connect with each one individually. i dont like hurting ppl. i wouldnt just go out and cheat on a girl like that but if i met someone who i connect with and the lust naturally grew big i would go for it. n of course i would feel guilty since i said all those things to the gf n really felt like i meant them. i would feel guilty or confused even before i cheated. i would be confuse as to why would i feel deep feelings with a girl but easily grow a deep attraction with another girl at the same time.

some of this might sound corny but its how i feel. i have A LOT of love inside of me that i would like to share and being an emotional persona doesnt really help sometimes lol. or maybe it does, idk. sometimes i wouldnt be able to express my feelings n that had a negative effect n sometimes when i did it bit me in the ass....

this is something i am taking into consideration now. but im still kinda confused but atleast not as much as i was when i was younger. i feel like i still have alot of work to do with myself but atleast i know im on the the right path to understand myself.

maybe now that i am trying to get to know myself and am a Zevism the next time i get into some kind of relationship it will be smoother than the ones before.

idk if anyone else feels this way but this is my input.

--- In , "darrklady13" <darkladyschild@... wrote:

I agree as well Anand.

I feel I have only been in love ONE TIME in my whole life, and it was with my ex, a female, even though I have had various relationships with men, and I have 4 children due to it.

Not so much due to it, since I wanted children. But I never could "commit" to a male, sexually or otherwise, since I never felt they were ".....worthy." MY opinion only, no offense.

When I fell in love with my most recent ex, a woman, it was unbelievable the amount of joy and happiness I have ever felt..

now that could be due to the fact she is female...but in relation to other women I had shallow encounters with.....nahhh.


My point is: It was true, it was amazing, it was outstanding.....and I COULD HAVE COMMITTED to her for life.

But she had behavior problems,....mainly, insecurity, and social issues.

And truly, I don't think she truly loved me, at least not the way I loved her.

I don't know where I was going with this....maybe it is just to say, DAmn!!! I would have committed to her, would have been with her even today, if it wasn't for her controlling nature, and her dislike for all things JOYOUS and she didn't even like listening to music!!

She made a "false commitment" to our Lord Satan, did so only to appease me, since after we split, she found a married woman, who is Catholic.....and suddenly, "converted" to xtianity.

That feeling I had for her was REAL, AND LASTING. I could have committed to her , even sexually. But sadly, it failed.




--- In , Anand Bon <anandbon@ wrote:

For me Lovemaking is Sacred,it have always been Sacred, However i have an Tendency to let others Spoil me,take others opinions when i should just ignore it,
Love with my Chosen partner will always be sacred and will always be an Art and Show of Affection Love, Deep intimate understanding, Everything will be Different,and i will only be true and very satisfying and enjoyable at all times and so she will,Commitment,Respect,Loyalty is of utmost Importance to me,This is my Preference,When Reading such posts as these Imply ones that fit with your Nature Ignore ones that Dont,There is no Universal Right or Wrong on this, I agree with Cobra.
Love is Sacred for me,and will always will be

 

[hailourtruegod1]

I also have always seen sex as something very deep. Sacred is a good way to see it. and i believe it can be Sacred with any sexual preference. gay, straight, monogamous, polygamous, orgy, gangbang, WHATEVER. as long as its something you and your partner(s) enjoy then enjoy it with all your being. body, soul, and all.

--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@... wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....

 

[Djinn Draconis]

darklady13 actually I love your answer. Very honest. I think it's possible to be sexually polygamous but emotionally monogamous also, but people haven't learned how to deal with that yet.

I know this sounds cruel but many of times the people we love the most as partners in an emotional way aren't always the most physically attractive or sexually exciting. It'd be mean to say that to your partner and for all you know they could think the same about you but it's true whether we like it or not.

--- In , "darrklady13" <darkladyschild@... wrote:

Im not the best person to answer on this....as I believe human beings are not NATURALLY SEXUALLY monogamous. Its painful for many people to read....but its my opinion, and what I have always WITNESSED, EXPERIENCED, in my short 45 yrs.

Love and commitment, yes that is possible. I know the bond of love is strong, especially with commitment, and children.

But physical love, meaning sex,....nahh that is about trust.
Being attracted to other people is normal. But whether you ACT UPON THOSE FEELINGS, is another.

And we humans are weak when it comes to "resisting" pleasure.

But it doesn't mean it can't happen or that people can't be faithful.!!!


And like Lamont said in a different post.....

no one should have to change their own nature, just find someone who's nature is harmonious with your own.





--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@ wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....

 

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--- In , "darrklady13" <darkladyschild@... wrote:

Im not the best person to answer on this....as I believe human beings are not NATURALLY SEXUALLY monogamous. Its painful for many people to read....but its my opinion, and what I have always WITNESSED, EXPERIENCED, in my short 45 yrs.

Love and commitment, yes that is possible. I know the bond of love is strong, especially with commitment, and children.

But physical love, meaning sex,....nahh that is about trust.
Being attracted to other people is normal. But whether you ACT UPON THOSE FEELINGS, is another.

And we humans are weak when it comes to "resisting" pleasure.

But it doesn't mean it can't happen or that people can't be faithful.!!!


And like Lamont said in a different post.....

no one should have to change their own nature, just find someone who's nature is harmonious with your own.





--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@ wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....

Think about this as energy. All relationships are about giving and reciving energy. When the energy current is stronger between 2 people, then that bond is way stronger. A monogamous relationship is a different level. You give your sexual energies to only one person. Imo this is for soulmates, for partners who perfectly fit each other.
Just my opinion

 

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[Mc Rundown]

I believe a man can be faithful with the right partner. People differ.
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On Sun, Dec 23, 2012 3:36 PM PST ezofreestyle@... wrote:



--- In , "darrklady13" <darkladyschild@... wrote:

Im not the best person to answer on this....as I believe human beings are not NATURALLY SEXUALLY monogamous. Its painful for many people to read....but its my opinion, and what I have always WITNESSED, EXPERIENCED, in my short 45 yrs.

Love and commitment, yes that is possible. I know the bond of love is strong, especially with commitment, and children.

But physical love, meaning sex,....nahh that is about trust.
Being attracted to other people is normal. But whether you ACT UPON THOSE FEELINGS, is another.

And we humans are weak when it comes to "resisting" pleasure.

But it doesn't mean it can't happen or that people can't be faithful.!!!


And like Lamont said in a different post.....

no one should have to change their own nature, just find someone who's nature is harmonious with your own.





--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@ wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....






Think about this as energy. All relationships are about giving and reciving energy. When the energy current is stronger between 2 people, then that bond is way stronger. A monogamous relationship is a different level. You give your sexual energies to only one person. Imo this is for soulmates, for partners who perfectly fit each other.
Just my opinion

 

[Mc Rundown]

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On Sun, Dec 23, 2012 3:36 PM PST ezofreestyle@... wrote:



--- In , "darrklady13" <darkladyschild@... wrote:

Im not the best person to answer on this....as I believe human beings are not NATURALLY SEXUALLY monogamous. Its painful for many people to read....but its my opinion, and what I have always WITNESSED, EXPERIENCED, in my short 45 yrs.

Love and commitment, yes that is possible. I know the bond of love is strong, especially with commitment, and children.

But physical love, meaning sex,....nahh that is about trust.
Being attracted to other people is normal. But whether you ACT UPON THOSE FEELINGS, is another.

And we humans are weak when it comes to "resisting" pleasure.

But it doesn't mean it can't happen or that people can't be faithful.!!!


And like Lamont said in a different post.....

no one should have to change their own nature, just find someone who's nature is harmonious with your own.





--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@ wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....






Think about this as energy. All relationships are about giving and reciving energy. When the energy current is stronger between 2 people, then that bond is way stronger. A monogamous relationship is a different level. You give your sexual energies to only one person. Imo this is for soulmates, for partners who perfectly fit each other.
Just my opinion

 

[Shan823]

Darklady I also agree with what you said about people being at the least sexually monogamous...it IS sad.. Djin you are right as well this man I know loves his wife but he has a girlfriend on the side because he said his wife is soooo boring in sex etc.... I guess it is what it is...it makes me a bit nervous to know this truth... I feel as if I can be monogamous sexually and definetly emotionally...i guess it comes down to finding someone who feels the same. I find it hard to have sex with someone who doesnt love me or atleast care about me in someway...i atleast would like to have some kind of mental connection with the person.




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On Sun, Dec 23, 2012 12:29 PM EST Djinn Draconis wrote:

darklady13 actually I love your answer. Very honest. I think it's possible to be sexually polygamous but emotionally monogamous also, but people haven't learned how to deal with that yet.

I know this sounds cruel but many of times the people we love the most as partners in an emotional way aren't always the most physically attractive or sexually exciting. It'd be mean to say that to your partner and for all you know they could think the same about you but it's true whether we like it or not.

--- In , "darrklady13" <darkladyschild@... wrote:

Im not the best person to answer on this....as I believe human beings are not NATURALLY SEXUALLY monogamous. Its painful for many people to read....but its my opinion, and what I have always WITNESSED, EXPERIENCED, in my short 45 yrs.

Love and commitment, yes that is possible. I know the bond of love is strong, especially with commitment, and children.

But physical love, meaning sex,....nahh that is about trust.
Being attracted to other people is normal. But whether you ACT UPON THOSE FEELINGS, is another.

And we humans are weak when it comes to "resisting" pleasure.

But it doesn't mean it can't happen or that people can't be faithful.!!!


And like Lamont said in a different post.....

no one should have to change their own nature, just find someone who's nature is harmonious with your own.





--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@ wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a
person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....

 

[Anand Bon]

A matter of Individuality, Same Individuals finding an same type of Individual equals problem solved.Nothing more
From: Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@...
To:
Sent: Tuesday, 25 December 2012 2:08 AM
Subject: Re: Re: Sexuality and human nature

 
Darklady I also agree with what you said about people being at the least sexually monogamous...it IS sad.. Djin you are right as well this man I know loves his wife but he has a girlfriend on the side because he said his wife is soooo boring in sex etc.... I guess it is what it is...it makes me a bit nervous to know this truth... I feel as if I can be monogamous sexually and definetly emotionally...i guess it comes down to finding someone who feels the same. I find it hard to have sex with someone who doesnt love me or atleast care about me in someway...i atleast would like to have some kind of mental connection with the person.

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On Sun, Dec 23, 2012 12:29 PM EST Djinn Draconis wrote:

darklady13 actually I love your answer. Very honest. I think it's possible to be sexually polygamous but emotionally monogamous also, but people haven't learned how to deal with that yet.

I know this sounds cruel but many of times the people we love the most as partners in an emotional way aren't always the most physically attractive or sexually exciting. It'd be mean to say that to your partner and for all you know they could think the same about you but it's true whether we like it or not.

--- [/IMG], "darrklady13" <darkladyschild@... wrote:

Im not the best person to answer on this....as I believe human beings are not NATURALLY SEXUALLY monogamous. Its painful for many people to read....but its my opinion, and what I have always WITNESSED, EXPERIENCED, in my short 45 yrs.

Love and commitment, yes that is possible. I know the bond of love is strong, especially with commitment, and children.

But physical love, meaning sex,....nahh that is about trust.
Being attracted to other people is normal. But whether you ACT UPON THOSE FEELINGS, is another.

And we humans are weak when it comes to "resisting" pleasure.

But it doesn't mean it can't happen or that people can't be faithful.!!!


And like Lamont said in a different post.....

no one should have to change their own nature, just find someone who's nature is harmonious with your own.





--- [/IMG], Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@ wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a
person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....

 

[Karen]

It would be nice just to find that special someone. I am coming off a two year relationship that I found out he was just playing with me it was a game to him. He nvr had any intentions of coming to the US to be with me. But this is the story of my life. I am always the one left behind. The one rejected and betrayed. Is there hope of finding one person to love and be loved?
Sent from Samsung mobile

Mc Rundown <mcrundown@... wrote:

I believe a man can be faithful with the right partner. People differ.
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On Sun, Dec 23, 2012 3:36 PM PST ezofreestyle@... wrote:



--- In , "darrklady13" <darkladyschild@... wrote:

Im not the best person to answer on this....as I believe human beings are not NATURALLY SEXUALLY monogamous. Its painful for many people to read....but its my opinion, and what I have always WITNESSED, EXPERIENCED, in my short 45 yrs.

Love and commitment, yes that is possible. I know the bond of love is strong, especially with commitment, and children.

But physical love, meaning sex,....nahh that is about trust.
Being attracted to other people is normal. But whether you ACT UPON THOSE FEELINGS, is another.

And we humans are weak when it comes to "resisting" pleasure.

But it doesn't mean it can't happen or that people can't be faithful.!!!


And like Lamont said in a different post.....

no one should have to change their own nature, just find someone who's nature is harmonious with your own.





--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@ wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....






Think about this as energy. All relationships are about giving and reciving energy. When the energy current is stronger between 2 people, then that bond is way stronger. A monogamous relationship is a different level. You give your sexual energies to only one person. Imo this is for soulmates, for partners who perfectly fit each other.
Just my opinion

 

[Isabella M]

No but my father is jamaican st anns parish...my ex husband is jamaican!

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[Djinn Draconis]

Shannon there is a very good reason women and men usually differ in how they feel about this and it's because women have to carry children for 9 months and are always present with the child at it's birth and are have historically been caregivers, so a woman's instincts usually are inclined towards a man which feels something emotionally for them and can support them because this gives her and her child the best chance of surviving and passing on her genes if she has a supporting and emotionally committed partner.

For a man, he doesn't carry a child for nine months and can get many many women pregnant at once potentially and so his best chances of passing on his genes is if he is more promiscuous and able to attract more women. A mans chances of passing on his genes is not really increased by having a woman emotionally attached to him, at least not to the extent it is for women.

--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@... wrote:


Darklady I also agree with what you said about people being at the least sexually monogamous...it IS sad.. Djin you are right as well this man I know loves his wife but he has a girlfriend on the side because he said his wife is soooo boring in sex etc.... I guess it is what it is...it makes me a bit nervous to know this truth... I feel as if I can be monogamous sexually and definetly emotionally...i guess it comes down to finding someone who feels the same. I find it hard to have sex with someone who doesnt love me or atleast care about me in someway...i atleast would like to have some kind of mental connection with the person.




------------------------------
On Sun, Dec 23, 2012 12:29 PM EST Djinn Draconis wrote:

darklady13 actually I love your answer. Very honest. I think it's possible to be sexually polygamous but emotionally monogamous also, but people haven't learned how to deal with that yet.

I know this sounds cruel but many of times the people we love the most as partners in an emotional way aren't always the most physically attractive or sexually exciting. It'd be mean to say that to your partner and for all you know they could think the same about you but it's true whether we like it or not.

--- In , "darrklady13" <darkladyschild@ wrote:

Im not the best person to answer on this....as I believe human beings are not NATURALLY SEXUALLY monogamous. Its painful for many people to read....but its my opinion, and what I have always WITNESSED, EXPERIENCED, in my short 45 yrs.

Love and commitment, yes that is possible. I know the bond of love is strong, especially with commitment, and children.

But physical love, meaning sex,....nahh that is about trust.
Being attracted to other people is normal. But whether you ACT UPON THOSE FEELINGS, is another.

And we humans are weak when it comes to "resisting" pleasure.

But it doesn't mean it can't happen or that people can't be faithful.!!!


And like Lamont said in a different post.....

no one should have to change their own nature, just find someone who's nature is harmonious with your own.





--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@ wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a
person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....

 

[Anand Bon]

I am monogamous in nature, love is sacred to me,Ok i look at other beautiful women but i will not go for them when i am commited,For me this shows respect and how i value my relationship and it  will reflect me, I am Honorable Person, once i am commited i will keep my word,When temptation comes i will use my will for loyalty to overcome such obstacles, Also when love making with an Loved one it is different,It is more pleasureable and can never be boring,I am Extremely Skilled at bed, I will always and forever will keep my loved one fullfilled in bed and always happy and support her at all  times,I simply can be loyal and can sustain it as much as possible, I can as a person love an Person to no end, I am very giving and generous,My love is Genuine in my own way,I will be with one who has similiar nature with mine.This is my prefference

 

[Shan823]

Anand you sound like my kind of man...




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On Tue, Dec 25, 2012 8:24 AM EST Anand Bon wrote:

I am monogamous in nature, love is sacred to me,Ok i look at other beautiful women but i will not go for them when i am commited,For me this shows respect and how i value my relationship and it  will reflect me, I am Honorable Person, once i am commited i will keep my word,When temptation comes i will use my will for loyalty to overcome such obstacles, Also when love making with an Loved one it is different,It is more pleasureable and can never be boring,I am Extremely Skilled at bed, I will always and forever will keep my loved one fullfilled in bed and always happy and support her at all  times,I simply can be loyal and can sustain it as much as possible, I can as a person love an Person to no end, I am very giving and generous,My love is Genuine in my own way,I will be with one who has similiar nature with mine.This is my prefference

 

[Shan823]

Oh Zevios thank you..<3 I remember a post you wrote on sexuality and spirituality that you posted months ago. It was soo beautiful and so true. I read it alot.

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On Tue, Dec 25, 2012 7:35 AM EST Zevios Metathronos wrote:

And this is a sign of spiritual advancement. You are going upwards in your consciousness, thus living without emotion and mental stimulation is not possible. Thats great. You should do your workings and not 'wait', as to draw the correct person to yourself, that will love you and that you can match with. Feel not discouraged sister.

HAIL SATAN!!!!!!!

--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@... wrote:


Darklady I also agree with what you said about people being at the least sexually monogamous...it IS sad.. Djin you are right as well this man I know loves his wife but he has a girlfriend on the side because he said his wife is soooo boring in sex etc.... I guess it is what it is...it makes me a bit nervous to know this truth... I feel as if I can be monogamous sexually and definetly emotionally...i guess it comes down to finding someone who feels the same. I find it hard to have sex with someone who doesnt love me or atleast care about me in someway...i atleast would like to have some kind of mental connection with the person.




------------------------------
On Sun, Dec 23, 2012 12:29 PM EST Djinn Draconis wrote:

darklady13 actually I love your answer. Very honest. I think it's possible to be sexually polygamous but emotionally monogamous also, but people haven't learned how to deal with that yet.

I know this sounds cruel but many of times the people we love the most as partners in an emotional way aren't always the most physically attractive or sexually exciting. It'd be mean to say that to your partner and for all you know they could think the same about you but it's true whether we like it or not.

--- In , "darrklady13" <darkladyschild@ wrote:

Im not the best person to answer on this....as I believe human beings are not NATURALLY SEXUALLY monogamous. Its painful for many people to read....but its my opinion, and what I have always WITNESSED, EXPERIENCED, in my short 45 yrs.

Love and commitment, yes that is possible. I know the bond of love is strong, especially with commitment, and children.

But physical love, meaning sex,....nahh that is about trust.
Being attracted to other people is normal. But whether you ACT UPON THOSE FEELINGS, is another.

And we humans are weak when it comes to "resisting" pleasure.

But it doesn't mean it can't happen or that people can't be faithful.!!!


And like Lamont said in a different post.....

no one should have to change their own nature, just find someone who's nature is harmonious with your own.





--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@ wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a
person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....

 

[Shan823]

Djin I understand




------------------------------

On Mon, Dec 24, 2012 6:41 PM EST Djinn Draconis wrote:

Shannon there is a very good reason women and men usually differ in how they feel about this and it's because women have to carry children for 9 months and are always present with the child at it's birth and are have historically been caregivers, so a woman's instincts usually are inclined towards a man which feels something emotionally for them and can support them because this gives her and her child the best chance of surviving and passing on her genes if she has a supporting and emotionally committed partner.

For a man, he doesn't carry a child for nine months and can get many many women pregnant at once potentially and so his best chances of passing on his genes is if he is more promiscuous and able to attract more women. A mans chances of passing on his genes is not really increased by having a woman emotionally attached to him, at least not to the extent it is for women.


--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@... wrote:


Darklady I also agree with what you said about people being at the least sexually monogamous...it IS sad.. Djin you are right as well this man I know loves his wife but he has a girlfriend on the side because he said his wife is soooo boring in sex etc.... I guess it is what it is...it makes me a bit nervous to know this truth... I feel as if I can be monogamous sexually and definetly emotionally...i guess it comes down to finding someone who feels the same. I find it hard to have sex with someone who doesnt love me or atleast care about me in someway...i atleast would like to have some kind of mental connection with the person.




------------------------------
On Sun, Dec 23, 2012 12:29 PM EST Djinn Draconis wrote:

darklady13 actually I love your answer. Very honest. I think it's possible to be sexually polygamous but emotionally monogamous also, but people haven't learned how to deal with that yet.

I know this sounds cruel but many of times the people we love the most as partners in an emotional way aren't always the most physically attractive or sexually exciting. It'd be mean to say that to your partner and for all you know they could think the same about you but it's true whether we like it or not.

--- In , "darrklady13" <darkladyschild@ wrote:

Im not the best person to answer on this....as I believe human beings are not NATURALLY SEXUALLY monogamous. Its painful for many people to read....but its my opinion, and what I have always WITNESSED, EXPERIENCED, in my short 45 yrs.

Love and commitment, yes that is possible. I know the bond of love is strong, especially with commitment, and children.

But physical love, meaning sex,....nahh that is about trust.
Being attracted to other people is normal. But whether you ACT UPON THOSE FEELINGS, is another.

And we humans are weak when it comes to "resisting" pleasure.

But it doesn't mean it can't happen or that people can't be faithful.!!!


And like Lamont said in a different post.....

no one should have to change their own nature, just find someone who's nature is harmonious with your own.





--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@ wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a
person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....

 

[Shan823]

But im sure spiritual advancement will change that? Change that almost primitive way of thinking....?



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On Tue, Dec 25, 2012 12:20 PM EST Shannon Outlaw wrote:


Djin I understand




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On Mon, Dec 24, 2012 6:41 PM EST Djinn Draconis wrote:

Shannon there is a very good reason women and men usually differ in how they feel about this and it's because women have to carry children for 9 months and are always present with the child at it's birth and are have historically been caregivers, so a woman's instincts usually are inclined towards a man which feels something emotionally for them and can support them because this gives her and her child the best chance of surviving and passing on her genes if she has a supporting and emotionally committed partner.

For a man, he doesn't carry a child for nine months and can get many many women pregnant at once potentially and so his best chances of passing on his genes is if he is more promiscuous and able to attract more women. A mans chances of passing on his genes is not really increased by having a woman emotionally attached to him, at least not to the extent it is for women.


--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@... wrote:


Darklady I also agree with what you said about people being at the least sexually monogamous...it IS sad.. Djin you are right as well this man I know loves his wife but he has a girlfriend on the side because he said his wife is soooo boring in sex etc.... I guess it is what it is...it makes me a bit nervous to know this truth... I feel as if I can be monogamous sexually and definetly emotionally...i guess it comes down to finding someone who feels the same. I find it hard to have sex with someone who doesnt love me or atleast care about me in someway...i atleast would like to have some kind of mental connection with the person.




------------------------------
On Sun, Dec 23, 2012 12:29 PM EST Djinn Draconis wrote:

darklady13 actually I love your answer. Very honest. I think it's possible to be sexually polygamous but emotionally monogamous also, but people haven't learned how to deal with that yet.

I know this sounds cruel but many of times the people we love the most as partners in an emotional way aren't always the most physically attractive or sexually exciting. It'd be mean to say that to your partner and for all you know they could think the same about you but it's true whether we like it or not.

--- In , "darrklady13" <darkladyschild@ wrote:

Im not the best person to answer on this....as I believe human beings are not NATURALLY SEXUALLY monogamous. Its painful for many people to read....but its my opinion, and what I have always WITNESSED, EXPERIENCED, in my short 45 yrs.

Love and commitment, yes that is possible. I know the bond of love is strong, especially with commitment, and children.

But physical love, meaning sex,....nahh that is about trust.
Being attracted to other people is normal. But whether you ACT UPON THOSE FEELINGS, is another.

And we humans are weak when it comes to "resisting" pleasure.

But it doesn't mean it can't happen or that people can't be faithful.!!!


And like Lamont said in a different post.....

no one should have to change their own nature, just find someone who's nature is harmonious with your own.





--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@ wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a
person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....

 

[Djinn Draconis]

Yeah Shannon it may do but I don't know the answer to that one honestly, I would like to know myself. I hope one of the High Priests will do a sermon on it sometime.

--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@... wrote:


But im sure spiritual advancement will change that? Change that almost primitive way of thinking....?



------------------------------
On Tue, Dec 25, 2012 12:20 PM EST Shannon Outlaw wrote:


Djin I understand




------------------------------
On Mon, Dec 24, 2012 6:41 PM EST Djinn Draconis wrote:

Shannon there is a very good reason women and men usually differ in how they feel about this and it's because women have to carry children for 9 months and are always present with the child at it's birth and are have historically been caregivers, so a woman's instincts usually are inclined towards a man which feels something emotionally for them and can support them because this gives her and her child the best chance of surviving and passing on her genes if she has a supporting and emotionally committed partner.

For a man, he doesn't carry a child for nine months and can get many many women pregnant at once potentially and so his best chances of passing on his genes is if he is more promiscuous and able to attract more women. A mans chances of passing on his genes is not really increased by having a woman emotionally attached to him, at least not to the extent it is for women.


--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@ wrote:


Darklady I also agree with what you said about people being at the least sexually monogamous...it IS sad.. Djin you are right as well this man I know loves his wife but he has a girlfriend on the side because he said his wife is soooo boring in sex etc.... I guess it is what it is...it makes me a bit nervous to know this truth... I feel as if I can be monogamous sexually and definetly emotionally...i guess it comes down to finding someone who feels the same. I find it hard to have sex with someone who doesnt love me or atleast care about me in someway...i atleast would like to have some kind of mental connection with the person.




------------------------------
On Sun, Dec 23, 2012 12:29 PM EST Djinn Draconis wrote:

darklady13 actually I love your answer. Very honest. I think it's possible to be sexually polygamous but emotionally monogamous also, but people haven't learned how to deal with that yet.

I know this sounds cruel but many of times the people we love the most as partners in an emotional way aren't always the most physically attractive or sexually exciting. It'd be mean to say that to your partner and for all you know they could think the same about you but it's true whether we like it or not.

--- In , "darrklady13" <darkladyschild@ wrote:

Im not the best person to answer on this....as I believe human beings are not NATURALLY SEXUALLY monogamous. Its painful for many people to read....but its my opinion, and what I have always WITNESSED, EXPERIENCED, in my short 45 yrs.

Love and commitment, yes that is possible. I know the bond of love is strong, especially with commitment, and children.

But physical love, meaning sex,....nahh that is about trust.
Being attracted to other people is normal. But whether you ACT UPON THOSE FEELINGS, is another.

And we humans are weak when it comes to "resisting" pleasure.

But it doesn't mean it can't happen or that people can't be faithful.!!!


And like Lamont said in a different post.....

no one should have to change their own nature, just find someone who's nature is harmonious with your own.





--- In , Shannon Outlaw <soutlaw92@ wrote:


I was having a conversation with someone and he said that no matter how much a person loves another they will still have this instinctual need to have sex with others...like variety with sex. He said that swingers have healthy divorce free love/sex relationships because they are fulfilling the "human need" to have sex with different people.He went on to say that people cheat especially men because it is human instict. Is he semi right and that it is a primitive thing OR is this true for alot of people because a lack of spiritual and sexual development? I use to be this way but when I started to develop myself and work on especially my sacral chakra I realised how I now feel comfortable with having just one sex/love partner who I can be with forever.... I would love to hear everyones opinion on this....ofcourse I guess there are factors like planetary placements like venus in gemini that makes a
person
NEED variety in sex and can make that person bored of the same partner BUT I have venus in gemini...so yea....