This is why I hate other men because where women are concerned they always get there before me or beat me to it as it were. I've never even had a girlfriend or been in a relationship despite being an asocial man in my early 40s. It seems like other men are always in the right place at the right time and manage to impress the women I want. It's those men who are having meaning spun into their lives by women and most saddening of all it is they who will enjoy the miracle of seeing their children born and not mine. It makes me despise children (that aren't my DNA) and loathe other men.