Dahaarkan
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There is no "fight" between me and any other member. I simply have a habit of mirroring people's tone when responding. If you are disrespectful to me or other members then I will be disrespectful to you also. The purpose of this is as I have stated in an earlier post, the dismantling of the bubble of self importance which makes people think they have a right to disrespect others with impunity.
As disrespecting others is largely tolerated by forum rules, we the members must speak out against what behaviors we accept as a group, and which behaviors we don't. I doubt many will disagree with me when I am simply requesting that people be more calm and respectful in their posts as to avoid arguments, and avoid having me respond to you in kind.
There is no reason why new or inexperienced members should have their self esteem constantly under bombardment from self important members. I must say however, things are dramatically improving and the trend is almost dead.
As for the fight statement, there is no fight between me or anybody else. I can and have disagreed many times with many members like VoE, Ol, Stormblood etc etc. There is no malice or hostility from me towards them because more often than not these are misunderstandings. And when our views differ we simply agree to disagree and go on about our lives.
There's only one character who vehemently attempted to dismantle all my attempts at contributing to this library, who has since stopped this infantile behavior and I hold no grudge against him going forward.
I do think jrvan is overly passionate in his attempts to make the forums are more comfortable and welcoming place, which is more or less the same I'm doing. Although I think he sees malice where there is none. I really don't see any malice from Ol and VoE, just differing views and misunderstanding most of the time.
I would really recommend jrvan and Ol have a private 1on1 conversation away from this noise and all these external intentions. You guys must be surprised at how differently that will go.
As disrespecting others is largely tolerated by forum rules, we the members must speak out against what behaviors we accept as a group, and which behaviors we don't. I doubt many will disagree with me when I am simply requesting that people be more calm and respectful in their posts as to avoid arguments, and avoid having me respond to you in kind.
There is no reason why new or inexperienced members should have their self esteem constantly under bombardment from self important members. I must say however, things are dramatically improving and the trend is almost dead.
As for the fight statement, there is no fight between me or anybody else. I can and have disagreed many times with many members like VoE, Ol, Stormblood etc etc. There is no malice or hostility from me towards them because more often than not these are misunderstandings. And when our views differ we simply agree to disagree and go on about our lives.
There's only one character who vehemently attempted to dismantle all my attempts at contributing to this library, who has since stopped this infantile behavior and I hold no grudge against him going forward.
I do think jrvan is overly passionate in his attempts to make the forums are more comfortable and welcoming place, which is more or less the same I'm doing. Although I think he sees malice where there is none. I really don't see any malice from Ol and VoE, just differing views and misunderstanding most of the time.
I would really recommend jrvan and Ol have a private 1on1 conversation away from this noise and all these external intentions. You guys must be surprised at how differently that will go.



