I fell in love with a girl then lost her

[Alek666]

Contrary to what some men seem to think, not talking to a woman does not leave her emotionally upset...

Perhaps detaching would be the way to go, detach your energy that you had put into thinking of her over these months.

Why does the cringe sting so bad. A girl walks by you and goes tehe and your dick gets hard. Then its all they talk about. I could never stand guys till they get mid to late 20s.

Its like one of those videos, try not to cringe challenge. Like nails on a chalk board. Gosh.

So like ... um I'm not some new guy here either aldrick so you can stop talking shit about me on the side. Thank you very much. I do not tolerate this. No, sometimes that still happens aldrick, guys do fall in love too.
Plus that is not whats going on here I just care about her okay.

 

[Alek666]

God, now that I am done with all this bs I finally get to work on the 8 fold path thanks for the drama and actual ignorant everyone.
Jack is the only one that made any sense and wasn't acting like an enemy nordic.

F#@%ing crazy....

 

[FancyMancy]

God, now that I am done with all this bs I finally get to work on the 8 fold path thanks for the drama and actual ignorant everyone.
Jack is the only one that made any sense and wasn't acting like an enemy nordic.

F#@%ing crazy....

It's not about bullshit. It's about offering alternative points of view for you to consider - and from me, it's based on experience. You take the best option for you.

 

[Aquarius]

God, now that I am done with all this bs I finally get to work on the 8 fold path thanks for the drama and actual ignorant everyone.
Jack is the only one that made any sense and wasn't acting like an enemy nordic.

F#@%ing crazy....

It's not about bullshit. It's about offering alternative points of view for you to consider - and from me, it's based on experience. You take the best option for you.

I mean, this guys sees a girl for 5 seconds, he gets infatuated of her because he has an overactive mind, tells us, and we can’t even joke about it. ffs..

 

[FancyMancy]

Detachment is good sometimes

I suggest this strongly. Rushing in to things is very...stupid. The Brain can weigh-up options and consequences and what I all pro-sequences. The heart cannot, until there is proper balance. Evidently, the is not much balance in this world at the moment.

 

[Dahaarkan]

I haven't really read everything just kinda peeked through this discussion.

To my understanding you want a girl so put a love working on her and attract her to you until you get her. My personal advice is if you want something chase after it headfirst, forget worries or doubts or any opinions from others that get in the way. If it's a mistake or blows up in your face then you will learn and grow from it.


I used to live super safely, take no risks make no moves, bury any desire under doubts, what if's, anxiety and the worthless opinions of other people. Now I see something I want I just go for it like a starved dog. Personally, failing feels better than knowing I didn't even try. So I always go for what I want without really thinking too much.

Within reason obviously. I don't jump on someone and rape them because I want to have sex with them. But I start making moves, physically and spiritually towards my goals. I don't dwell on what could go wrong or why it could be a bad idea or a waste of time. I think this is a much better way of approaching these things than asking for opinions from people you've never met.

 

[Azorm]

Detachment is good sometimes

I suggest this strongly. Rushing in to things is very...stupid. The Brain can weigh-up options and consequences and what I all pro-sequences. The heart cannot, until there is proper balance. Evidently, the is not much balance in this world at the moment.

Tbh, main thing that is on my mind is that we are not his parents, so let him be a bit.

He is actually an adult, he is young still but mature enough I to use his brain in my opinion ( I'm not saying he is the most mature but still he can). This all is normal, it's normal life experience and normal situation. He needs to learn and to live his life. I have no intentions to pull everybody aside and to forbid them to live their life and to collect valuable experiences. It's true I care about my family but there is a difference between being caring and being loud and dense to the point of acting like oppressor. Imagine if our parents forbade us to go outside and to do anything, how would be learn a single shit. I'm different a bit when I see someone underage here or super immature with possible some crazy psychological/emotional issues, you need to be more careful then, but what is wrong with this guy? He just saw somebody that might be his mate. Most normal thing ever, literally. He can detach or he can try something, so let him decide. I would say the same for everybody pretty much. Advices are okay but let's not be too dense and gang bang someone who is just having normal life situation and in the end everything will be fine anyways.

Fancy, idk why are you so fired up about this so much, maybe some of yours traumas or idk, but, I really think you are panicking too much about this and you might create him even more issues in the end. In my eyes you are acting weird. This all is really not unusal. Let him learn. Girl will be fine, don't worry about her, I don't see why should she have problems with this if you are worried about her lol

 

[FancyMancy]

God, now that I am done with all this bs I finally get to work on the 8 fold path thanks for the drama and actual ignorant everyone.
Jack is the only one that made any sense and wasn't acting like an enemy nordic.

F#@%ing crazy....

It's not about bullshit. It's about offering alternative points of view for you to consider - and from me, it's based on experience. You take the best option for you.

I mean, this guys sees a girl for 5 seconds, he gets infatuated of her because he has an overactive mind, tells us, and we can’t even joke about it. ffs..

I didn't mean to joke about it at all, but yeah it is quite joke/mock-worthy in a friendly manner. Once he realises, however long that takes, I might decide to accept the apology which he won't give me! (This I meant humourously.)

 

[FancyMancy]

Detachment is good sometimes

I suggest this strongly. Rushing in to things is very...stupid. The Brain can weigh-up options and consequences and what I all pro-sequences. The heart cannot, until there is proper balance. Evidently, the is not much balance in this world at the moment.

Tbh, main thing that is on my mind is that we are not his parents, so let him be a bit.

He is actually an adult, he is young still but mature enough I to use his brain in my opinion ( I'm not saying he is the most mature but still he can). This all is normal, it's normal life experience and normal situation. He needs to learn and to live his life. I have no intentions to pull everybody aside and to forbid them to live their life and to collect valuable experiences. It's true I care about my family but there is a difference between being caring and being loud and dense to the point of acting like oppressor. Imagine if our parents forbade us to go outside and to do anything, how would be learn a single shit. I'm different a bit when I see someone underage here or super immature with possible some crazy psychological/emotional issues, you need to be more careful then, but what is wrong with this guy? He just saw somebody that might be his mate. Most normal thing ever, literally. He can detach or he can try something, so let him decide. I would say the same for everybody pretty much. Advices are okay but let's not be too dense and gang bang someone who is just having normal life situation and in the end everything will be fine anyways.

Fancy, idk why are you so fired up about this so much, maybe some of yours traumas or idk, but, I really think you are panicking too much about this and you might create him even more issues in the end. In my eyes you are acting weird. This all is really not unusal. Let him learn. Girl will be fine, don't worry about her, I don't see why should she have problems with this if you are worried about her lol

I'm not worried about her and I'm not getting fired up, either. I've explained already, but of course my replies wouldn't have been seen immediately, before replying to me.

 

[Alek666]

God, now that I am done with all this bs I finally get to work on the 8 fold path thanks for the drama and actual ignorant everyone.
Jack is the only one that made any sense and wasn't acting like an enemy nordic.

F#@%ing crazy....

It's not about bullshit. It's about offering alternative points of view for you to consider - and from me, it's based on experience. You take the best option for you.

I mean, this guys sees a girl for 5 seconds, he gets infatuated of her because he has an overactive mind, tells us, and we can’t even joke about it. ffs..

As much as I hate to say it again you don't know what I feel and as long as I had an experience with an individual that lasted actually probably more than 5 minutes you stop exaggerating the time. You are not surprised how easy men fall in love. anfd your For F!ck sake is directed at me really? But ask yourself how men easily fall in love most of the time, infact.
These are not jokes aquarius and as soon as somebody took it as a joke which was shael you took it as one too and then fancymanys insult turns into a joke (then fancymancy said he was joking because shael said so that's no joke.) so the insult turns into a joke when shael laughs. gotta be kidding me... stop wasting my time.
Oh and by the way I have been here 7 years please do not refer to me as "some guy" thank you. When were all considered family here I see different here when "this guy" is meant with bad intent.

 

[Alek666]

I suggest this strongly. Rushing in to things is very...stupid. The Brain can weigh-up options and consequences and what I all pro-sequences. The heart cannot, until there is proper balance. Evidently, the is not much balance in this world at the moment.

Tbh, main thing that is on my mind is that we are not his parents, so let him be a bit.

He is actually an adult, he is young still but mature enough I to use his brain in my opinion ( I'm not saying he is the most mature but still he can). This all is normal, it's normal life experience and normal situation. He needs to learn and to live his life. I have no intentions to pull everybody aside and to forbid them to live their life and to collect valuable experiences. It's true I care about my family but there is a difference between being caring and being loud and dense to the point of acting like oppressor. Imagine if our parents forbade us to go outside and to do anything, how would be learn a single shit. I'm different a bit when I see someone underage here or super immature with possible some crazy psychological/emotional issues, you need to be more careful then, but what is wrong with this guy? He just saw somebody that might be his mate. Most normal thing ever, literally. He can detach or he can try something, so let him decide. I would say the same for everybody pretty much. Advices are okay but let's not be too dense and gang bang someone who is just having normal life situation and in the end everything will be fine anyways.

Fancy, idk why are you so fired up about this so much, maybe some of yours traumas or idk, but, I really think you are panicking too much about this and you might create him even more issues in the end. In my eyes you are acting weird. This all is really not unusal. Let him learn. Girl will be fine, don't worry about her, I don't see why should she have problems with this if you are worried about her lol

I'm not worried about her and I'm not getting fired up, either. I've explained already, but of course my replies wouldn't have been seen immediately, before replying to me.

So fancy man I was writing music (you top individual of the world but I cannot fathom how much you are an asshole) my camera battery died and it leaves me feeling like you don't know anything the soul or about me... well duh. so judgmental in a bad way you do not know anything about the soul. Obviously you can stop your shit retard i've had it with you. I can go on and on though. It leaves me worried about the world.
You're like the fish activist killing fish is no kindness it's not food it's violence. fuck off.

 

[Alek666]

I suggest this strongly. Rushing in to things is very...stupid. The Brain can weigh-up options and consequences and what I all pro-sequences. The heart cannot, until there is proper balance. Evidently, the is not much balance in this world at the moment.

Tbh, main thing that is on my mind is that we are not his parents, so let him be a bit.

He is actually an adult, he is young still but mature enough I to use his brain in my opinion ( I'm not saying he is the most mature but still he can). This all is normal, it's normal life experience and normal situation. He needs to learn and to live his life. I have no intentions to pull everybody aside and to forbid them to live their life and to collect valuable experiences. It's true I care about my family but there is a difference between being caring and being loud and dense to the point of acting like oppressor. Imagine if our parents forbade us to go outside and to do anything, how would be learn a single shit. I'm different a bit when I see someone underage here or super immature with possible some crazy psychological/emotional issues, you need to be more careful then, but what is wrong with this guy? He just saw somebody that might be his mate. Most normal thing ever, literally. He can detach or he can try something, so let him decide. I would say the same for everybody pretty much. Advices are okay but let's not be too dense and gang bang someone who is just having normal life situation and in the end everything will be fine anyways.

Fancy, idk why are you so fired up about this so much, maybe some of yours traumas or idk, but, I really think you are panicking too much about this and you might create him even more issues in the end. In my eyes you are acting weird. This all is really not unusal. Let him learn. Girl will be fine, don't worry about her, I don't see why should she have problems with this if you are worried about her lol

I'm not worried about her and I'm not getting fired up, either. I've explained already, but of course my replies wouldn't have been seen immediately, before replying to me.

But of course you're the judgemental fish activist that protects fish. Believe me it's well related.
Fucking idiot. So today I actually had a younger girl say hi to me because she was interested in me, and you're calling me a creep, when if she is interested you know damn well it proabably is not creepy, because I do do yoga and habve many satanic elements about me which it makes me question your satanic power.
You worry about her then you don't make up your fucking mind retard fancy retard.
To make completely clear your comment/story was quite literal and a thoughtform actually directed at me pretty much and was no joke. otherwise there would have been a joke, which if you laughed at that other than him wasting his time well.... I have other things to do than deal with this fancy man which is an asshole. what a fancy man say?

 

[Aldrick Strickland]

God, now that I am done with all this bs I finally get to work on the 8 fold path thanks for the drama and actual ignorant everyone.
Jack is the only one that made any sense and wasn't acting like an enemy nordic.

F#@%ing crazy....

It's not about bullshit. It's about offering alternative points of view for you to consider - and from me, it's based on experience. You take the best option for you.

I mean, this guys sees a girl for 5 seconds, he gets infatuated of her because he has an overactive mind, tells us, and we can’t even joke about it. ffs..

Also theres called getting to the point. If something is longer then 2 paragraphs I just skip over, because I know its someone who doesnt know what theyre talking about. Unless it draws me in and speaks logic right away.

These long abstract blah blah blahblahblah. Wordy namby talk. We should just live in dream world ignore your actual life. He could go to prison and be a registered sex offender for the rest of his life, but who cares! Emotion, real love! Pink ponies.

If you wanna throw your life away, whoever you is pertaining too. Then as soon as consequences hit. Youll learn the lesson and be all sorry. Spend 2 years in a prison cell crying to mommy. While youre now some big black guys ass bitch. To be let out and have the rest of your life fucked up. Cant get a job anywhere. Live on the streets.

You can forget seeing the girl. But no im sure we just dont understand why you love a child you do not know. Is this really the shit we waste our time on at the JOS now? I am not trying to be mean or nasty in anyway about this. But if this post Advocates Peophilia then it needs to be removed for violation of Group Rules.

There must be a clear resonating tone set, of no we do not tolerate that here. We only approve of consenting ADULTS. As for the whole omg I am in eternal Love. Anyone of Adult age should already realize and have been around the block. Sometimes one person is all infatuated and gets rejected Hard. Sometimes both sides get Infatuated, look enough.

Nothing against the guy. He should stay and continue to learn. Im sure hes an awesome but slightly naive dude. He doesnt need to hate me or any of you for the next 5 years and think were his mortal enemies out to destroy him.

We just have to be clear about how things are and not compromise, even if that means others become upset at us. So thats my 2 cents, tried to be as fair as possible. Great guy, you know he probably just hates being alone, his biology is going to make him feel this way. So its nothing he can really do about it. But emotions you end up learning spin you around and slam you into a wall.

That logic and material stuff is what directs you in the world. Much like that harsh trump talk about a wall vs Liberal talk about equality and liberty for all. It is much easier to manipulate someone emotions, then their mind, but if you got their emotions, you also have the mind.

 

[FancyMancy]

I am an arsehole and I am this and I am that and I have this and I have that and I haven't this and I haven't that...and all of the others. Enjoy pursuing someone who is immature with your own immature "Satanic Honour". I wasn't trying to upset you, and it is not bullshit, but I said before that you won't be reasoned with - and thanks for proving me right. Let me, or let us, know what is honourable and Satanic about this entire thing.

 

[Alek666]

Bro she is below legal age. This kind of stuff can get illegal pretty fast, and if the girl ends up getting a grudge against him she can get him into jail easily if she goes to the police. Stuff like wrong rape accusations are a common thing, so it's best to stay cautious in those areas.

Yes I wanted something innocent but we know what love leads to, I wouldn't want her to worry either, We know that is illegal, only because there are inappropriate people, there has to be a limit of course.

You are aware it is illegal? Yet your just going to do it anyway? Oh because people have done things in the past. Yeah thats like saying some people get speeding tickets, so I mean I guess Its Illegal. Till one day you get pulled over and go wow it happened to me. You do not understand consquences and are incredibly immature.

Yea under 16 is sure illegal, meaning I wouldn't do it. Also I am aware of the consequences, so I wouldn't... that is prison. so duh I wouldn't.
I am incredibly immature when I never said I'd go breaking the law left and right with her? Because I wouldn't break the law. So please get that right.

 

[Aldrick Strickland]

Yes I wanted something innocent but we know what love leads to, I wouldn't want her to worry either, We know that is illegal, only because there are inappropriate people, there has to be a limit of course.

You are aware it is illegal? Yet your just going to do it anyway? Oh because people have done things in the past. Yeah thats like saying some people get speeding tickets, so I mean I guess Its Illegal. Till one day you get pulled over and go wow it happened to me. You do not understand consquences and are incredibly immature.

Yea under 16 is sure illegal, meaning I wouldn't do it. Also I am aware of the consequences, so I wouldn't... that is prison. so duh I wouldn't.
I am incredibly immature when I never said I'd go breaking the law left and right with her? Because I wouldn't break the law. So please get that right.

I am not understand how old is this girl and how old you are.

I am happy for your sister. So your sis was under legal age, ran by him and thet fell in love? Remarkable.

 

[Alek666]

I'd had enough insults from all of you "not intending to insult and criticize but still do."
There is no problem here.

This thread is over. :roll:

 

[Alek666]

One more thing I am not naive a pedophile too old a creep creep creep 500 times or anything else you want to throw at me I don't care. I don't tolerate these insults. And am nothing like what you think you were at 23 with your insecurities, ( while dick fancymancy keeps saying I wont be reasoned with, when I don't want sex. What a dick.)

 

[Shael]

Daharkan just stated that these younger boys like to fart in eachothers faces and stuff which I just happened to witness last month, very immature.

Where did "Daharkan" come from all of a sudden hahaha. I'm pretty sure that was Azorm

Fancy is a weird person, but I really don't think he meant you any harm. There can be misunderstandings with these things, especially during a MercuryR.

 

[Alek666]

Daharkan just stated that these younger boys like to fart in eachothers faces and stuff which I just happened to witness last month, very immature.

Where did "Daharkan" come from all of a sudden hahaha. I'm pretty sure that was Azorm

Fancy is a weird person, but I really don't think he meant you any harm. There can be misunderstandings with these things, especially during a MercuryR.

Haha yes that was Azorm whoops..
Though I can't even tell what fancy feels anymore but I imagine once he calms down and understands we should be fine again.

 

[Alek666]

You are aware it is illegal? Yet your just going to do it anyway? Oh because people have done things in the past. Yeah thats like saying some people get speeding tickets, so I mean I guess Its Illegal. Till one day you get pulled over and go wow it happened to me. You do not understand consquences and are incredibly immature.

Yea under 16 is sure illegal, meaning I wouldn't do it. Also I am aware of the consequences, so I wouldn't... that is prison. so duh I wouldn't.
I am incredibly immature when I never said I'd go breaking the law left and right with her? Because I wouldn't break the law. So please get that right.

I am not understand how old is this girl and how old you are.

I am happy for your sister. So your sis was under legal age, ran by him and thet fell in love? Remarkable.

haha my sister was 25 at the time

 

[Aldrick Strickland]

One more thing I am not naive a pedophile too old a creep creep creep 500 times or anything else you want to throw at me I don't care. I don't tolerate these insults. And am nothing like what you think you were at 23 with your insecurities, ( while dick fancymancy keeps saying I wont be reasoned with, when I don't want sex. What a dick.)

I wish I was 18 and knew everything again.

 

[Dahaarkan]

Daharkan just stated that these younger boys like to fart in eachothers faces and stuff which I just happened to witness last month, very immature. Is she a bad person for wanting someone more mature (nothing to do with age.) and works on their perfection. No. Am I a bad person. No. Do you know me enough to judge me, No. Don't say you do because you don't. I can't believe someone could laugh at your mockery and insults directed at another person from joyofsatan. Insult me but your not trying to make me mad wtf, do how know how people work?
I wont be reasoned with when my intentions arn't sex correct. So leave me be, you were obviously not the same as me at 23 with you being so offended. Now you should probably read this over again. I don't see anything wrong with this and you blow it out of the water. I asked for advice on telepathic communication mainly, not you being a dick. Ugh you're repulsive I don't know how anyone here likes you.

 

[Aldrick Strickland]

I'd had enough insults from all of you "not intending to insult and criticize but still do."
There is no problem here.

This thread is over. :roll:

I never meant any insults against you. I apologize Satanic Honor. You seem like a sweet guy. If you are attempting something illegal, its like the fool running for the cliff. People are trying to get you realize. You want people to approve your behavior. Perhaps why you wrote it?

No ones gonna say yeah kid, if it feels good do it! YOLO.

But youre taking everything as a personal insult. When we are trying to nicely disagree.