Head Guardian Blitzkreig
Head of Community
Wildfire said:....
Brother, you are feeling the results of your mistake too intensely. If you are taking steps to correct your actions, like reflecting on what you said and attending to Lightning-Wing's feelings, then there is no need to feel unable to redeem yourself. That is a false assumption based on a perceived lack of control, which is not actually the case, nor do I believe Lightning-Wing is your enemy, despite being upset.
It is also important that we recognize Lightning-Wing's contributions to the forums through her art work. Nobody is going to post perfect material, but that doesn't mean her own value is not recognized, as her art contributes to a positive atmosphere within the community. She shouldn't feel necessarily upset about any criticism, with this in mind.
Lastly, everyone should be aware of the enemy holidays and recognize how these otherwise minor mistakes can become aggravated and amplified into something beyond reasonable, especially as they prey upon existing karmic wounds or feelings of both parties.
Wildfire should issue an apology for any mistakes he has made, which I believe he had done, and Lightning-Wings should take steps to accept this, including voicing her grievances as needed. The focus should be on a true resolution such that everyone is in agreement going forward, rather than one person left upset, including the person who made a mistake.