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[url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], Masquerade <mas6que6rade6@... wrote:
Hi !!!!
First of all, thank you to those who have responded. I'm really happy to receive
advice on this.
You're right C Y, I have omitted key points. Now I try to write a short but
explanatory background.
I know it is not safe to write too much about oneselves in an e-group but if it
can help me I will do.
Eritrofobia is part of social anxiety and social phobia.
This is translated from an Italian site (I'm Italian):
The eritrofobia manifested by hyperemia of the face. The subject's face is
suddenly assumes a bright red color caused by the sudden increase in the amount
of blood in the capillaries of the face (what the English call facial blushing).
The eritrofobia is closely linked to excessive fear of making mistakes, not to
hit a target we had set ourselves, it does not consider the situation, did not
feel able to achieve perfection or, more simply, make a bad impression. Symptoms
dell'eritrofobia occur especially when the subject is, or believes to be, the
focus of a group or an audience, in which case he receives more and more the
fear of blushing and simultaneously warns tachycardia , tightness in chest and a
strong feeling of warmth in the face.
The embarrassment that the subject test, combined with the conviction not to
appear safe and easy, may create a hardship that prevent him from addressing the
situation naturally, the person tends to concentrate in trying to minimize the
phenomenon that starts a process of such distress that the subject feels an
urgent desire to "disappear" from that particular context.
Dell'eritrofobia the consequences can be manifold, the person feels when faced
with others, feelings of insecurity, inadequacy, inferiority and embarrassment.
This leads the person to avoid situations that could trigger the disorder
believes, refrains from taking sides in a debate deemed valid even when his
views. Even a professional choices are more limited since it will pursue
professions that do not require contact with the public or with large number of
colleagues and collaborators, we also avoid, given his sense of inadequacy,
which was seen as too superior to their forces with inevitable consequences in
economic terms. The person often will feel a sense of frustration at not being
able to express and realize their full potential in both intellectual and
professional eritrofobico everything will bring a gradual self-isolation, the
desire to minimize social relations. In less serious cases the person will feel
great regret, however, the commitment at a mental level, which is deep to better
address those situations that he perceives as risky. In severe cases are the
subject threatens to spiral into a dangerous depression that can lead, in
extreme cases, indeed, even suicidal thoughts.
This began about six years ago, I was in severe case except that I never had the
desire to commit suicide.
Now I feel better. I'm stronger but I still can not understand why this phobia
remains.
Here I answere to C Y and goodemon2012.
It is not something generated by the material plane. it's all mental. question
of irrational shame and irrational fear.intense shame and fear.
is similar to a panic attack, I also had someone caused by eritrofobia. Once I
could not even move. I was paralyzed by shame. psychologists call it
depersonalization, and / or derealization. something bad.
repeat that now I am better but still not go away. I tried various therapies,
not a great success. the only thing I still do not know is the cause, the
unconscious.
seems that the cause may be related to sexuality, the unconscious drives. or a
too great discrepancy between self and the ideal self, or between the self and
the superego.
I do not do drugs. I smoke, but if I do not, it goes worse. I try to meditate
but still not good, and I can do little. I still can not go into a trance.
otherwise I would already sounding day and night my subconscious to search for
the cause.
I can not talk to Satan, of course, are not yet able but the things I know about
the possible causes were highlighted by signs. I can not tell you all, we would
put a life to write.
Correspondences with the tarot cards about the causes are III Empress reversed
(root cause) and XI Desire, or Strength (the main pulse/drive that keeps the
problem). Using the deck of Aleister Crowley.
psychologists are not interested in causes, have tried to solve in the present.
with the strength of mind is practically impossible to block the vortex of fear
and shame that takes you.
Now, I'm doing a therapy based on hypnosis.
Sorry again for the poem. I again thank those who have responded. En Haradren
Amlug, thank you for the long post,
i usually write poems so.. I will try to
secure the meditations, I'll try more trance. Very usefull information!
Thank you all for sharing your opinions, information and advice. May Satan be
with you!!
Also publicly thank Satan, though not meditate enough to achieve contact with
him, he is send me a multitude of signs, it helps me a lot!
Thank you brothers and sisters!
Thank Satan!!
Sorry for the english. -masquerade-
Hail Satan!!
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Da: C Y <unseeliegirl@...
A:
[url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url]
Inviato: Lun 26 luglio 2010, 02:11:55
Oggetto: [JoS4adults] Re: Facial blushing, REDNESS of the face
Can you list what triggers your facial blushing?
Have you looked over your diet, any stress that you may have, use of hot water
to wash face and shower, cosmetics products that you use, allergies, perfumes in
cosmetics products, as well as the general temperature and enviroment (humidity,
dryness, etc.) you live in? Do you exercises strenuously, smoke, drink, or do
drugs, which can and will have an effect on your skin?
Can you please list them, to your knowledge?
Do you meditate regularly? Being calm, and being relaxed, will help to lessen
facial blushing. Also, what kind of professionals have you consulted about your
condition? What were their responses?
Hail Satan!
