I don't think I have ever done this before but I have had this attitude; I like to argue it like this -
If you have a Male and a Female, and they both have very nearly the same Body types & shapes and are very similar in height and weight, and you had them stand side-by-side in front of you but the Male characteristics and the Female characteristics were obscured (maybe it's a large picture or a high-quality statue of each)...one probably would not be able to decide which they preferred. Well, they would, but because of programming, they'd pretend not to be able to, and if they were Male and decided they preferred the Male, or Female and the Female, but they consdered themself heterosexual, then they might try and backtrack, argue against it, make excuses or be influenced easily into thinking that they are bi or gay... all because they chose the "wrong" person.
My point is that just from visual, Physical attraction, there isn't much difference between Males and Females. For some people, visual, Physical attraction is irrelevant; they prefer the person's attitude, personality and character. Maybe because they make them laugh, or they're rich, or whatever. For a lot, they think that they have to behave certain ways and do and think and have certain things, etc., to be whatever sexuality. Of course, sexuality is more than merely these things.
Ghost in the Machine said:
I think a very simple illusration of what I believe you are saying would be to use Venn diagrammes.
I actually pictured it more as a square with circles in it, and there being gaps, because circles overlap and don't cover all of the square space. Whatever things would have tro fill-in the gaps, if we want to try and define and label everything. Along this line - again, not everything can be explained logically, but of course we still try to do that, though.
Crystallized Mushroom said:
sonnenkraft said:
if you are male attracted to another male then you can use this attraction in a positive way, not by sex
if both of you decided to have sex then both of you lacks of awareness about gender ,life ,nature ,biology,
culture ,folk,survival .
Homosexuality is a big problem ,most gay men after a long time changes their gender(transgender ) at the End !! that is the truth, the starting point of all transgenders was being gay at the beginning .
* there is no gay in DNA it's a Lie just like other Jewish shit theory ,human naturally choose either he/she wants to be homosexual or no.
and my opinion on what causes homosexual attraction? in general .
1. pornography
2. growing up with andrapod friends ,society
3. situation happened when he was young & he thought it's okay = lack of awareness
4. feeling more comfortable & safe while talking with males to much love & feelings= "social anxiety"
5. pornography
7. pornography
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ummm i don't know about that i get gay feelings despite being a virgin and still wish I could have sex but yes i do watch pornography yet i'm sure i've had these feelings before i found out about porn however i do also look at nude women sometimes just to see what that looks like maybe I should try some hookup app i guess
I've seen plenty of gay/lesbian, bi and straight porn, and that hasn't made me gay, bi or straight. I knew I liked Boys when I was in primary school (under 10 years old), as I also liked Girls - and that was before I ever started watching porn. As I grew older, watched porn, interacted with people sexually and non-sexually, watched more porn, interacted with more people sexually and non-sexually/the same ones more, etc., nothing changed my fancying for either, either. Sometimes I like one or the other more at times and for reasons, or dare I say depending on my mood, or what I need at any particular time; regardless, I still like both. I don't think I could ever stop stop being attracted to both, but I do have my preferences for whatever reasons.