Attachment problem advice needed

[Ara666]

How do you get rid of someone who’s subconsciously trying to create some sort of attachment to you?

So here's what happened:

There's this person I know. She’s very nice and all but there’s something off about her that’s bothering me. Whenever she talks to me, I get this feeling like she’s trying to cling onto me, like she’s trying to attach herself to me on a subconscious level… it’s so weird.

Sometimes I get the impression she has no friends and she just needs someone to talk to, but this weird feeling I get from her is very real. I’ve never picked up on this kind of thing before.

Last time she called me and I didn’t reply. But a few days ago, I was like “let’s just give her the benefit of the doubt and see how it goes.” So we talked (well, she did. For the most part. So I listened). And then she just started to reveal these uncomfortable details about her childhood (some of her relatives beat her when she was a kid). She’s into angelic meditations and shitty stuff like that. And I thought maybe that explains why she’s behaving like this… What if one of those f*cked up greys attached itself to her? Is it possible?

But then I think maybe she just really needs someone to talk to (unfortunately for her, I don’t want to be that someone).

And I don’t want this to get worse.

After her phone call, I felt so weird... And I still wonder why did she reveal those specific creepy details about her childhood to me? I mean, I do my best not to attract any attention. She's the one who always comes to talk first.

What do you guys think? How can I “gently” get rid of her? Would a binding spell do the trick? I was thinking to use the Isa rune and affirm something like: “in a positive way for me, (person's name) is unable to harm me in any way, consciously and subconsciously.”

Any insights would be greatly appreciated.

 

[Shael]

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I'm a bit confused now. Why don't you just stop talking to her if that's what you want?
I see no need to even do a working here. If you dont want to help her, then just dont talk to her and leave it be, she should lose interest soon enough and find someone else.

 

[Libra]

She was so readily open about her trauma because she either is trying to latch onto you for emotional support or is making it up for attention. Either way, it’s a parasitic connection. Even if there was no spiritual element to it, this person would be unwise to associate with.

Just bind her and stop talking to her. Stop even thinking about her and feeing sorry for her. It’s not worth wasting the energy on someone involved with such self-destructive crap. Use it as a lesson to not associate with someone tied directly into the enemy matrix through angel meditations or whatever new age crap they wanna do and move on.

 

[Head Guardian Sophiles Phylax]

How do you get rid of someone who’s subconsciously trying to create some sort of attachment to you?

So here's what happened:

There's this person I know. She’s very nice and all but there’s something off about her that’s bothering me. Whenever she talks to me, I get this feeling like she’s trying to cling onto me, like she’s trying to attach herself to me on a subconscious level… it’s so weird.

Sometimes I get the impression she has no friends and she just needs someone to talk to, but this weird feeling I get from her is very real. I’ve never picked up on this kind of thing before.

Last time she called me and I didn’t reply. But a few days ago, I was like “let’s just give her the benefit of the doubt and see how it goes.” So we talked (well, she did. For the most part. So I listened). And then she just started to reveal these uncomfortable details about her childhood (some of her relatives beat her when she was a kid). She’s into angelic meditations and shitty stuff like that. And I thought maybe that explains why she’s behaving like this… What if one of those f*cked up greys attached itself to her? Is it possible?

But then I think maybe she just really needs someone to talk to (unfortunately for her, I don’t want to be that someone).

And I don’t want this to get worse.

After her phone call, I felt so weird... And I still wonder why did she reveal those specific creepy details about her childhood to me? I mean, I do my best not to attract any attention. She's the one who always comes to talk first.

What do you guys think? How can I “gently” get rid of her? Would a binding spell do the trick? I was thinking to use the Isa rune and affirm something like: “in a positive way for me, (person's name) is unable to harm me in any way, consciously and subconsciously.”

Any insights would be greatly appreciated.

I would be very very careful here. Her soul is probably fucked from the abuse and angelic meditations. I think she is trying to cling to you to get you to draw in grey energy that she possesses on/in her. Do not think of this as just "oh all they need is a friend". It is more like a predatory trap trying to draw in its prey. She is being used as a weapon against you. Please read this thread, as I think it very much pertains to you!

Is she around you in person or just through the phone/social media? How are you associated to her? I would do everything possible to avoid her. You are not obligated to be nice or entertain her in the slightest. The more you interact with her, the more she attaches to you. If your interaction is distance-based, then just block her in every way and delete everything about her.

For physical interaction, this may be trickier. You could just flat out say you don't want to be associated with her, but if she is your coworker or something, then this might become a complicated social problem. If she is just a random "friend", then you should certainly do this. Based on what was said in the linked thread, I wouldn't even consider her as a human in the sense of needing to be polite or anything.

I would suggest the highest magnitude of binding possible, but I am unsure what the best type of binding or spiritual approach is best, because you want to minimize the interaction with her to be as minimal as possible. You may need to pursue some sort of detachment working as well. Additionally, if physical interaction is unavoidable, consider closing your chakras before being near her. Do not do anything else towards her: Do not try to do an Ritual directed at her, don't try to clean her, etc. You are best avoiding her completely.

Please read the linked thread, as I believe the situation to be very similar in nature!

Also: pinging

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for advanced input.

 

[Ara666]

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I could stop talking to her, but it's not that simple, because sometimes I'm in contact with her. For now, I can't really avoid her just like that.

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I really feel like it's a parasitic connection. I don't feel sorry for her at all. I guess the angelic meditations really screwed up her mind and soul.

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I read the thread you provided and I kinda think the situation applies to my problem.

Sometimes she's around me in person, sometimes it's through the phone and/or social media. When I don't focus on her, it's fine. But when I think about the times when she interacted with me, I still remember feeling this weird energy coming from her like she's trying to attach herself to me...

It's interesting how you confirmed some of the things my GD mentionned (but I wasn't sure if it came from my GD or not because I was still feeling her creepy energy).

I don't even feel sorry for her. I don't want to save her or anything like that, that's the weirdest part. In the past, yeah, I would've made an effort to try and do my best to "save" her, but not anymore. She's not even worth it. I think she's too f*cked up to be saved anyway.

 

[Sundara]

How do you get rid of someone who’s subconsciously trying to create some sort of attachment to you?

So here's what happened:

There's this person I know. She’s very nice and all but there’s something off about her that’s bothering me. Whenever she talks to me, I get this feeling like she’s trying to cling onto me, like she’s trying to attach herself to me on a subconscious level… it’s so weird.

Sometimes I get the impression she has no friends and she just needs someone to talk to, but this weird feeling I get from her is very real. I’ve never picked up on this kind of thing before.

Last time she called me and I didn’t reply. But a few days ago, I was like “let’s just give her the benefit of the doubt and see how it goes.” So we talked (well, she did. For the most part. So I listened). And then she just started to reveal these uncomfortable details about her childhood (some of her relatives beat her when she was a kid). She’s into angelic meditations and shitty stuff like that. And I thought maybe that explains why she’s behaving like this… What if one of those f*cked up greys attached itself to her? Is it possible?

But then I think maybe she just really needs someone to talk to (unfortunately for her, I don’t want to be that someone).

And I don’t want this to get worse.

After her phone call, I felt so weird... And I still wonder why did she reveal those specific creepy details about her childhood to me? I mean, I do my best not to attract any attention. She's the one who always comes to talk first.

What do you guys think? How can I “gently” get rid of her? Would a binding spell do the trick? I was thinking to use the Isa rune and affirm something like: “in a positive way for me, (person's name) is unable to harm me in any way, consciously and subconsciously.”

Any insights would be greatly appreciated.

My way of dealing with this would be to just stop talking to her. Maybe I’m mean. If someone gets all suicidal on me quickly, I just call the police and tell them they can go get help and that I’m not responsible for it. Shuts ‘em up.

I don’t really care about the reaction someone might give me when they want to attach too quickly.

It’s true though, maybe she’s just lonely. I wouldn’t jump to the conclusion that she’s a bad person. There isn’t really anyone out there who doesn’t have problems with the enemy. The only ones who don’t are satanists, but even then it’s troublesome during attacks.