Other men always get there before me

[phosphate]

This is why I hate other men because where women are concerned they always get there before me or beat me to it as it were. I've never even had a girlfriend or been in a relationship despite being an asocial man in my early 40s. It seems like other men are always in the right place at the right time and manage to impress the women I want. It's those men who are having meaning spun into their lives by women and most saddening of all it is they who will enjoy the miracle of seeing their children born and not mine. It makes me despise children (that aren't my DNA) and loathe other men.

 

[Shines666]

This is why I hate other men because where women are concerned they always get there before me or beat me to it as it were. I've never even had a girlfriend or been in a relationship despite being an asocial man in my early 40s. It seems like other men are always in the right place at the right time and manage to impress the women I want. It's those men who are having meaning spun into their lives by women and most saddening of all it is they who will enjoy the miracle of seeing their children born and not mine. It makes me despise children (that aren't my DNA) and loathe other men.

Take my advice with a grain of salt, I'm not the most advanced out there, but I'm doing my best. Don't focus on just any woman to impress her, most of the time, that'll be like throwing water into a leaky bucket. Focus on attracting someone compatible with you (you can program your aura to do this), and everything will be so easy and natural. Be yourself and don't force anything. You should also check your birth chart to see if you have any obstacles in this area.

 

[Aquarius]

If you're 40, asocial, and hate other better men. I have some bad news for you. The problem is entirely you.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

This is why I hate other men because where women are concerned they always get there before me or beat me to it as it were. I've never even had a girlfriend or been in a relationship despite being an asocial man in my early 40s. It seems like other men are always in the right place at the right time and manage to impress the women I want. It's those men who are having meaning spun into their lives by women and most saddening of all it is they who will enjoy the miracle of seeing their children born and not mine. It makes me despise children (that aren't my DNA) and loathe other men.

Skill issue

 

[Henu the Great]

There are numerous tools available for us to change such things for the better. Hating other people for one's shortcomings will not get you there.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

It is a skill issue. Get good. Work to improve yourself.

 

[616Taysha]

Victim mentality will get you nowhere, and more so wallowing in your own misery, so cut the crap.

Did you come here to find a solution to your predicament? GOOD. You're one step closer to improving yourself - and getting women to see you.

Spiritual means aside - do you do any physical activities? Or go-to-work / Dorito's / porn, etc? Yeah, those are sick stereotypes, but sometimes it is the case.

No one is born equal - and that is good. Learn what you can do, and how to gain advantage over other men. How you can gain advantage.

If you are not fit - eg. https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyEthier

To motivate yourself even further, check "fat gym transformation".

Now, why on Zeus' Earth am I emphasising hitting the gym? Simple:
1) getting in shape = endorphins = victim mentality killer,
2) socialisation - regardless how introverted we are, or how much we claim we are asocial, humans THRIVE off of socialisation

Waiting to hear about your progress! And no, I know it won't be in a month or two. And remember - you will hate, HATE the process, but the REWARD will be worth it.

 

[Lucifigus]

This is why I hate other men because where women are concerned they always get there before me or beat me to it as it were. I've never even had a girlfriend or been in a relationship despite being an asocial man in my early 40s. It seems like other men are always in the right place at the right time and manage to impress the women I want. It's those men who are having meaning spun into their lives by women and most saddening of all it is they who will enjoy the miracle of seeing their children born and not mine. It makes me despise children (that aren't my DNA) and loathe other men.

Read this:

The Aura

There it writes: "You want love in your life"

 

[Egon]

Do gym, Sun Squares and Mars Squares to improve your virility - these weeks and months are auspicious for this, look up the calendar; and interact with women like you are a normal human being.

 

[Engineered Trasformation]

This is why I hate other men because where women are concerned they always get there before me or beat me to it as it were. I've never even had a girlfriend or been in a relationship despite being an asocial man in my early 40s. It seems like other men are always in the right place at the right time and manage to impress the women I want. It's those men who are having meaning spun into their lives by women and most saddening of all it is they who will enjoy the miracle of seeing their children born and not mine. It makes me despise children (that aren't my DNA) and loathe other men.

You received many valuable answers on here.
I can add mine as a side add-on: if you despise children, and you feel generally weak, antisocial and depressed, you MAY have suffered heavy trauma leading you to feel of no value. This recurrent feeling, constantly repeated in your subconscious, will lower your self esteem, Mars energies, and also your energy levels bringing your appeal to women down. So yes, as many people said, the problem ma be in you but is NOT you in itself or your fault. There's something to be addressed, healed and empowered to better your situation, like fixing.
Feeling anger for better men is incorrect, you may think you are resented against them. In truth, 90% of the times, you are resented against yourself and you project this on them.

If you ask guidance to your GD for healing your internal wounds and improve your self esteem, thinks will get better. Slowly, but firmly. Don't neglect yourself, and other people won't neglect you, including women. Feel free to speak here openly, even anonymously, by PM, if you find the root problems in you as talking and being listened you is very important, at certain points in life. We are here.

Don't feel sad, you are surrounded by andrapoda. Often, empty women are attracted by men who use their energies to subdued women and "catch" or "fish" them as they like to think. Yet this works but... is it the right way to go?
You may find a woman who is not looking for a masculine men in itself, maybe a woman who thinks and is Spiritually aware, so her choice will not be determined by your "power to attract" but only by her choice, because she will see something good somewhere else in you.
Of course this does not mean it's ok to be weak, what I mean is - don't think it Hollywood style like the jews want - think it

If you're 40, asocial, and hate other better men. I have some bad news for you. The problem is entirely you.

I have been thinking to this thread and your answer for a while.
This firmly leads the person receiving your words to feel very wrong with himself. Entirely you? Are you talking about a scrap car to be wasted and recycled or a Zevist man.
I understand what you mean, internal hung-ups need to be fixed, but maybe other people will not get the core meaning if you express this is 4 words, this way.
This sounds like "man I know what it means being a strong man, but you don't, as you are entirely a problem". Something like this, a bit arrogant.
I may be too empathic here or write too much but, I want to disagree with this way of expressing "help" ad indeed there's no mention to any solution or help in your words, just blaming other's temporary weakness.
Just imagine your childer coming to you "hey daddy I dislike my school mates as they are rude and stupid and they play all toghether while I am alone in a corner"... oh my dear son "the problem is entirely you". Would you like to be answered this way? Think.

Do gym, Sun Squares and Mars Squares to improve your virility - these weeks and months are auspicious for this, look up the calendar; and interact with women like you are a normal human being.

This is a constructive answer, full of respect and not addressing to the person's weakness, but proposing an uplifting solution instead in a respectful manner.