For the ones who struggle with dealing with people in real life because of opinions/beliefs etc..

[Goldenwings]

( im talking in this thread about real life , since its easy to get along with people in this forum with" the real you "as we hold same or similar beliefs and opinions, but you know how it is like in real life)

If your real personality ( beliefs , opinions, interests etc..) cant get along with people around you, thats normal, and here is how i solved it years ago

I felt the same, solution is i created multiple personalities( im just doing it automatically i dont feel like acting you can start with 2 personalities( its actually enough): the real you and the one you use to interact) i wear a different mask depending on whom im talking with, and my real personality is only revealed to the ones that are very close , for example sometimes in real life im wearing muslim mask, sometimes i may be an open minded muslim, sometimes "maybe" he is an athiest, and sometimes even a muslim glorifying satan( it may sound weird but i can do that ),depends since when i do otherwise i face problems

Also personality with neighbors is not same in work, not same while shopping, not same in a relationship, etc..

I see it like if you are in a farm, you cant have same personality with bulls/pigs/rabits/horses... ( Im not degrading humans, but an example that will make you understand is better than playing hide and seek) Everyone responds to different techniques and everyone has special ways of dealing with, if you treat a horse same way you treat a rabbit he wont like that you dont have control you will mostly have problems unless if he is very gentle, also you cant ride a bull or milk a pig

its just different, this is often observed in men who start deep conversations with women they try to be in relationship with, start debating the matrix or whatever in first date and by consequence the women lose interest , and he thinks he didnt do something wrong

Wrong personality wrong place, besides if you "need nothing" besides if you can handle opposition, besides if you just dont care besides if you have more than enough options, besides if you like to troll, besides if you like to assert whoever you are, its better in real life to create comforming personalities that help you achieve what you want or just navigate life without unnecessary problems

But there are people in real life that i can talk to them with my real personality,however if i do same with others i get hurt, so i just show one 5% of my real me , another 10% another 50% then i feel opposition and i tune it down 35% then the problem vanish and so on, i figure out quickly the percentage one is comfortable with and i generally interact with him with that

This technique im using myself in real life and its working perfectly for me

 

[Tethys333]

I don't particularly agree with the concept of “multiple personalities.” Based on how you describe it, a better way to define it would be pretending to be something you are not in order to protect yourself. This is logical when you are faced with a potential enemy (whether Jewish, Muslim, or others) because they could hurt you. But when faced with “andrapoda” people (I WILL IGNORE THE SPIRITUAL POINT OF VIEW, WHICH MUST ALWAYS BE HIDDEN), my advice is to behave as you are: with your own passions, your own hobbies, your own character. There is no law that says you have to get along with everyone, and it is also okay not to get along with some people.

I further disagree when you talk about relationships between men and women during a date. I believe that your multiple personalities are very wrong there. When you are on a date, I don't think there is anything more right than showing yourself to the other person as you are.

You can't pretend to be someone you're not just to please the other person; you would both be unhappy. There is no prototype for a man or woman, but they must be compatible with you and your ideals. If you don't know the real him or her, how can you really like them? If you want to impress someone, you just have to be yourself. If they like you, it means there is potential for a deeper relationship; otherwise, nothing happens and everyone goes back to their everyday lives.


If a person has difficulty relating to others in their life, well, they also need to work on themselves. People are often convinced that others are always the problem, failing to recognize that perhaps they themselves have something to improve.

Meditation also helps in these respects: increasing charisma, boosting self-esteem, and so on.

But first of all, we need to face reality, understand that this is how we are and that's okay, and if we know we can improve, we shouldn't waste time and do it immediately. Meditation, said Shiva, serves to flood every cell of our body with happiness. If improving our charisma or improving ourselves in general makes us happy, then let's meditate. But I don't think multiple personalities can actually help. On the contrary, I am convinced that people would feel worse and, above all, lost because they would not feel like themselves.

Our goal is to improve, not to feel bad.

 

[Aquarius]

Since you're creating so many threads you could perhaps create a thread called GoldenWings's thread, and post them all in there.

 

[Goldenwings]

Since you're creating so many threads you could perhaps create a thread called GoldenWings's thread, and post them all in there.

Thank you for your reply
Is this actually possible? Or do you mean i should post in my profil instead ? Or not post at all, im okay with whatever the forum rules are

 

[Goldenwings]

I don't particularly agree with the concept of “multiple personalities.” Based on how you describe it, a better way to define it would be pretending to be something you are not in order to protect yourself. This is logical when you are faced with a potential enemy (whether Jewish, Muslim, or others) because they could hurt you. But when faced with “andrapoda” people (I WILL IGNORE THE SPIRITUAL POINT OF VIEW, WHICH MUST ALWAYS BE HIDDEN), my advice is to behave as you are: with your own passions, your own hobbies, your own character. There is no law that says you have to get along with everyone, and it is also okay not to get along with some people.

I further disagree when you talk about relationships between men and women during a date. I believe that your multiple personalities are very wrong there. When you are on a date, I don't think there is anything more right than showing yourself to the other person as you are.

You can't pretend to be someone you're not just to please the other person; you would both be unhappy. There is no prototype for a man or woman, but they must be compatible with you and your ideals. If you don't know the real him or her, how can you really like them? If you want to impress someone, you just have to be yourself. If they like you, it means there is potential for a deeper relationship; otherwise, nothing happens and everyone goes back to their everyday lives.


If a person has difficulty relating to others in their life, well, they also need to work on themselves. People are often convinced that others are always the problem, failing to recognize that perhaps they themselves have something to improve.

Meditation also helps in these respects: increasing charisma, boosting self-esteem, and so on.

But first of all, we need to face reality, understand that this is how we are and that's okay, and if we know we can improve, we shouldn't waste time and do it immediately. Meditation, said Shiva, serves to flood every cell of our body with happiness. If improving our charisma or improving ourselves in general makes us happy, then let's meditate. But I don't think multiple personalities can actually help. On the contrary, I am convinced that people would feel worse and, above all, lost because they would not feel like themselves.

Our goal is to improve, not to feel bad.

( Note: im not encouraging anything against Zevism here )

Thank you for your reply, i highly value your opinion, i am not saying you are wrong , i will just clarify my perspective, maybe i caused confusion in my thread

First this is result based, in last 7-8 years i never got a problem in real life with 1 person, so i just thought this may help other people

Now i will answer your comment @Tethys333 , and keep in mind i highly value your opinion im just sharing mine , since you are too gentle hearted that i feel like doing a crime posting opinion different than yours, I just want to clarify that i do not "fake personallity", since when i read my post again it sounded like that, when i want to go out and wear clothes , i dont fake appearance, when a girl does make up she doesnt intend to fake her appearance , if i wear a suit today and a tchirt tomorow they are not different "me" its just me wearing different things, i managed to do the same with personalities, the same way i can wear suit to work, but tchirt when chilling, i can wear a personality in work and a personality in a coffee

I think you got my poiint, it doesnt feel like work i started doing this unconsciously like a chameleon, he changes the colours but he is the same, concerning dating, from a girl point of view , its not the same as a mans point of view, i put the two on the test, i always pushed my real personality and put it on the table, but it just doesnt work, not because its bad, but for many other reasons that i can talk about for hours, then i tried the opposite ( which is what almost every man i know does and which i was the only one against ) but i didnt want to try the opposite the same way everyone doing it

I said if im gonna pick a role it must be unique, so what i did , is what i literally called " horned personality" , and i had fun creating that, since i tried to make it as "amazigh"(north african) as possible, and now in morocco amazigh culture is looked down at compared to white culture, so i sided with my culture, created a personality with it( also used that as way of rebellion) and the reason i called it horned, is i made myself look " having horns" in the same time keeping the real me inside, which was considered too kind, i was shocked at how good this worked compared to just being me

I everytime got told " you are a psycopath" ( before i got told you are a kind (aka boring)) so i understood they felt it, additionally they couldnt tell why i am a psycopath, it was for no reason ( it made me confirm they truly feel it , since the inside is the same even if i appear with horns) , additionally, i everytime received this message " i love you and i hate you" which made me sure they feel it since i had an external horned look ( which they label bad) and an internal too kind personality , and i had so fun playing this personality that it became me, i use it many times now in real life i just love it , i use it even when im alone i become it , it feels so good, i also purchased some animalistic perfumes so that when i feel like it i wear this kind of perfumes with this personality

I also tried talking to a girl, i desactivate the personality i created she just start being cold then i activate it she quickly start to be interested again then i desactivate it and she started being cold, i tested this many time this is how it works, i even twice after this personality wanted to put my old personality to the test and literally got told " you are too nice to handle me" , and i kept talking normal, then slowly activated the other personality and one of them i swear was calling me like 30 times a day, this shaked my perception, i am convinced, most of the things that i say in this forum come from experience, i dont read somewhere and come and i say what i read

Additionally, you said you should work on your personality, actually this is exactly what i said above , its having multiple personalities, just said in a different way, since while working on yourself you will understand that in work you should behave this way.. for the employees to do what you tell them to do you should tell it this way... And so on then with your family you shouldnt behave like with your employees , you should behave this way .... And so on until you end up behaving in different ways based on the place is it work or a coffee or whatever

I got too aware of the complex reactions and way of behaving in each scenario that i called every set of rules a personality,

In work:
Do this
Dont do this
Do this
But this isnt okay
Dont talk politics
Dress sharp
Dont over spray perfume, use fresh perfumes instead of oud or something
And so on
So those rules , i call them : work personality

And i got too skilled at this that i switch faster than a chameleon, i can make a call , activate work personality since its about work, the call ends, im in home personality, then i go meet family member ( family personality activated)

So its not "faked personalities" , its the real me, but still not me , for example in work you should not talk religion, it doesnt mean that if you dont talk religion its no longer you and you lost yourself or you are faking it

To end my message, i would have loved if relationships worked the way you said, but in real life its different, and i endured being real so much, it just doesnt work, and to prove xhat i created is still "me" , i still dont tolerate many things, as an example i discovered many girls love to play like they dont want sex and love the man to kind of be pushy and they like that play, i hate that, this i dont accept even with the personality i created, since this is playing that she refuses = playing that i am not worthy of her = my body completly lose interest even if i try to force him, additionally i discovered some like to play being strong and then be dominated

I hate that, my preference is the girl im with should me submissive by nature and by choice, not something i should achieve, if it is to be "achieved" instantly my body and the inner deep me lose interest even if my mind or heart object

So this post isnt about accepting anything under the name of it being just a "play" , you clearly see now that i have many "NO" that wont happen even with the personalities "i am playing"

Additionally, im handsome and muscular, thats why i got away with the first personality for a while, all the man i know, without exception, who are stuck with first personality and dont work on themselves, have no girls interest

 

[Aquarius]

You can make a thread like this and post all of your posts in it. This to avoid flooding the forums.

 

[Goldenwings]

You can make a thread like this and post all of your posts in it. This to avoid flooding the forums.

Thank you for your suggestion

can you tell me please are you a member or a mod? I dont know yet what symbols near name mean and i see you have a pen and a man there

Thank you

Since i found it weird that you have a reaction rate of 35% and i have reaction rate of 72.95%, and you have 10000 message and i have 400, you flooded the forum with stuff people dont like, additionally when i checked your profil you have stolen quotes , check mine see the greatness there, english is my 4th language it may not sound poetic but 99% is original work, additionally all your messages seem to be " thank you" " thank you" "thank you" , i believe the forum needs someone like me, maybe. Or maybe you are right, im open for growth


Im not being rude here, but you and @616Taysha seem to be okay with talking directly , i m just doing the same just to understand, if truly im labeled flooding the forum i will stop instantly, but after seing your profil, i cant subject to your tip, i believe in hierarchy, any member i clearly see he is more advanced than me i take his words seriously it doesnt have to be necesarly one with a title

I really hope you arent a mod and if you are im sorry i should respect you anyway for doing work for forum

 

[Aquarius]

Since i found it weird that you have a reaction rate of 35% and i have reaction rate of 72.95%, and you have 10000 message and i have 400, you flooded the forum with stuff people dont like, additionally when i checked your profil you have stolen quotes , check mine see the greatness there, english is my 4th language it may not sound poetic but 99% is original work, additionally all your messages seem to be " thank you" " thank you" "thank you" , i believe the forum needs someone like me, maybe. Or maybe you are right, im open for growth

I've been here 10 years, you're not even dedicated.

If you want to play the arrogance game then I'll tell you directly that most of the stuff you write is nonsense and you're flooding the forum with low value stuff. That's why I was kindly asking you to keep everything in one thread.

 

[Goldenwings]

I've been here 10 years, you're not even dedicated.

If you want to play the arrogance game then I'll tell you directly that most of the stuff you write is nonsense and you're flooding the forum with low value stuff. That's why I was kindly asking you to keep everything in one thread.

You and @616Taysha should understand its not about how old you have been here. I cannot believe you made contact with the Gods and you didnt improve much besides if you dont apply what they telling you.

I will for sure start posting only when its necessary

And this will be the last time i answer a reply of you or @616Taysha until you improve the way you talk, since i tried being kind even if @616Taysha had always been against me , but from now on i will ignore and continue on my path to greatness.

And understand that i can sense and see the level of each member, know that.
I have been around in this universe for eternity.
I have nothing against you nor @616Taysha by the way, i view everyone in this forum as holy, being part of it all.

Im so grateful for the HP / mods in the forum. And i hold HPHC as an example.

Now you can attack me or say whatever you want to say, feel free, i won't lose more energy on something like this instead of growth.