I think we have a misunderstanding here. As far as I know, we were talking about respect toward gods. I do not question/compare their abilities, technologies, or anything. As you said, they are superior to us a millionfold, so we should be more concerned about how we show ourselves to the gods.
I didn't know that about your mother, sorry about that. Take "mother" as referring to the one who raised you.
Maybe it depends on the god. For example, Lord Asmodeus prefers to be summoned
bareheaded. And personally, I had more positive interactions after I cleaned myself, my room, desk. Also, I feel more ready after doing some preparations.
Take care of yourself mate.