I wasn't suggesting that this self protection by avoidance is the best form of safety and I certainly never said anything to suggest to not use magic. All I did was describe the motivations and influences which would make this behaviour necessary and how this behaviour acts to save lives. Something which you clearly never considered when you so rudely just dismissed her and basically called her a weak NPC loser with no dignity. You are judging purely by your own experiences in your own culture and not thinking anything about how it could be in the rest of the world.
Another thing, I've never seen this person post before so they are probably new. A very beginner just starting to create a protective aura for the first time, is that aura immediately inpenetrable? Or does it need to be built up to become strong? Of course the gods protect all of us and this and person is totally safe. I never said anything to suggest not to trust the gods or not to make a protective aura, but my post wasn't about that. I only intended to show how in SOME cultures (obviously yours isn't one of them is why you don't seem to understand) and in some situations this type of behaviour has developed as a safety mechanism. I never suggested that this is the best way to act or even really necessary once we have our magic, all I did is try to show why this behaviour would develope to hopefully show you how you could have some more compassion. You still seem to be stuck inside the framework of your own personal experiences inside your own country, not realizing that many places in the world have been and still are MUCH more dangerous. Unfortunately especially toward women.
How many have been raped and/or killed in past lives or even in this current time? Surely such an experience would influence the way they act in their future lives, including making them more cautious and trying to avoid any kind of potential conflict. I'm happy that you are a normal person who has good normal human morals, but I hoped to show you that not everyone is like that. You can't judge the whole situation based only on yourself. Just look at these muslim child raping terrorists, do you honestly think just being firm about your limits would mean anything to some monster like that? Because monsters like this do and have existed in the world. You didn't even consider that. This is the perspective I hoped to show you, but obviously you're so overly defensive and angry (over basically nothing at all) that you totally missed all that. Good way to show how big you are, you win. I'm glad all those girls called you back, that's really important.
So in this one single post I have made it could be thought to be some half true fake advice. I don't personally agree with that, but it's all fine if that's your opinion. Other than the high priests, who in these forums gives more advice than me? There's many of us consistently helping, I'm certainly not trying to sound like I'm putting myself up as better than anyone. But honestly, how many people here actually help more than I do? Look on any post, any question, since the first posts of this new forum (I was never on the old forum) chances are on any question you click on you'll see me consistently giving perfect help. Usually with the poster of the question coming back and thanking me, saying that it was exactly what they needed. And with all the people who read these forums who don't post, I'm sure my advice has helped literally thousands of people in countless different situations. I'm sure I've even helped you before, even if you don't realize. How much of a positive Zevist influence of helpfulness, love, support, and advice am I? I think it's pretty obvious if you want to be honest.
Conversely, this topic has somebody new asking for some innocent help and advice, and you come in with
"they don't have the strength in them and dignity, It's just straight out NPC mentality." You calling somebody weak and a damaged NPC soul just for having some small innocent trait that was most likely developed as a result of some horrible traumatic experience. Is this your idea of helpfulness or general decency? Because to me it was just plainly disgusting. I would hope nobody would try to put somebody down like that here, especially somebody new asking for innocent help.
And no thank you, I'm not going to read at least one psychology book every single month. That sounds to me like a total waste of time, as you surely must know the entire structure of modern phychological thought is pure Yehuborim garbage. I don't need to read any book about that, my pure intuition and ability to see how everything works is good enough for me. And since I see everything from such a clear big picture view, I just hoped I could show you an important part of the picture that you obviously never considered. To help YOU, and everyone else. I hope this time you are clear headed enough while reading my post to actually understand what I'm trying to say. I'm only trying to help, as always.
Reckoned, I lovingly and truly hope you (and everyone else here) perfect success and growth on your spiritual path. It will open you to a much wider and clearer view of the world. You will understand what I meant with all this and you'll come to agree with me. Or you won't agree with me that doesn't bother me. But you probably will.
Reckoned666 said:
Ol argedco luciftias said:
Reckoned666 said:
There are quite a lot of those. They have literally no intention of reciprocating or going out but they don't have the strength in them and dignity to just straight out refuse (or explain that it won't go past the platonic state of relationship) and tell the reasoning behind it. It's just straight out NPC mentality. Especially popular in my country, as well.
This isn't really fair to say. You aren't a woman and you have no idea how it can be. Do you have any idea how many women have actually been killed just for rejecting someone? Literally millions. It's horrible. Just imagine how it is in all the muslim countries. Many of us have souls that are so old, many women alive now actually have been victims of this in past lives. That can still effect them. You don't know what some souls may have experienced.
Trying to get out of the situation as safely and calmly as possible without angering the guy is what this is really about, not some sort of NPC weakness. This is a simple defensive act. Don't make him angry by rejecting him too bluntly, just say whatever to get away quietly and alive. It's sad that some women have had to adopt this way of thinking, even if it's subconsciously, but they obviously aren't doing anything wrong. Just protecting themselves.
Sorry you got your little feelings hurt by some girls not calling you back or whatever, but that doesn't go anywhere to justify accusing a woman that her soul is weak or damaged somehow just because she is doing what is safest for herself. I know you weren't thinking of the situation like this and didn't mean anything bad by your post, but it was pretty disgusting to read.
Did you read my other post or it wasn't posted yet?
I have a lot of close friends who are girls. I'm a heterosexual male. And neither of us tried to cross the platonic line, ever. It's about letting yourself be understood and asserting yourself, what you expect from this relationship and so on.
Stop making prejudices about my sexual - love life.
Stop giving advice which is half true and worthless in soon to be Zevism society.
If you want her to protect herself suggest actually having an immense Aura of Protection and strong relationship with Satan and GD, which will ensure the Islamists, rapefugees, or thirsty males won't EVEN look at her if you make the RIGHT affirmation and do the things mentioned above correctly.
Instead of focusing and making assumptions about my experience next time give an actual advice, for starters.
And I've never had a girl "not call me back", just for fyi. If you base this on psychological context, then next time try reading at least one book a month relating to this subject.
