Question #4854: My polyamorous boyfriend

He's not going to change his mind. He is low quality, get rid of him.

Beside saying that he is low quality, he told you that he is polygamous, he didnt play any game. You should search anothe man since he wont change.

He's not going to change his mind. He is low quality, get rid of him.

People are different. Not everyone is monogamous.

Father Satan isn't monogamous. Is he low quality too? No.

People are different. Not everyone is monogamous.

Father Satan isn't monogamous. Is he low quality too? No.

The thing about the 5 wives is not literal, it's an allegory for the 5 elements.

The thing about the 5 wives is not literal, it's an allegory for the 5 elements.

It is confusing. One source says it is true and another that it is not. It confuses me.

The thing about the 5 wives is not literal, it's an allegory for the 5 elements.

Why is it always worded on the JoS as if it is literal? Is this deliberate?

Why is it always worded on the JoS as if it is literal? Is this deliberate?

And I mean in general, such as the thing about the demon's being "bound'

In my opinion, if he really would love you, he wouldn't seek sex with other women. A boyfriend who openly tells you that they want to have sex with women is not a good quality partner. You will only suffer with him. You need to think more about yourself and your worth. Would you like to have children in the future with a person who does not care about your honour and value? Find a new man who will treat you with more dignity and respect. You will definitely find a better man with whom you can build a future.

Polygamy is not for 99.999% of Humans. But as I know many Gods are Polygamous and it has to do with higher consciousness. It's not for our low consciousness.

This is what was widely accepted not long ago, I don't know what is the new version.

Out of respect for you, knowing you're monogamous, he could have at least kept it to himself.

You could just say that you are only satisfied with a monogamous relationship.

You should always find the right partner, not tolerate and suffer if it is extremely important to you

If he told you that and you are not okay with it, then leave him. He is not going to change. I believe he can do whatever he wants as long as the partner is okay with it. I don't know if it's morally okay but as long as people are honest with each others I don't see any problems..

Our past lives affect who we are today. There are people who can't stay monogamous because they were forced to be xian priests or nuns in past lives. Women from poor families with no marriage prospects (men dying in wars etc) would be sent to live in a convent for the rest of their lives. Some men worked too hard with no time for intimacy or to even find a wife. This often continued for lifetimes, causing severe sexual repression.

With the above considered, it is completely understandable that there are people who need to "get it out of their system". I'm not saying this is healthy, I'm just saying it is what it is. Only life experience and/or spiritual advancement will fix this.

Anyone who is monogamous probably will not be happy in a relationship with a partner who has other partners. This can lead to anxiety, mental turmoil, emotional issues.

To the OP, you will need to decide if being with him is worth it, or if you need to break it off and find a partner who is also monogamous.

Gay people who couldn't live normal relationships in past lives. This is why in general they seem like they want more sex and more open relationships. Bisexuals who is in their nature to like both genders, I wonder how this manifest because they can't have both if they are monogamous.

Gay people who couldn't live normal relationships in past lives. This is why in general they seem like they want more sex and more open relationships. Bisexuals who is in their nature to like both genders, I wonder how this manifest because they can't have both if they are monogamous.

Bisexual people can have different partners during different parts of their lives, even if they are monogamous.

Question for you, Lydia. What about people who can't find anyone? I'm 30+, I've tried it many times, out of 10, I'm sure every relationship falls apart. Is this due to previous lives? Because after so many attempts, I decided to focus on peace of mind and my own development.

Our past lives affect who we are today. There are people who can't stay monogamous because they were forced to be xian priests or nuns in past lives. Women from poor families with no marriage prospects (men dying in wars etc) would be sent to live in a convent for the rest of their lives. Some men worked too hard with no time for intimacy or to even find a wife. This often continued for lifetimes, causing severe sexual repression.

With the above considered, it is completely understandable that there are people who need to "get it out of their system". I'm not saying this is healthy, I'm just saying it is what it is. Only life experience and/or spiritual advancement will fix this.

Anyone who is monogamous probably will not be happy in a relationship with a partner who has other partners. This can lead to anxiety, mental turmoil, emotional issues.

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Greeting HPS, since you're here, could you extinguish the doubts about the discussion here about whether or not the "5 wives of Satan" is a literal thing or metaphorical? I too do not know.

Question for you, Lydia. What about people who can't find anyone? I'm 30+, I've tried it many times, out of 10, I'm sure every relationship falls apart. Is this due to previous lives? Because after so many attempts, I decided to focus on peace of mind and my own development.

Have you done the working on the JoS for a hampered love life? Removing past-life bonds. But if you have a soulmate that you want to be reunited with, you'll need to do workings to meet her/him again, or wait, if they are not incarnated yet. If they are not incarnated yet, you might have to move on and meet a new partner in this life, so you will need to do a working for that, to be free to meet someone new.

There's no easy answer here, because it all depends on varying factors. You'll have to decide what is more important to you. If you want children, then you'll have to decide soon as you are already in your 30's.

Greeting HPS, since you're here, could you extinguish the doubts about the discussion here about whether or not the "5 wives of Satan" is a literal thing or metaphorical? I too do not know.

HP Zevios Metathronos said it's allegorical. I never looked into this for myself as it's not something I felt I needed to know.

Look, he does love you, he just doesn't want to sleep with you exclusively. This isn't contradictory and he is not lying.

Women get emotionally bound to the men they have sex with and in those who have had many sexual partners their ability to bond has been ruined.

This doesn't happen with men, they can still commit to a single woman even if they have sex with many women because their hormones function differently.

There are many studies which confirm this.

But if you don't like it, you can find another boyfriend. It's hard to change someone, even with a spell.