For Erato, I chose an opening excerpt of the Christopher Marlowe poem Hero and Leander (1598), added onto postmortem by George Chapman with his own poem, though these are Marlowe's penned lines:
For Erato, I chose an opening excerpt of the Christopher Marlowe poem Hero and Leander (1598), added onto postmortem by George Chapman with his own poem, though these are Marlowe's penned lines:
It lies not in our power to love or hate,
For will in us is over-rul'd by fate.
When two are stript long ere the course begin,
We wish that one should lose, the other win;
And one especially do we affect
Of two gold ingots, like in each respect:
The reason no man knows; let it suffice,
What we behold is censur'd by our eyes.
Where both deliberate, the love is slight:
Who ever lov'd, that lov'd not at first sight.
The poem is based on the myth of Hero and Leander told by Museaus and other ancient mythographers. Long before Romeo and Juliet, this was the original tragic couple who could not be separated.
MYTH: Hero was a young virgin and priestess of Aphrodite (Venus) who lived in a tower in Sestos. Leander was a youth from Abydos. The two cities sat on opposite sides of the Hellespont strait (the Dardanelles). They first saw each other and fell deeply in love at a festival for Aphrodite and Adonis. To be with Hero, Leander would swim across the dangerous two-mile strait every night. Hero guided him through the dark by lighting a lamp at the top of her tower. During a fierce winter storm, her flame was put out, hence Leander is swept out at sea due to having no guide (though Marlowe and other authors change the narrative to these aspects consistently), and after he is gone, Hero in her despair jumps into it herself. Their bodies washed ashore locked in embrace and they were given an eternal tomb.
Marlowe makes an epic poem of the story, but ultimately uses them as a title to give his views on love and hate as fated things beyond our control. He states that anything in one human's estimation will always be poorer or fairer, better or worse, loveable or hateful by relative decree, and no one knows the reason why, these just are. Love is not something that can be mentally deliberated, plotted, schemed, contrived, it is reaction.
This calls into question the extent to which true love and hate in the Zevist sense actually is meant to possess element of wisdom and discernment, beyond the biological mental deliberation and overthinking that Marlowe assumes is the only alternative to jumping in head-first. The Temple's discussion of eros in the context of devotion to the Gods can perhaps be revealing here.
In the Symposium of Plato, Diotima describes love (erōs) fundamentally involves desiring something good that one does not fully possess, and for Socrates, the purpose of love is to remind us of the divine. Xenophon's Socrates in his own Symposium contends that true love must make both partners morally better; it involves concern and care for the other that is quasi-eternal and must last far beyond a season or the intoxicating influence of youthful beauty.
Plutarch claims Erato herself is a divine figure who transforms lust, sexual acts and superficial assessments of physical and youthful beauty into friendship, fidelity and lifelong support among the better type of lovers, enabling enough harmony to sustain society.
Christopher Marlowe, however, does also draw strongly on the influence of fate and its influences of irrational favor and distaste on everyone, not just love or hate.
What do you think of this poem?
To what extent are love and hate totally fated? Does attainment of virtue and wisdom, plus proximity to the Gods, make it easier to exercise control on parts of this fate?
What does it say that the mythic personae of Hero and Leander succumb to calamity in their intense love for one another? Is this an indication of eternal love or izfetic transience? The facts above seem to back up interpretations on either side.
Questions:
Since becoming a Zevist, has your attitude to love and hate changed? Do you now think carefully about those you fall in love with or experience conflict with , rather than being conditioned by reaction?
What kind of love-based and romantic media do you like, or think has good value? Perhaps bear in mind the above arguments when thinking of examples, or use NG Arcadia's post and its justifications about the Lion King (1994) as an example.
What in general examples function as examples of real love beyond doubt in your opinion?

