Question #4144: retroactive jealousy

[AskSatanOperator]

my boyfriend has slept with a lot of women during his life, and I am a virgin. I feel disgusted and jealous of him because of this, what do I do?
I feel like he doesn't deserve me untouched and he's already touched by several. but I like him

 

[HPS Lydia]

This is understandable, I've heard of other people in your situation. You might want to wait before having sex to know that he is the one for you, because some men want to sleep around more and then you might end up regretting having sex with him if he leaves you shortly after. Sex for the first time should be special with no regrets.

You say you like him, is this enough for you? Or wait until you feel love, and know that he loves you.

If you do decide to have sex with him, make sure he's had an STD test.

 

[AristocraticDragon666]

my boyfriend has slept with a lot of women during his life, and I am a virgin. I feel disgusted and jealous of him because of this, what do I do?
I feel like he doesn't deserve me untouched and he's already touched by several. but I like him

Sexual sympathy and falling in love with a person are two different things.

If you want to create a serious relationship with a man and it is important for you that the man does not leave you for another girl after sex (switched to another), you need to understand the true motives of this guy, whether he intends to create a serious relationship with you or not, perhaps having a serious conversation with him, or perhaps you need to to find out some information about him through the women with whom he communicated, the ways to get the information you need can be very different.

This guy may be in different situations, either he only needs sex from you and a short-term relationship, or he has already worked up and really wants to start a family, you can find out the real motives of the guy if you do not rush the developing relationship with him and will have serious conversations (disguising them as ordinary conversations), asking control questions between the lines, where you will look at his reaction (behavior), according to which you will be able to understand where he is telling the truth, and where he is hiding something and not finishing (trying to hide from conversations on these topics, actually does not answer the questions posed), or deceives.

If he is your man, he will pass all your checks without any problems and difficulties for him, if he is really experienced, as you say, but your task is to check him correctly so that he meets your requirements for a relationship.

When communicating with a guy, demand specifics (specific answers), and not vague phrases in which he can refer to the fact that he allegedly meant something else and you allegedly generally misunderstood everything.

I recently talked to a young girl (who is younger than me), but who is married and they have a happy marriage (she has no children in her marriage yet), she confessed to me that before starting a serious relationship, she discussed in detail the rules acceptable to both of them (boundaries) in a relationship - what is acceptable and what is not (red lines), violation of which entails the breakup of the relationship (marriage), after setting boundaries (for both) As she told me bluntly: "Everyone decides whether to comply with them or not".

 

[General Yeager]

Tell him to get married to you under the law. If he doesn't want to, he's possibly thinking of leaving you after sex. Only let go of your virginity after Marriage ,just to be sure.

 

[HPS Lydia]

Tell him to get married to you under the law. If he doesn't want to, he's possibly thinking of leaving you after sex. Only let go of your virginity after Marriage ,just to be sure.

Terrible advice. HPS Maxine even stated an example of a couple who didn't have sex until marriage and found out they were not compatible at all. We are not xians here, sex is not something to be "saved for marriage". A couple should have sex when it is right for them.

Edit: If someone wants to stay a virgin until marriage, this is completely fine. But it is not in the best interests of most people.

 

[Carolina666]

Dile que se case contigo según la ley. Si no quiere, posiblemente esté pensando en dejarte después del sexo. Sólo deja ir tu virginidad después del matrimonio, sólo para estar seguro.

Puedes casarte con ella y serle infiel o divorciarte de todas formas. El matrimonio, la virginidad o lo que sea no te garantiza nada.
Esto no es cristianismo ni mgtow. Lo que asegura que una relación funcione es la voluntad de ambas partes basada en la racionalidad, no en los instintos, pero eso no se aprende aquí.
Prefiero no sobreestimar la capacidad de este foro para obtener respuestas. Hay vida más allá del satanismo y hay más áreas de conocimiento que debemos aprender y que no necesariamente encontraremos aquí. Bueno, esto es más una reflexión por mi parte que otra cosa.

 

[Ancestors666]

my boyfriend has slept with a lot of women during his life, and I am a virgin. I feel disgusted and jealous of him because of this, what do I do?
I feel like he doesn't deserve me untouched and he's already touched by several. but I like him

I think,at this moment the decision depends on you, There's no perfect man on planet Earth. Before having intercourse,make sure both of you carryout some medical test on Sexual transmitted infections and HIV, Infact it should be a general test that can helps, Both of you to know your health status before proceeding. At times medical results of some disease don't appear when diagnosed immediately, some diseases developed bit by bit. Just Ask Father Satan to direct you on your decisions.
Further; having sex before marriage helps you to know your Partner well, this is to avoid cheating and the rest, Besides:fist some challenges before engaging to Marriage, so don't be afraid, if you are ripped go on and enjoy. But try to be professional,And take care of yourself.
Thank you!!!

 

[General Yeager]

Terrible advice. HPS Maxine even stated an example of a couple who didn't have sex until marriage and found out they were not compatible at all. We are not xians here, sex is not something to be "saved for marriage". A couple should have sex when it is right for them.

Edit: If someone wants to stay a virgin until marriage, this is completely fine. But it is not in the best interests of most people.

In this case the Guy has sexual experience with Multiple Women so he knows how to please them in bed. It doesn't matter if SHE doesn't have sexual experience. Infact she is going to get a man who already knows how to please her AND doesn't have anyone else to compare him to. If he has Money and can take care of her, she can then focus on making kids and taking care of them. If she allows him to have sex with her and then leave her ,that would be a complete waste on her part. But if she has a pragmatic view of this situation and gets him to Marry her, then her future children will be protected by the State and there is leverage on her part that he cant cheat or he's going to have the full force of the Government on him.

Virginity is extremely valued in women. With her status as a virgin ,she can attract a Rich Successful Guy who will marry her if she plays her cards right.

Also the Anecdotal Evidence given by you falls flat on research that CONCLUSIVELY proves that the more partners people have ,the definitive chance of Divorce. While the Ones who have Strong ,Big Families and do not Divorce are when Virgins gets married and have their first experiences with each other. The Anecdotal Evidence does not disprove the Vast Majority of the Successful Marriage Population Cohort.