Provoke and become a victim

[Flamma Bellum]

In more details as in my case was.
One didn’t told another clearly what he/she wanted to say, and just let other one to understand it wrong and react to it, while facilitate it to the extreme and pushing wrong understanding until that point, where it starts to not being healthy for both sides, but still just going into it, by seeing what happens and just like let it be like this, without correcting oneself and after all that nonesense and hours of wasted time it all turned out, all this was because first person deceived first one, made him to believe and think wrong and facilitated all this process like literally created all situation to become victim of it.

 

[AFODO]

I just say "now think about what you just did here" and leave the conversation. The best you can do is to not to sink to their level.

 

[SSinHeartandSoul]

Does it really matter what anyone else thinks? So what someone else perceived your words or actions differently to your own, this is not at all something that you should feel bad about. The only thing that should matter to you is that you believe that what you said or did was right or not, so what if X thinks that what you said is wrong, should you feel bad now that you know they see things differently? why would you, what purpose would that have?

In the end it is your life, your thoughts, your actions, don't let the opinion of others bother you, for only you have the power to let it bother you.

 

[Flamma Bellum]

I just say "now think about what you just did here" and leave the conversation. The best you can do is to not to sink to their level.

I now realised what actually was that… when one is identified with certain kind of toughtforms which seeks to get energy, in order so those toughtforms can think for the person, they need to provoke reactions of others so energy would feed it, and it could grow or even think, provoking of others appears, consciously or unconsciously it doesn’t matter anymore because taughtform knows shortest way to take energy. I felt it actually, it was nice and even too nice in the beginning, took my awareness and when I really started to think seriously about what is happening like giving my energy into it, it started to suck like hell and I gone into it, like into real thing but at the same time I felt feeding something… later I turn back and see I lost my time…

 

[Flamma Bellum]

Does it really matter what anyone else thinks? So what someone else perceived your words or actions differently to your own, this is not at all something that you should feel bad about. The only thing that should matter to you is that you believe that what you said or did was right or not, so what if X thinks that what you said is wrong, should you feel bad now that you know they see things differently? why would you, what purpose would that have?

In the end it is your life, your thoughts, your actions, don't let the opinion of others bother you, for only you have the power to let it bother you.

You are right. I can’t stop myself like this, I really have no time for this. Best way just to go further in my life and next time try my best… thanks