Hello there,
This is Lehla here! I know exactly what you mean!! It is rare of a kind- I believe a lot of women just pack it up after a few years. here is an Issue which I had raised with a few clubs- and we all had to settle to agree that there were not often enough of us women out and together in large groups enough- particularly Of Gothic distinction.
I am aware of many women who beautiful as they are - are often alone or without large numbers of friends in any one place at one time. I am looking in all sorts of places to bring this out of the cob webs- but it is not something that happens over night.
I am used to large numbers but not in my change of setting in culture-
Is there a local community of some entity?
Target some areas move if you have to.
x Lehla