JOB problem

[AFODO]

Probably because you are overqualified? They ain't gonna hire a superman as a waiter.

 

[Symmachos-ZEUS/SHAITAN]

Probably because you are overqualified? They ain't gonna hire a superman as a waiter.

The point is that I tried to get hired as a waiter precisely because you don't need too many prerequisites for something like this . ...If I looked for something that requires the right prerequisites instead it would be unobtainable in Italy.

Now, I don't like to blame environmental and social situations as a blame-shift from my personal responsibilities, but I would like to make a point of mentioning how in Italy the more one has qualifications and skills, the greater one's demerits.

It is no coincidence that the labor system is a meme, and anyone who is Italian knows that whenever they try to look for a job, they always point out "then move abroad where they really require skills."

Now, that was just a hint. But I feel stuck in a situation that doesn't make much sense.

An example:

(I do not agree with the reasoning in the clip I posted; but it is just to show you what I am talking about...)

 

[Neox]

Have you considered getting into Security? I don't think it's too difficult to obtain the necessary qualifications and your skillset would also look quite attractive in that context. Plus, you can also spend a decent amount of time in meditation or contemplating learned topics.

 

[SSinHeartandSoul]

There is most likely a good reason that you didn't get hired, the Gods would love it a lot more if you find a job that fits you perfectly. Busting your balls for a Yehubor is not going to make anyone happy not you nor the gods. Having a good income to support the toZ is good and all but whats more important is that you love what you do, and if you have money left over that you can donate it would most likely be very appreciated all the more if it comes from a job that you actually enjoy doing.

 

[616Taysha]

RESPONSIBLE FOR FOREIGN MEMBERS - - Leadership role, supervision and supervision of training"

BACHELOR'S DEGREE IN ECONOMICS, BUSINESS MANAGEMENT

Appropriateness - the above are qualities with which you could do as a waiter are far better than all the martial arts and stuff you've mentioned. Maritial arts are inappropriate for, or rather IRRELEVANT to the position of a waiter.

A waiter does not need to know X martial arts and what not, s/he need to be servile, humble, diplomatic.

With your qualifications, you're more qualified to be a fighter. Good, but a fighter is not a waiter.

I know it's easier said than done, but if you do wish to use your potential, HUGE I might add, moving abroad is a way. But sure, it wold be great to have one's own money.

Next time you're applying, think in advance what qualities the potential employers need.

Good luck!

 

[616Taysha]

Have you considered getting into Security? I don't think it's too difficult to obtain the necessary qualifications and your skillset would also look quite attractive in that context. Plus, you can also spend a decent amount of time in meditation or contemplating learned topics.

This advice is far superior than mine - @Symmachos-ZEUS/SHAITAN think about it.

 

[Epiphany]

Obviously you're not what they're looking for. No need to write a manifesto over it. I was ghosted similarly. There are people more appropriate and deserving of an entry level job, anyway. Overqualification is only one part.

You seem to like talking about yourself and you say you have all this knowledge so why don't you start a youtube channel or something? Be a vlogger. Youtube is passive income once it gets going.

 

[Symmachos-ZEUS/SHAITAN]

Have you considered getting into Security? I don't think it's too difficult to obtain the necessary qualifications and your skillset would also look quite attractive in that context. Plus, you can also spend a decent amount of time in meditation or contemplating learned topics.

It can be interesting. I think that's the next thing I'll look into. The waiter stuff doesn't really inspire me. I honestly would have done it just to donate my salary to ToZ since I don't need much money to live on. Thank you!!

 

[Symmachos-ZEUS/SHAITAN]

you say you have all this knowledge so why don't you start a youtube channel or something?

I'm not a big fan of revealing knowledge that's too important. Especially if I've acquired them with a lot of effort as if people had the right to know them because they scroll with their thumb on a cell phone. It seems very unfair to me...

No need to write a manifesto over it

In fact, when I completed my CV I didn't write very long lines full of anything typical of the CVs of people who have no qualifications and have to fill the pages with "from this experience I learned the importance of discipline and punctuality of commitments, I bet you've never heard of a punctual candidate in interviews, congratulate me on my imagination."

I preferred to bet on keywords because they already filled enough and gave impact. And the girl also said to me, "You were right to put as many things as possible in the restaurant as possible." Then when she read it she changed her mind lol (which then they don't even have a chakra in their head, I don't know what she had to think about since her brain is just an AI of poor functionality lol)

 

[Epiphany]

) Knowledge in:
Combat, Military Strategy, Communication Skills, Speed Reading, Critical and Analytical Thinking, Etiquette, Memory
Techniques, Artistic Talents, Resource Management and Leadership, Research and Investigation Methods,
Interrogation and Psychological Support, Psychological Methods, Sabotage of information control and dissemination,
guerrilla warfare management, rhetoric and lying, postures and optimal body functioning, infiltration methods of ninjutsu arts, knowledge of operational military systems, evasion, tracking, focusing and lateral thinking

Also putting all this in an application to a job about serving food makes you look like a psycho. It makes you look crazy putting it anywhere it's not actually relevant.

Temperance is important.

 

[Henu the Great]

You could have made up your CV with fairy tales in a manner that they would have liked. Yeah, there is no need not to lie about your experience to get a job like that.

 

[Symmachos-ZEUS/SHAITAN]

You could have made up your CV with fairy tales in a manner that they would have liked. Yeah, there is no need not to lie about your experience to get a job like that.

I know, that's exactly what a friend of mine who's been working in catering for years (he didn't finish high school so he had to start working in the kitchens right away. He left as a waiter and became a chef indeed). But I have this problem that I can't help being honest. I can lie if the situation requires. But I can't be dishonest. There's a difference that's hard to understand. And anyway I tried in the past to be dishonest, always with great failures (even with little for example trying not to return the excess to the cash register. Not even if it was a euro and so on)

 

[Neox]

You can have a general CV as well as a seperate one specifically tailored to the role you are applying for.

It's not that you have to lie, but these details are not really relevant to the role and will only serve to complicate things by subjecting you to potential obstacles.

For example, an employer may have certain prejudices against violence or masculinity which may put them off, but if they got to know you on a personal level they'd realise you're actually a good person... but either way, why let their ignorance/stupidity get in the way of you and your goal?

A large part of gaining power is about impression management and knowing how to placate incompetent people, who are a constant everywhere.

If it doesn't provide you with active leverage over the competition, consider it useless info.

About honesty, it is a very noble trait but not always appropriate, especially if it is impulsive. This doesn't mean you lie, but learn to recognise when silence is the more prudent choice, which it usually is more often than not.

 

[Symmachos-ZEUS/SHAITAN]

Say your hobbies are cooking

It made me think of something... ...I can cook and cook well, and I have several waiter skills (1) (I actually had experiences of this in my military training in the woods, where we stayed during various camping trips).

The strange thing is that I didn't even remember this part because I didn't consider it important at all... probably a psychological sign that's not what I really want to do?

Maybe to be a better donor I should consider a balance between salary and personal skills? As a waiter they would have paid me 800 dollars (which donating that amount monthly to ToZ is not a small thing anyway).

But maybe I could expect a higher salary elsewhere and maybe even there I was settling again?

(1) This was told me by a restaurant owner in these campings

 

[Aquarius]

Honestly I wouldn't hire you too, looks like the cv of an edgelord, not trying to insult you, just being honest. Why the hell would you mention all of this for a waiter job? I wouldn't think a person handing me this cv is sane or grounded in reality.

Also, you're angry for them not considering you as an applicant? You've seen nothing, people normally send their cvs to many many businesses before getting hired.

And not everybody is a Yehubor because things don't go your way.

Even if you were a first level taoist shadow assassin or whatever, you don't write that in your cv, you keep your cv related to work.

 

[NetemPtah]

Learn a skill - like selling - and monetise it, also in the english speaking market as you know the language.
I was a waitress in Italy, different jobs, not very good experiences.
You are a very intelligent person. Do something else, by yourself. You can even earn more, and manage your time by yourself in some cases.

 

[Henu the Great]

You can have a general CV as well as a seperate one specifically tailored to the role you are applying for.

It's not that you have to lie, but these details are not really relevant to the role and will only serve to complicate things by subjecting you to potential obstacles.

For example, an employer may have certain prejudices against violence or masculinity which may put them off, but if they got to know you on a personal level they'd realise you're actually a good person... but either way, why let their ignorance/stupidity get in the way of you and your goal?

A large part of gaining power is about impression management and knowing how to placate incompetent people, who are a constant everywhere.

If it doesn't provide you with active leverage over the competition, consider it useless info.

About honesty, it is a very noble trait but not always appropriate, especially if it is impulsive. This doesn't mean you lie, but learn to recognise when silence is the more prudent choice, which it usually is more often than not.

Yes, upon further contemplation, lying is not necessary, except in some cases where one is really desperate, and even then, maybe not. But some coloring of CV can be useful.

Indeed, one needs to tell them what they want to hear, not excessive listings of this and that, unless that listing is completely relevant to the task at hand.

 

[logicalmind]

First, you might have been overqualified and they would see you as a threat to their business. Secondly, there is another simple issue. Maybe your CV lacked those skills that they need immediately on the job. This also happens. E.g., how speed reading can help in being a waiter?

In the market of the jobs, especially in becoming a waiter, you will be dumped like trash dozens of times until you find an adequate employer. And you should be happy about it. If this job would have accepted you, maybe you would be enslaved for the 16h shifts and your health would be destroyed. So yeah, maybe you would give the ToZ a couple of cents like this, but being disabled/dead would be useless both for ToZ and your soul.

I had done a spiritual work on my aura (over an hour of work) to make sure I had a good interview...

You should have done a spiritual work that your interview would result in something tangible, i.e., an actual job offer. What would you choose? A messy interview where a potential employer tries to "prove" how incompetent you are and fails to do so which results in the job offer? Or would you like to have an interview where everyone says you are so nice, cool, but then “forget” to call you for half a year. The choice is yours.

It does not mean it will always be the choice like this (technically, this is a false dichotomy), but I hope you understood what I mean. It means you need to focus on actual results with your workings and actions in real life. You do not need a beautiful, awesome interview. WHAT YOU NEED IS A JOB OFFER BASED ON YOUR SKILLS AND LIFETIME PREFERENCES. So focus your energy on this. What actually lands you a job is an actual job offer that is legally binding to each party according to the law of Italy in your case.

 

[serpentwalker666]

You ever consider a civilian career in the military, or an engineer, detective for the government, or working within cyber security?

I thought I was personally intense and out there at times, but you got me beat my friend lol.

Rework your CV on the points others have highlighted to prevent further issues though, you are capable but most people including myself would raise an eyebrow at the wording and things you state in that CV, you need to be more cautious.