Help - I've gotten beat up by my girlfriend's father

[High Priest Zevios Metathronos]

I only read from the conclusion and down. Lets talk some common sense here. This girl hardly got her period, she is just 15. First of all to hang with her is illegal. You are lucky they let you go. Infact the occassion would end worse if you was unlucly. Girls at that age aren't mature. Your emotions are blinding you and I do not want in anyway to hurt your feeling, but its better to let it go and find some other woman.

She is still in control of her parents and not only that, but they are dead strict. This is a bad combination. Also, if you prosyletize to her etc. She is going to surely open her mouth under pressure and get you in trouble. Be law abidding. Both the above in conjuction and you won't get away just by being beat up. It will get worse. And before chivalry goes in your mind ( I totally understand you ) think that it can go down the drain. The fact they set you up is a big no no and it shows this was a setup. You luckily evaded the worse. Do not go down this road. After 6 months you might hear "We can't go on" and find yourself at loss in every level. Try for whats healthy and possible. Its not mindful to give your energies into that situation. It would be totally mindful though to use your energy in attracting a new person for yourself, which you will. Then if you want younger women, wait for some years until you are 22 or so and then go for the girls that are 18. Kids her age have no idea over relationships and even if you move the world, it would probably in the end mean nothing. Also the whole situation if it escalate, you can have serious problems. So instead of sugar coating it, I just advise you to move ahead and find a girl that will really please you, instead of this situation. You could lose everything for a non existent possibility to gain anything. Girls at this age feel attracted by older men in their majority. They do not think. But this has no future that is positive. The only outcome could be you Jobless and or even worse...Consider this.

-High Priest Hooded Cobra 666

 

[High Priest Zevios Metathronos]

I only read from the conclusion and down. Lets talk some common sense here. This girl hardly got her period, she is just 15. First of all to hang with her is illegal. You are lucky they let you go. Infact the occassion would end worse if you was unlucly. Girls at that age aren't mature. Your emotions are blinding you and I do not want in anyway to hurt your feeling, but its better to let it go and find some other woman.

She is still in control of her parents and not only that, but they are dead strict. This is a bad combination. Also, if you prosyletize to her etc. She is going to surely open her mouth under pressure and get you in trouble. Be law abidding. Both the above in conjuction and you won't get away just by being beat up. It will get worse. And before chivalry goes in your mind ( I totally understand you ) think that it can go down the drain. The fact they set you up is a big no no and it shows this was a setup. You luckily evaded the worse. Do not go down this road. After 6 months you might hear "We can't go on" and find yourself at loss in every level. Try for whats healthy and possible. Its not mindful to give your energies into that situation. It would be totally mindful though to use your energy in attracting a new person for yourself, which you will. Then if you want younger women, wait for some years until you are 22 or so and then go for the girls that are 18. Kids her age have no idea over relationships and even if you move the world, it would probably in the end mean nothing. Also the whole situation if it escalate, you can have serious problems. So instead of sugar coating it, I just advise you to move ahead and find a girl that will really please you, instead of this situation.

 

[High Priest Zevios Metathronos]

Thanks for this. I was inaware. In most other parts of the world its about 18 or 20 or 21. I had this wrong. Since this is not the case with it being illegal [make sure its LEGAL though first] you can take everything else into consideration before you act. For the reasons others mentioned aswell.

-High Priest Hooded Cobra 666

 

[eu71992]

At only 19, you are probably still not mature, unless you had a lot of life experiences!At 15 years, she is not mature! And her parents have all the right to represent her interests!You are also her teacher! And in public institution it is ilegal to for a teacher to have intimate relationship with his/her students, because you can favor them!So you can lose your job for that!And your (age speaking) relationship is bearly legal!You got beated in his home (proprety)! He can very well say that you were trying to steal something from his home...

You are too blinded with love, you can't trust each other (since trust is build in years), I think you should wait at least until she is 17-18, to not get in problem with the law, and to become more mature, and build trust!There are way too many things that can go VERY WRONG! Don't ruin your life for this!
Also an optional note... you should go to a boxing/kickboxing/MMA class to learn to fight in situation were is needed. 1 year of full contact sport will help you a lot later in life!

 

[centralforce6661]

I have been in almost this exact same situation some years ago, almost 7 to be precise. I've since learnt some important things.

The first is that any relationship that starts out on inequal footing such as a teacher with a student or in my case a manager with an employee is bound to have limitations. Also, the stress that it sounds like you were going through for the sake of the relationship might have offset its beneficial elements to a degree. I know this isn't what you want to hear right now but it would be irresponsible to tell it to you any other way.

The second is that I now have kids of my own and understand *to a certain extent* the desire to protect ones own children. Granted some take it too far or go about it the wrong way such as this individual who took it upon himself to deal his own punishment, I still understand the motivating emotions behind the actions. Also, in terms of future prospects with this girl, it only stands to reason that ostracizing her from her family for the sake of being with you may only create resentment from her toward you in the future.

In my case, I tried to curse her mother. Being new, I thought it wouldn't work. Alas, her mother became incredibly sick, struck with pneumonia and a complicating virus that many people die from. I then made the foolish mistake of telling the girl this exact thing. Wow did that back fire, her mother rapidly improved (she was a somewhat spiritual lady, of Greek lineage) and of course the girl hated me. This was all after being bashed by her step dad at a party because their daughter decided to show her affections for me in front of them, which we had agreed prior not to do.

I had to walk away from that situation because it became dangerous for me. And at that time in that desperation, I called out to Satan and He told me He would ensure that no harm came to me from them (as they had threatened to kill me etc.) however I had to ex-communicate the girl... I did so and not a hair on my head was thus harmed.

I'm not going to advise you as such, however I have presented some key points about the lessons I learned. You must make a decision for yourself. There is no shame from walking away and sometimes the relationships that bring the problems are the ones that are best avoided and that you may be glad you got out of in years to come, especially if you deeply and honestly question the reasons the relationship was formed etc.

I chose not to curse the people involved with me years later when I reconsidered the situation from a more spiritually mature perspective and even now that I have acquired the skill to curse as effectively as anyone, I still choose not to but that's not to say that you need not. I certainly let my emotions fly at the time (in a magical sense) but as to how effective that was then I do not know. I sought Satan's counsel when I could take no more and HIS advice I took without looking back.

HAIL SATAN!

 

[call_me_something_else]

Yes, it still disturbs me a bit personally, too but it's not my say.

Hail Father Satan Forever!

 

[dark_pagan_666]

You are both a Spiritual Satanist, that you and your girlfriend is at bad terms now, does not mean it will be so forever. Satan knows. If you anyhow are in doubts, ask Satan for help, be patient.

(Here in Norway, the age of consent is 16)

If your relationship is of any importance, which from what you've wrote I truly believe that is. Satan will bring the two of you back together, this goes for a friendship as well (between two SS).
Right now, this may be a mess, due to her being 14 or just 15 and under strict control of her grandmother/family. Who knows, maybe Satan will bring the two of you back together later in life when you both are ready and in more "legal" terms. I am not saying like in your 50s but in her early 20s and your middle 20s.

This is utterly a learning process for the two of you. But, of course, you are very young, you have so much to learn about emotions, love, passion, sorrow, hatred and so on. This experience is actually very good, if you understand me correctly. This is more of an experience to growth, emotionally and mentally. You both are guided by Satan together with a reason. Although, this could be for only to gain certain experience and knowledge.

Like with me for an example:
I was just 18 years old, never ever been in love before. Yeah, I've had crushes but that's it.
Found Spiritual Satanism as 17, asked Satan to bring me The One.
As 18, I met this guy, which was really weird, different and amazing in so many levels. He took the breath out of me. We met at summer, did *not* have that love at first sight thing...But the chemistry, oh sweet mama bliss!
After two weeks, he moved in to my place..sort of. After a month, he dedicated himself as well.

I truly believed with my entire existence that he was The One, and Satan brought us together because we were a match and that we fits as a whole.
Well....I got too deep intense emotions, turned obsessed. And well...It all turned in to this horrific nasty thing.

As he was an SS as well, I actually made it an obligation that he was going to become my soulmate. Poor man!

This was guided by Satan so both of us could get to know ourselves much better, and fix certain problems. On my side, it was to gain control on my emotions and become more objective along with other stuff.

Now, I understand better, this vicious cycle was continuing for about two years. I am freeing my soul, and no longer cares for him at all.
Although, I still get the signs everywhere that he still is The One, and we just have to grow a little bit more before Satan will bring us back together.
This however, I believe is just my subconscious that still hopes it is him. And that the enemy is pushing this a tiny bit.

Though, Satan told me "I've shown you hundreds of times, and will show you thousands more, that he is The One"

I ignore this by all costs and want to find myself a new one, due to the bad things he has done to me, and what I did to him, and also the other considerations that just point out a repeatingly bad relationship.

I believe Satan just brought me to him so I could convert him, and that's it.

Hope it works out for the two of you, and good luck further on your journeys.

HAIL SATAN!

 

[dypetrod]

It is legal. As I've stated before the conclusion, in my country the age of consent is 14. And it's not really his property, his home is in a city about 520 Kilometers away and he came to town weeks ago to look for a job. But it's her grandmother's property and she's the one who maintains the household and makes the rules. And as for losing my job for that, it was in fact a basic rule of the company that teachers couldn't have relationships with students or with other workers and my boss has once called my attention for that, but actually I've resigned from my job right after the first time she ran away from home and I'm currently on the search for a new one.Also, as I've stated before the conclusion, both he and her grandmother have peacefully accepted our relationship until this happened.
And as for being mature, everyone of us is continuously getting more and more mature with time, right? I personally believe myself to be more mature than the average 19 year-old person, I'm not the kind of person who wastes his time with video-games, drinking, horsing around etc. Despite her *very* young age, she has shown me how much she respects me and really wants to seriously be with me...and I've been teaching her what I know in all ways and helping her evolve into a more mature person. And I've been glad to see her grow with me.
I understand your point of view and thank you for your advice but, with all respect, it sounds like an easy point of view from someone who doesn't desire to be in a relationship (or doesn't really care to be in one) and has that "plenty of fish in the sea" attitute...Well of course, being in a relationship is a personal choice of each one, responsibility to the responsible. And, of course, I have to take care of myself first before others. But it's not been just about being with a girl for me, it's been about being with THAT girl. My ex has disappointed me enough to the point where I wouldn't really care to be in a relationship, but then I knew this girl...and damn, she is so different, so real to me, I could cite a huge list of things she has done for me. In my eyes, she is a wonderful gift from Father Satan! We've had a couple of disagreements, but that's part of any healthy relationship and in the end, we always reconcile greatly for there are no doubts we actually want to be together. She's never made me unhappy and I finally feel I've been in a relationship for the rightful reasons (unlike some who are unhappy and deny it or some who cheat, for instance her father)
We've trusted each other and made our efforts together to keep together since day one and despite what happened this friday, everything else has gone right for us in those 5 and a half months. But I wrote that one threat her father saw, and risked everything we have accomplished that way...if only I could go back in time, I'd still be talking to her right now and wouldn't feel empty. But I strongly believe it's not over, we went through a lot together and fought hard to be together. I think and hope it's a matter of time until we see again...I currently have no idea what's going on her mind and all I wanted was to let her know I won't give up on her. But we think so alike I believe she's thinking the same. She has school tomorrow and that's the chance she texts me from a friend's cell phone or something.
And yes I am considering getting into something of that sort, boxing, some martial art, etc
Than you for the attention and advice
Hail Satan!