Goldenwings
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( im talking in this thread about real life , since its easy to get along with people in this forum with" the real you "as we hold same or similar beliefs and opinions, but you know how it is like in real life)
If your real personality ( beliefs , opinions, interests etc..) cant get along with people around you, thats normal, and here is how i solved it years ago
I felt the same, solution is i created multiple personalities( im just doing it automatically i dont feel like acting you can start with 2 personalities( its actually enough): the real you and the one you use to interact) i wear a different mask depending on whom im talking with, and my real personality is only revealed to the ones that are very close , for example sometimes in real life im wearing muslim mask, sometimes i may be an open minded muslim, sometimes "maybe" he is an athiest, and sometimes even a muslim glorifying satan( it may sound weird but i can do that ),depends since when i do otherwise i face problems
Also personality with neighbors is not same in work, not same while shopping, not same in a relationship, etc..
I see it like if you are in a farm, you cant have same personality with bulls/pigs/rabits/horses... ( Im not degrading humans, but an example that will make you understand is better than playing hide and seek) Everyone responds to different techniques and everyone has special ways of dealing with, if you treat a horse same way you treat a rabbit he wont like that you dont have control you will mostly have problems unless if he is very gentle, also you cant ride a bull or milk a pig
its just different, this is often observed in men who start deep conversations with women they try to be in relationship with, start debating the matrix or whatever in first date and by consequence the women lose interest , and he thinks he didnt do something wrong
Wrong personality wrong place, besides if you "need nothing" besides if you can handle opposition, besides if you just dont care besides if you have more than enough options, besides if you like to troll, besides if you like to assert whoever you are, its better in real life to create comforming personalities that help you achieve what you want or just navigate life without unnecessary problems
But there are people in real life that i can talk to them with my real personality,however if i do same with others i get hurt, so i just show one 5% of my real me , another 10% another 50% then i feel opposition and i tune it down 35% then the problem vanish and so on, i figure out quickly the percentage one is comfortable with and i generally interact with him with that
This technique im using myself in real life and its working perfectly for me
If your real personality ( beliefs , opinions, interests etc..) cant get along with people around you, thats normal, and here is how i solved it years ago
I felt the same, solution is i created multiple personalities( im just doing it automatically i dont feel like acting you can start with 2 personalities( its actually enough): the real you and the one you use to interact) i wear a different mask depending on whom im talking with, and my real personality is only revealed to the ones that are very close , for example sometimes in real life im wearing muslim mask, sometimes i may be an open minded muslim, sometimes "maybe" he is an athiest, and sometimes even a muslim glorifying satan( it may sound weird but i can do that ),depends since when i do otherwise i face problems
Also personality with neighbors is not same in work, not same while shopping, not same in a relationship, etc..
I see it like if you are in a farm, you cant have same personality with bulls/pigs/rabits/horses... ( Im not degrading humans, but an example that will make you understand is better than playing hide and seek) Everyone responds to different techniques and everyone has special ways of dealing with, if you treat a horse same way you treat a rabbit he wont like that you dont have control you will mostly have problems unless if he is very gentle, also you cant ride a bull or milk a pig
its just different, this is often observed in men who start deep conversations with women they try to be in relationship with, start debating the matrix or whatever in first date and by consequence the women lose interest , and he thinks he didnt do something wrong
Wrong personality wrong place, besides if you "need nothing" besides if you can handle opposition, besides if you just dont care besides if you have more than enough options, besides if you like to troll, besides if you like to assert whoever you are, its better in real life to create comforming personalities that help you achieve what you want or just navigate life without unnecessary problems
But there are people in real life that i can talk to them with my real personality,however if i do same with others i get hurt, so i just show one 5% of my real me , another 10% another 50% then i feel opposition and i tune it down 35% then the problem vanish and so on, i figure out quickly the percentage one is comfortable with and i generally interact with him with that
This technique im using myself in real life and its working perfectly for me
