Relationships #78336 My family doesn't care about me :(

[AskSatanOperator]

How come I was born into a family that doesn't really care about me? I feel like they are all Narcissistic in some way or form. My sister, niece and nephew...I know don't care about me. I feel like an outcast in my own family. I don't know what I should do, if anything?

 

[MT88]

I stared at your question for an hour thinking of the right advice to say. This sermon covers everything on this topic in my opinion

The People That Matter - The True and Fakes

As one's consciousness and maturity evolves, they understand more and more about the reality and the essence of all things. This also happens when it comes to human relations and other people that we have in our lives. Over time, especially when one is younger, they might either go into a lot...

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Are they aware you're hurting inside? A lot of people are zombified with their minds elsewhere that they don't express gratitude or appreciation when they should. They take things for granted until they realize those things are gone. If you know definitively that they don't care or respect you at all, it's your sign to meet new better people who do reciprocate

 

[WrathOfKouros]

Issues like this are related to karma and are typically fated. You can see this by viewing your natal chart. Check the third house, which rules the house of siblings, and the fourth house, which is the house of family, and look for any bad aspects, degrees, or if any planets are debilitated or in fall in signs there.

There can be harsh lessons that come with an upbringing like this, but it is not all bad. This circumstance you are in will force you to find love within yourself first before trying to receive love from others. Once you are not dependent on their love, and have enough self-love, then this won't be such a problem, and you can still try to be on good terms with them without being hurt by this. Also, if things really never work out with your family and you never receive care from them, you can try to start a family of your own and give them all the care you wanted in your old family.

 

[WrathOfKouros]

Also, regarding self-love, there is a great meditation brought to us by our wonderful High Priestess that will help you work on this.

Self Love Meditation

I know “self-love” has a rather new-agey stigma attached to it, I do want to say that the new agers as usual went to far in certain ways; in this particular instance, pushing that all you need is obsessive self love and nothing else in your life. This post is about healthy self love, not...

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[GoldenxChild1]

Are you certain that they don't care for you, or is there a possibility that you only feel this way?

As a Zevist, it is important to adjust our expectations of others, especially when they don't know the Gods. Furthermore, sometimes when problems arise, a lack of communication stifles healing.

I do not know your situation, but if you are craving attention, then don't be afraid to express it or put yourself out there.

However, ensure that you are giving yourself the necessary love and affection you deserve. Go take a bath or buy yourself something nice.

 

[HPS Lydia]

A lot of people are distracted by useless things in life such as tv and social media, and neglect the people who truly matter.

When you get older and have a family of your own, you can raise them to be better, and they will love you immensely.

 

[Rroco88]

We're all here on this earth to learn something, and the problems in the family we're born in are a part of the things we need to deal with on a karmic level.

However, this doesn't mean that we need to change other people or that we are responsible for the way someone else has decided to act, in any way, shape or form.

These are things that we need to deal with deep inside ourselves, and as someone here said, these are found in our birth chart.

Remember that you are not at fault for how you've been treated, but it is your responsibility to make sure your energy attracts exactly the behavior you want from others towards you from now on.