Sexuality #80466 Problems with girls. I don't like them.

[Ask Satya Operator]

Hello, I'm going to write a rather unpleasant post in the hopes that you'll help me figure this out. What I'm about to write below doesn't suit me, and I don't want to think that way. I want to change my attitude for the better, but I can't. I apologize to any girls this post might offend, or anyone else. I'm not talking about every girl, but the vast majority.
I don't want to meet girls, start relationships, or even marry them. I don't want to do this because there are practically no benefits to it for me, or for men in general, if you really think about it. Let me start by saying that I don't want to meet girls or start relationships because I'm not interested in the average goy whose only interest is finding a wealthy, slacker, with whom there's nothing to talk about. Although a week ago, she was having sex with a black guy in a nightclub, who simply offered her a couple of compliments at best, and now he's having sex with her in a restroom stall without even buying her a martini. She's had plenty of adventures like that, but now she's grown up, she's tired of it all, she knows her worth and actually wants a family, and you'd better court her well and spend money so she'll let you get close to her precious vagina. I don't know about you, but I don't want to waste time and money starting a family with someone who maybe wasn't even fucked at a club or party, which is highly unlikely, but just dated and had a fling with some Arab or Asian. But women aren't stupid; they know that kind of thing is generally discouraged and they'll never tell you about it, especially if you're a promising supplier. Yes, she'll be the one you need, she'll be into what you like, even if she doesn't like it, but only until you marry her and have children. Then, at best, your interests will fade into the background. If you don't like it, you can get a divorce. The court will grant her the child, and you'll be paying child support. So some black immigrant, who's worse than you in every way, fucks her like a bitch, putting his stinking, dirty foot on her head, and she tells you to pursue her. It's like someone bought a house for $10,000, but you can only buy it for $100,000. Besides, that house used to be new, and now it's shabby. Another thing: in the Soviet Union, there were Olympics in 1980, when Russian girls lost their virginity in the bushes with black guys. Then they had a Russian, white husband with whom they had a child, and this child was dark-skinned, and this is far from an isolated incident. The thing is, the child has the genes, the information, of the person who took their virginity. In general, I find this disgusting, to put it mildly. But your genes are also there, and if a dark-skinned child is born and you demand a paternity test and it turns out you're the father, your happy life will end there because you doubted your wife's fidelity, so you pay child support and see your unpleasant dark-skinned child on weekends, because you're legally obligated to. Another unpleasant moment is when a man and woman break up, each person's experience is different. The girl will certainly suffer, but she'll let him go; for her, it will be like losing something precious, at best. The man will be fine at first, but then he'll pine for her for years. Men truly fall in love only once, while women fall in love constantly. Statistically, men commit suicide 50 times more often than women. I also don't want to pay for a girl; I understand if she really helped me, saved my life. I understand if I was paying for my mother, grandmother, or sister, who truly love me, I wouldn't feel sorry for them. But I don't want to pay for a girl who still thinks I'm obligated, who won't even thank me for it, just as they don't feel grateful when a man does everything for the family, and then, as a rule, ends up a nobody. It's even scary to become rich, after all, so many rich men pay alimony to their ex-wives, and it's often women who initiate divorces. I don't like winter; I save up and go to Turkey for a month, and I'm happy, but then a girl comes along who also wants to go, but she doesn't have the money. Why should I pay for her trip to Turkey and, consequently, only spend two weeks there or work twice as hard to have enough for her? The most valuable person is you, you come first, you need to do well for yourself first. Take sex out of a relationship, and many girls end up with nothing else to give. All this fuss about sex, but why did someone get sex from her for nothing, while I have to pay, waste time and energy, and deal with her problems? Girls also often have other guys in reserve, friend-zoned, in case things don't work out with you, and you have to accept it. I know what I can do and I know how to get a girl to fall in love with me like she does with other alpha males, but I feel bad using girls, and at the same time, I'm afraid of falling in love myself. As they say, every normal guy has fallen in love with a whore at least once. Nothing good came of it. I don't know why I treat girls this way; I seem to have a normal relationship with my mother, but I don't accept her. I don't love her, but I treat her well. She died when I was little.

 

[Ayleth [NG]]

I’m not sure what corner of the internet you’ve been on, but what you’re talking about are cases where race-mixing is rampant. That might apply to specific cities or certain parts of some countries, but not all female gender subscribe to that strange ideation.

One thing you keep mentioning: they’re girls, not women. There is a difference. When you are young and in your twenties, a lot of people make mistakes, and they get slapped back by life later. Especially nowadays, without spirituality.

As a Zevist, you have the tools not to take part in that pool of incel- whoredom whatever bs.

You can have a beautiful relationship with a girl you want, one that supports both of your growth and development.

Do read the following:
To Young Men In The Forum
Dating: Lies Told to Men [part 1]

 

[Racid666]

Hello, I'm going to write a rather unpleasant post in the hopes that you'll help me figure this out. What I'm about to write below doesn't suit me, and I don't want to think that way. I want to change my attitude for the better, but I can't. I apologize to any girls this post might offend, or anyone else. I'm not talking about every girl, but the vast majority.
I don't want to meet girls, start relationships, or even marry them. I don't want to do this because there are practically no benefits to it for me, or for men in general, if you really think about it. Let me start by saying that I don't want to meet girls or start relationships because I'm not interested in the average goy whose only interest is finding a wealthy, slacker, with whom there's nothing to talk about. Although a week ago, she was having sex with a black guy in a nightclub, who simply offered her a couple of compliments at best, and now he's having sex with her in a restroom stall without even buying her a martini. She's had plenty of adventures like that, but now she's grown up, she's tired of it all, she knows her worth and actually wants a family, and you'd better court her well and spend money so she'll let you get close to her precious vagina. I don't know about you, but I don't want to waste time and money starting a family with someone who maybe wasn't even fucked at a club or party, which is highly unlikely, but just dated and had a fling with some Arab or Asian. But women aren't stupid; they know that kind of thing is generally discouraged and they'll never tell you about it, especially if you're a promising supplier. Yes, she'll be the one you need, she'll be into what you like, even if she doesn't like it, but only until you marry her and have children. Then, at best, your interests will fade into the background. If you don't like it, you can get a divorce. The court will grant her the child, and you'll be paying child support. So some black immigrant, who's worse than you in every way, fucks her like a bitch, putting his stinking, dirty foot on her head, and she tells you to pursue her. It's like someone bought a house for $10,000, but you can only buy it for $100,000. Besides, that house used to be new, and now it's shabby. Another thing: in the Soviet Union, there were Olympics in 1980, when Russian girls lost their virginity in the bushes with black guys. Then they had a Russian, white husband with whom they had a child, and this child was dark-skinned, and this is far from an isolated incident. The thing is, the child has the genes, the information, of the person who took their virginity. In general, I find this disgusting, to put it mildly. But your genes are also there, and if a dark-skinned child is born and you demand a paternity test and it turns out you're the father, your happy life will end there because you doubted your wife's fidelity, so you pay child support and see your unpleasant dark-skinned child on weekends, because you're legally obligated to. Another unpleasant moment is when a man and woman break up, each person's experience is different. The girl will certainly suffer, but she'll let him go; for her, it will be like losing something precious, at best. The man will be fine at first, but then he'll pine for her for years. Men truly fall in love only once, while women fall in love constantly. Statistically, men commit suicide 50 times more often than women. I also don't want to pay for a girl; I understand if she really helped me, saved my life. I understand if I was paying for my mother, grandmother, or sister, who truly love me, I wouldn't feel sorry for them. But I don't want to pay for a girl who still thinks I'm obligated, who won't even thank me for it, just as they don't feel grateful when a man does everything for the family, and then, as a rule, ends up a nobody. It's even scary to become rich, after all, so many rich men pay alimony to their ex-wives, and it's often women who initiate divorces. I don't like winter; I save up and go to Turkey for a month, and I'm happy, but then a girl comes along who also wants to go, but she doesn't have the money. Why should I pay for her trip to Turkey and, consequently, only spend two weeks there or work twice as hard to have enough for her? The most valuable person is you, you come first, you need to do well for yourself first. Take sex out of a relationship, and many girls end up with nothing else to give. All this fuss about sex, but why did someone get sex from her for nothing, while I have to pay, waste time and energy, and deal with her problems? Girls also often have other guys in reserve, friend-zoned, in case things don't work out with you, and you have to accept it. I know what I can do and I know how to get a girl to fall in love with me like she does with other alpha males, but I feel bad using girls, and at the same time, I'm afraid of falling in love myself. As they say, every normal guy has fallen in love with a whore at least once. Nothing good came of it. I don't know why I treat girls this way; I seem to have a normal relationship with my mother, but I don't accept her. I don't love her, but I treat her well. She died when I was little.

One thing I think may help is to study the nature of the Aristotelian Term 'Entelechy' in relation to 'Telegony' (transmutation of character & offspring thru sexual acts) ....
tl;dr - if a girl seems pleasant to you, often it would fare well to trust how she appears on a vibrational level - if she has lived contrary to your benefit, she would appear as unpleasant or simply vacuous.