Relationships Teen Dating&Spirituality Cheats?

There are many low conscious people but also normal ones exist. If you think that having a relationship with a specific woman will cause you to regress instead of grow, you should avoid it. The one suitable for you maybe cant be perfect but she could be one who won't hurt you and your future

Disclaimer: there are degrees to this, "andrapod" is a spectrum, and you must evaluate a person well before assuming they are one. There are plenty of great people in the world who aren't Zevists (yet). And, especially at around your age, people are less mature and obviously of lower consciousness, but the key thing is that people usually change and mature as they become adults. Not all of them unfortunately, but most do.

With that being said, there are relationships that can grow you and relationships that can diminish you. And having a relationship with someone more advanced rather than less advanced doesn't necessarily mean it's going to be a healthy relationship, as even being advanced people, you could be incompatible or one of the two might be going through a rough patch, eccetra.

You must be wise in avoiding a relationship with a person that you're feeling is dragging you down. And if you are unsure, ask your Guardian. But it's not something you necessarily always know beforehand. Long story short, do not overthink this.

If you were intending to do a love spell to find relationships, the most advisable idea is that you would be specifying a good quality of partner/someone right for you in your intent and affirmation.

That aside, what NG Daemontech says is true, there's a spectrum to these things, and more to people than what you perceive as their level of consciousness. I've known people who were extremely aware and emotionally perceptive who would have been an absolute dumpster fire to form a relationship with. Conversely I've known people who may not have been the brightest bulbs who were very sweet and supportive. Sometimes people have qualities beneath the surface. Though not quite comparable to romance, my best friend in life, on first meet, was extremely abrasive and tended to drive people away, but there was an immense quality to their character that quickly became apparent once I got to know them.

Now, regarding ethics. Say you've found someone you have feelings for, and you're interested in forming a relationship with them, and you want to do a love spell to attract them. Here are some things you should ask yourself. What sort of relationship do they want? You want something not too serious, maybe they want something long term. Ask yourself not only what they're bringing you, but what you're bringing them.

Whether relationships last or not, in the best case scenario you would want people to be better than before they met you. Even if your preference is towards shorter, casual relationships, do your best to not leave a trail of drama and wreckage behind. Just because someone is an "andrapod" or what have you, does not mean people should just be disposable things. Even if you just want flings, try to approach it with sincerity and a healthy mindset.

Love-attraction spells are definitely beneficial, but what about direct love spells? Is there any reason not to use them?

There's nothing morally wrong with a direct love spell. We have information regarding these on the website here after all. Though, regarding whether you should right now, the answer is no, as Venus is currently in Retrograde and doesn't go Stationary until November 13-14th.

How do you evaluate if somebody is an andrapod? What makes somebody an andrapod for you? I don't know but for me personally most girls I talk to are decent.

We are all born Andrapods and throughout life, depending on our ethics and advancement, we may become less or more human in certain areas of our lives.

I find that giving good people a fair chance, courtesy, and regard makes life a beautiful place and we have a responsibility to participate in the world and contribute for the betterment of the whole. We can have positive and beneficial effects in the world by helping others aim higher, but I wouldn't say this about every person or deeply Andrapodic individuals (which you can read the levels of in this section IX. Andrapoda Ethics ) so it is important to have discernment and healthy boundaries in all our relationships.

To clarify, love spells don't exactly work in the way that you may be assuming, they can't make the other person mindlessly bewitched. They may notice you more/become more interested but you still need to do the work to attract them/be attractive to them through action.

I ended up writing a MUCH longer tirade than I intended. But, if you are in a hurry, a very short TL;DR is at the very bottom. Best of luck, Brother. I would apologize for the lecture but a LOT of this is things I wish someone had told me when I was in my teens. Keep your head up and remember, you are not alone - act like it.

One of the final redpills to swallow is that barring extremely fallen cases, even light andrapoda as well as simply lower-consciousness Humans (as in the proper noun - used in the rank name context) still have both a lot to offer, as well as with the right approach, a lot to learn. While our evolutionary ceiling, as it were, is far higher than "normal" people's and this can end up making us "better than" them, this is no reason to scoff and turn your nose at regular people whatsoever - and I am only describing your potential level after years if not decades of progress, not as a (presumably) fresh devotee, especially one who is still developing his physical, mental and spiritual faculties actively. On the flip side, Brother, nobody is expecting you to be a Tesla, Schwarzenegger or Socrates in the realms of the mind, physique or spirit yet. So take it easy, and don't be in a rush to call other people, or even yourself, andrapoda just because they do not (yet) know what you do know (and admittedly, does put you "above" them in some ways - but this bestows far more responsibility than right).

Your having stepped onto this path of eternity, wisdom, Truth and triumph already shows your will, initiative and probably intellect is a clear cut above most people, but again, an important step in personal and spiritual development is being, or coming to be, able to appreciate people as they are while also showing them a clear way to overcome themselves and develop to a higher level. And all of this is not even to mention that IF IT IS COMPLETELY SAFE FOR YOU TO DO SO, you can awaken some of these so-called andrapoda to the Truth - after absolutely, exhaustively, at length, making sure that it is COMPLETELY safe for you to do so; perhaps years down the line. To reiterate, my young friend, I am NOT suggesting you do this kind of thing right from the get-go, no matter how "special" she seems to be, I am just saying keep your mind open and don't label people as andrapoda or at least, beyond "redemption" so readily and permanently. Again, do NOT move rashly and do not tip your hand or "show them what's what" too early or easily - share it with one single wrong person and your life can become a lot more difficult for at least a good length of time. You do not have complete control over your life yet, remember this.

Just saying that yes, a relationship with an andrapod, provided (s)he is not Fallen enough, is possible - especially if you see some potential to uplift them in the process. A Zevist-Zevist romance is absolutely the pinnacle, the capstone, the pie in the sky, but there are precious few of us and if you were to make a vow of celibacy until you meet one of us or something, you would stay alone for at least a couple more decades. 😂

Anyway. All this fluff aside, I want to give you some crunch, some real advice. Puberty years are volatile enough as it is, before even throwing in witchcraft into the mix. Between developing and coming into your own personhood as well as ego, dealing with the world, your peers, parents and teachers, witchcraft may seem like a universal key to all your problems - and it potentially is, especially paired with physical effort. However, especially given your age, I don't think you should immediately throw magick at a rather minor problem. I am not saying romance is a minor problem or that it's not a big deal - you said it, which tells me you are not really feeling lonely or perhaps, your plate is not completely empty. I will make an educated guess that it's not the end of the world if you can't land a date, and you yourself say sexuality is (probably a big) part of it. This is completely understandable and respectable, sexual needs are not scoffed at here, but I will say that I don't think you will look back kindly upon yourself 10 years later if the first bits of magick you engaged in were for pure sex - not even for love, but for casual sex. I suggest you do some thinking and decide if you want this under your belt, and if you do, nothing is technically stopping you - try not to harm people though.

Lastly, I will offer you one gentle correction. Others can correct me if I am wrong, but I am very certain of this. Love induced by a spell is every bit "true" as love sparked through, say, looks, intellect, charisma or simply an unexplainable je ne sais quoi. Who is to say that love produced or rather, helped along by spirituality is less "real" than love more based on a more physical, less spiritual reality? In fact, if done with purity of heart and intention, I would even argue that love helped along by magick is even more precious. However, I would also like to pull your attention to the fact that I am talking about love, mutual attraction, etc. Sex is absolutely part of it, but I am more talking about Eros all in all - passion, sure, but not some consumptive, ephemeral thing.

In short, I will recommend that you think of the future - as far into the future as you realistically can. Take actions, be with people, do spells and talk and think things your 30, 40, 50 year old self would be proud of. Temporary pleasures are all too easy to get swayed by and pursue, but they don't often lead anywhere - and there are going to be plenty of those if you build a good self out of your... Self anyway.

TL;DR An "andrapoda" is fine if you find a decent person and treat them decently enough for them to possibly be inspired by you and grow themselves too, don't be rash to do witchcraft especially just for sex but you are technically free to do so, and take actions both those around you will be impressed by and respectful of you and more importantly, your 40 year old self will thank you for.

Young men are not usually designed to be looking for anything serious.

A love spell doesn't work by pulling on 'unnatural impulses' or brainwashing, it creates a harmonious collision where you must step up to the mark for it to work, including interaction, which the spell fuels.

As for the other stuff, you just need to avoid glaringly negative cases like drug addicts and all of those, and use proper protection. It is rare that two humans in love are equally yoked in capability anyway.