Relationship help

[Ask Satya Operator]

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I don't know what to do I've been married to a guy for 7 years. We have split up a few times. We seem to get better when we do get back together. I'm not perfect. But he has lied to me again about money. I don't know what to do. Please help

 

[Shadowcat]

Financial infidelity is a red flag and is just as bad as cheating on your someone. There need to be clear boundaries in the relationship about "what is mine" "what is ours" and "what is yours", whatever that may be for any couple. If you are married on paper, is there a prenup? Are they being secretive about resources that were previously agreed to be shared in any way, or secretive about how these resources are being used without consulting you? If that agreement is violated by them by hiding anything about money or anything material having to do with property and finances, they do not respect you, your time, or your resources and it is time to leave.

 

[DarkDan666]

Financial infidelity is a red flag and is just as bad as cheating on your someone. There need to be clear boundaries in the relationship about "what is mine" "what is ours" and "what is yours", whatever that may be for any couple. If you are married on paper, is there a prenup? Are they being secretive about resources that were previously agreed to be shared in any way, or secretive about how these resources are being used without consulting you? If that agreement is violated by them by hiding anything about money or anything material having to do with property and finances, they do not respect you, your time, or your resources and it is time to leave.

Thank you shadowcat from what you say it looks like it's time to leave.

 

[Shadowcat]

Financial infidelity is a red flag and is just as bad as cheating on your someone. There need to be clear boundaries in the relationship about "what is mine" "what is ours" and "what is yours", whatever that may be for any couple. If you are married on paper, is there a prenup? Are they being secretive about resources that were previously agreed to be shared in any way, or secretive about how these resources are being used without consulting you? If that agreement is violated by them by hiding anything about money or anything material having to do with property and finances, they do not respect you, your time, or your resources and it is time to leave.

Thank you shadowcat from what you say it looks like it's time to leave.

You have also voiced that you two have split up already a number of times. That in itself is an indicator that it's time to cut loose for good, especially if those reasons pertained to the same issue. This would be saying they don't intend to change anything regardless of how you think.

 

[Karnonnos [SG]]

He will keep doing this to you over and over again. Nothing will change the next time. Stay away from all parasites.

Also if your money rituals went wrong, this is why.

 

[DarkDan666]

Financial infidelity is a red flag and is just as bad as cheating on your someone. There need to be clear boundaries in the relationship about "what is mine" "what is ours" and "what is yours", whatever that may be for any couple. If you are married on paper, is there a prenup? Are they being secretive about resources that were previously agreed to be shared in any way, or secretive about how these resources are being used without consulting you? If that agreement is violated by them by hiding anything about money or anything material having to do with property and finances, they do not respect you, your time, or your resources and it is time to leave.

Thank you shadowcat from what you say it looks like it's time to leave.

You have also voiced that you two have split up already a number of times. That in itself is an indicator that it's time to cut loose for good, especially if those reasons pertained to the same issue. This would be saying they don't intend to change anything regardless of how you think.

That is true. This is just going to be hard I don't like to be alone.

 

[Shadowcat]

Thank you shadowcat from what you say it looks like it's time to leave.

You have also voiced that you two have split up already a number of times. That in itself is an indicator that it's time to cut loose for good, especially if those reasons pertained to the same issue. This would be saying they don't intend to change anything regardless of how you think.

That is true. This is just going to be hard I don't like to be alone.

That's no excuse to stay in a relationship that is toxic to you. Trust me I know from experience, easier said than done. You might want to try an aura detachment or freeing the soul so it can give you the will to break up. The next waning scorpio moon is coming up in January and is a good time for this.

 

[DarkDan666]

He will keep doing this to you over and over again. Nothing will change the next time. Stay away from all parasites.

Also if your money rituals went wrong, this is why.

I have been doing Ansuz, In a positive way for me I am completely and eternally free from any and all worry, fear, hangups and obstacles concerning advancement, success and wealth.

Would this of brought the problem to light or caused it?

 

[DarkDan666]

You have also voiced that you two have split up already a number of times. That in itself is an indicator that it's time to cut loose for good, especially if those reasons pertained to the same issue. This would be saying they don't intend to change anything regardless of how you think.

That is true. This is just going to be hard I don't like to be alone.

That's no excuse to stay in a relationship that is toxic to you. Trust me I know from experience, easier said than done. You might want to try an aura detachment or freeing the soul so it can give you the will to break up. The next waning scorpio moon is coming up in January and is a good time for this.

I somehow would of never thought of that. Ok I'll look for that date and get that started. Thank you.