Question #5441: Venus in Virgo, attracted to broken people?

[Ask Satya Operator]

I tend to be attracted to broken people and those who have gone through extreme pain/sufferring. The notion of being able to "heal" them appeals to me greatly.

What can I do to stop this tendency?

 

[Karnonnos [SG]]

This position tends to attract this, ill people and sometimes abuse, the 7th House of such a position is Piscean after all. Venus in Virgo often wants to help those who can't be helped.

You need to meditate on the fact that many people cannot be saved and often (not always) their pain/suffering comes with behaviors that are down to negativity inherently, do a Venus Square to empower your Middle Chakra and Natal Venus too. It doesn't mean you can't love people with problems, but know your limits.

 

[Maelstorm [NG]]

Maybe you should try to heal these broken people and then see the emotional damage it does to you.

Love, at least in my opinion, should be nurturing, not healing. Healing mental and emotional problems through love leads to worse results in the vast majority of cases. Life is hard, our problems are many and you can't add love to that. Love shouldn't create problems, on the contrary it should reduce them.

Do work that heals your natal Venus and focuses on solving your Venusian problems. Take considerable time to understand yourself and your chart. Things should get better with time.

 

[Ask Satya Operator]

This position tends to attract this, ill people and sometimes abuse, the 7th House of such a position is Piscean after all. Venus in Virgo often wants to help those who can't be helped.

You need to meditate on the fact that many people cannot be saved and often (not always) their pain/suffering comes with behaviors that are down to negativity inherently, do a Venus Square to empower your Middle Chakra and Natal Venus too. It doesn't mean you can't love people with problems, but know your limits.

I have a Jupiter in the 7th House, so I assumed it would be a beneficial influence, but it seems to just attract more of these people.

Does it relate to it being retrograde? And does this mean I will have to do to workings related to Jupiter or freeing bad karma as well, or will the Venus Square alone suffice?

 

[Engineered Trasformation]

Are you somehow broken yourself in some ways?
Just wondering, as we seem to attract people with similar vibrations, if it's a sort of magnetic attraction to bring broken people to you. This happens to me, I often attract people with similar problems as me. And observing them sometimes helped me to understand something more about me, I possibly projected on them.
Of course this is in the planets too but I do not think Virgo is really representative of broken people (on the psychological point on view), that would be Neptune/Pisces, Virgo is more humble or neat/simple people. On the negative side, as Karnonnos said, possible physically unhealthy/ill people.
But it can also be related to 7th house ruler, and the sign where your 7th house falls in. Where are they placed?

Also how happens that people anonymous reply to questions, how does it work?

 

[Engineered Trasformation]

Similar vibration no. I did not mean that (damn Mercury RX!!), I meant with similar problems. Similar vibration would maybe be a SS?