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Question #3723: What Do Healthy Polyamorous Relationships Look Like?

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So there have been many people looking for relationships with a Demon. While this usually doesn't go too well, either through delusion or just plain primal desires, there is an emphasis on monogamy.

I know that any monogamous relationship, human and Demon alike, should be treated with utmost respect and devotion. But what about someone who is polyamorous?

The idea is including others in the relationship, but what about favoritism and children?

I want kids. But I also don't want them thinking their father doesn't love them because he has multiple children with other women. How does that work without at least somewhat incorporating monogamy?

Basically, what can one expect from a healthy polyamorous relationship (especially with children involved)?

#20

If you wish to find out what healthy polyamory relationship looks like you have to go see Tibetan culture. When younger brother brings a new wife to his house he first offer her to his beloved superiors, his father and brothers, and only after they are satisfied, his turn can come. And his new wife would first prostrate herself before his mother and his older wives with the words: "Hello, my Lady, I am your new servant, please use me and accept my unworthy service, be blessed and live forever!". This is called respect and family bond.

You see, most people answering are Western. They are raised that their ego is the most crucial thing for their survival rather than feeling part of something else. In Eastern culture such thing as "self" does not exist. Give your father and brother first and only then to yourself. In some cultures having several brothers of the same blood for husbands is totally normal: they would not attack each other because they feel as one. Not every culture and not every people is so insanely concentrated on individual ego. Some tribes has no such thing as individual ego at all: they feel not as "themselves" but rather as "a tribe" or "a family" or alike. I don't feel myself as "myself" though I live in very civilized part of my society. I feel their pain first and my - after. I always first let others take things and myself take only what is left from others. I don't mean those alien, I mean those of my family or group, co-workers, classmates etc. fellow people, people in same situation, of same profession, of same disease etc. This is also called "kin". We have very strong feeling of fellowship and very weak feeling of "self". This is how all civilized Russians act (this absolutely does not mess with our Racial values and is absolute proof that nationalism does not involve egocentrism). Though my country is monoamorous, this is not out of egocentrism, rather it comes naturally. I just tried to show the example of how polyandry might be nothing "wrong" if it naturally emerges from national mentality and is not a fruit of decadance or promiscuty.

Cuckoldry is not protecting your women and country from filth and letting filth rule the world. You can act like this being monoandrous as well. While 100% polyandrous Butan Kingdom does not have moslen migration, emasculation, whoredom and related.

#21

So sorry. I meant Mustang, not Butan. While there also exists Butan Kingdom as well, those stories of legal polyandry I head came from Mustang with actual filmed proof from there.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Upper_Mustang Sorry for the mistake.

Yet there are other tribes that are purely Pagan and live high up in the mountains and there is just default polyamory from both parties and monogamy happens only when it is consensual, then it is called "amorous friendship". Both sexes can be providers (profession and providing is free for everyone) and women are not forced to move in to boyfriend's family. They bring a lot of babies into their own family from different polyamorous loves and children are raised by older men and women from her family. Both young people stay free. People said to a reporter that they felt most comfortable in such state and didn't want enter buddhism because then they would lose all these freedoms. (I think the interviewed woman was in such "amorous friendship" relationship and monoandrous).

#22

If you wish to find out what healthy polyamory relationship looks like you have to go see Tibetan culture. When younger brother brings a new wife to his house he first offer her to his beloved superiors, his father and brothers, and only after they are satisfied, his turn can come. And his new wife would first prostrate herself before his mother and his older wives with the words: "Hello, my Lady, I am your new servant, please use me and accept my unworthy service, be blessed and live forever!". This is called respect and family bond.

You see, most people answering are Western. They are raised that their ego is the most crucial thing for their survival rather than feeling part of something else. In Eastern culture such thing as "self" does not exist. Give your father and brother first and only then to yourself. In some cultures having several brothers of the same blood for husbands is totally normal: they would not attack each other because they feel as one. Not every culture and not every people is so insanely concentrated on individual ego. Some tribes has no such thing as individual ego at all: they feel not as "themselves" but rather as "a tribe" or "a family" or alike. I don't feel myself as "myself" though I live in very civilized part of my society. I feel their pain first and my - after. I always first let others take things and myself take only what is left from others. I don't mean those alien, I mean those of my family or group, co-workers, classmates etc. fellow people, people in same situation, of same profession, of same disease etc. This is also called "kin". We have very strong feeling of fellowship and very weak feeling of "self". This is how all civilized Russians act (this absolutely does not mess with our Racial values and is absolute proof that nationalism does not involve egocentrism). Though my country is monoamorous, this is not out of egocentrism, rather it comes naturally. I just tried to show the example of how polyandry might be nothing "wrong" if it naturally emerges from national mentality and is not a fruit of decadance or promiscuty.

Cuckoldry is not protecting your women and country from filth and letting filth rule the world. You can act like this being monoandrous as well. While 100% polyandrous Butan Kingdom does not have moslen migration, emasculation, whoredom and related.

I think it is incorrect to compare white people (Slavs: Russians, Belarusians, Ukrainians) with tibetans, who are usually asians, not white people.

In Russia, Belarus and Ukraine, I have not observed this in any white family, but what you describe really gives the impression of slavery.

If rely strictly on Slavic paganism, which I am very familiar with, since my own father was a pagan and his friends are also pagans and nationalists (some of whom unfortunately kill each other on both sides in the War in Ukraine), and I attended on many pagan holidays, in companies and saw everything from the inside, but what you describe I didn't see it and I don't think it's anywhere.

«You will find on the left of the halls of Hades a spring, and standing by it a white cypress. Do not approach this spring at all. You will find another, from the Lake of Memory, with cold water flowing from it. Guardians stand before it. Say: 'I am a child of Earth and starry Heaven, but my race is of Heaven alone. You know this yourselves. I am parched with thirst and am perishing. Give me quickly the cold water flowing from the Lake of Memory.' And they will give you to drink from the sacred spring, and after that you will reign among the other heroes» - From the Petelia Tablet (300-200 BCE)

#23

If you wish to find out what healthy polyamory relationship looks like you have to go see Tibetan culture. When younger brother brings a new wife to his house he first offer her to his beloved superiors, his father and brothers, and only after they are satisfied, his turn can come. And his new wife would first prostrate herself before his mother and his older wives with the words: "Hello, my Lady, I am your new servant, please use me and accept my unworthy service, be blessed and live forever!". This is called respect and family bond.

You see, most people answering are Western. They are raised that their ego is the most crucial thing for their survival rather than feeling part of something else. In Eastern culture such thing as "self" does not exist. Give your father and brother first and only then to yourself. In some cultures having several brothers of the same blood for husbands is totally normal: they would not attack each other because they feel as one. Not every culture and not every people is so insanely concentrated on individual ego. Some tribes has no such thing as individual ego at all: they feel not as "themselves" but rather as "a tribe" or "a family" or alike. I don't feel myself as "myself" though I live in very civilized part of my society. I feel their pain first and my - after. I always first let others take things and myself take only what is left from others. I don't mean those alien, I mean those of my family or group, co-workers, classmates etc. fellow people, people in same situation, of same profession, of same disease etc. This is also called "kin". We have very strong feeling of fellowship and very weak feeling of "self". This is how all civilized Russians act (this absolutely does not mess with our Racial values and is absolute proof that nationalism does not involve egocentrism). Though my country is monoamorous, this is not out of egocentrism, rather it comes naturally. I just tried to show the example of how polyandry might be nothing "wrong" if it naturally emerges from national mentality and is not a fruit of decadance or promiscuty.

Cuckoldry is not protecting your women and country from filth and letting filth rule the world. You can act like this being monoandrous as well. While 100% polyandrous Butan Kingdom does not have moslen migration, emasculation, whoredom and related.

That's gross, reminds me of primo noctis.

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#24

If you wish to find out what healthy polyamory relationship looks like you have to go see Tibetan culture. When younger brother brings a new wife to his house he first offer her to his beloved superiors, his father and brothers, and only after they are satisfied, his turn can come. And his new wife would first prostrate herself before his mother and his older wives with the words: "Hello, my Lady, I am your new servant, please use me and accept my unworthy service, be blessed and live forever!". This is called respect and family bond.

That is anything but Healthy.