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Question #2498: how to work with what you have

Ask Satya Operator

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How to work with your own body ??? a while ago I read a sermon by Maxine (which I even missed and if you know which one I'm referring to please post the link here) she said that she was a tall and strong woman and worked with the body she had, lifting weights and everything and that she had fun with it. I'm totally the opposite of her, short and thin and I don't have that many curves, they're very soft and I hate that, I wish I had a totally different body and different genetics. I could use my slim body to be a model, but I'm well below what a model should have in terms of height. How could I use that? Nowadays the ideal body is an extremely slim waist with a giant butt and breasts and thick thighs, I'm sad because I'm not like that, I'm an adult who is mistaken for a 14-year-old, yes exactly many people have thought I was that age. How could I work with that? because of that I think about having plastic surgeries like breast implants and rib removal to have a thin waist
 
Your problem is not in your body but in the deficiency of your solar energies, which cause your low self-esteem. Start Sun Square or use the Wunjo/Sowilo rune.
 
Instead of wallowing in misery look to your strengths and make the most of those. Learn to appreciate yourself as is. This might require extensive healing and reprogramming as you mentioned plastic surgery as a viable option (it's not, really).

You do not need to be lifting heavy weights if that's not your thing, but there are dozens and dozens of other ways to get and stay fit. Again, learning about available options and of yourself is required here.
 
You talk about ideal body. Ideal according to who? Your body type is more like what is ideal to me, and many people agree with me.
 
Have you ever looked at Greek statues or naked paintings of older times and see the body type of a lot of women?

They are more aligned with your body type but since they are fit it looks very beautiful and I agree that that type of body is pleasing as well.

Ballerinas, gymnasts, ice skaters etc tend to have softer curves but still look incredibly feminine and many men would agree they have pretty bodies. This is because they are at their peak and that itself is very attractive to the eye.
 
I look similar to how you describe yourself as looking, but I've always been extremely grateful. I don't want to be "bodacious" and "look like sex." (Sorry, I don't have a better word choice.) I always thought it would be very difficult to get dressed if I had a large bust or butt and still look tasteful. I think a lot of curvy women have that problem, and people don't respect them: another problem caused by the media.
 

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