Question #2055: I fell in love with the woman who hired me

[Ask Satya Operator]

I fell in love with her, we are of the same race, I am a capricorn and she is a fish, will it be worth it for me to do a magic so that she falls in love with me, we get along very well but she is older than me but I still want to have something with her, I need help and advice from more experienced and older people, I am young I am between 18 - 20 years old and she is 29 years old.

 

[hailourtruegod]

In many places especially in America this will be ill-advised as she can get into legal trouble for dating her employee and will lose her job.

You are young. Are you 100% percent sure about your feelings or is it just that you're infatuated by someone LIKE her.

Are you experienced enough to know your own feelings when it comes to dating?

More importantly does she feel the same way and/or has shown to feel the same way?

Just because you get along with someone of the opposite sex doesn't mean she has very deep feelings for you especially if this is just during work hours.

If you two are hanging out outside of work then yeah I would see where you are coming from.

You would just have to be very safe from making things public especially if you two work and live in a small town as these things get spread around quicker than you might think.

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Doing a love spell will just open possibilities for you to give you a chance to show her you are an ideal mate for her and open up her mind to these thoughts. It doesn't mean she will immediately fall in love with you. The success will also depend on obstacles as well and I have already pointed to one big obstacle above. This can easily make the working not work and even cause her stress if she does see you as an ideal mate.

You have to be mature and think about her situation as well and be sure she actually means that much to you to put her in jeopardy and not waste her time either.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

There is nothing wrong with this if you are compatible with each other.

 

[Wotanwarrior]

There is nothing wrong with this if you are compatible with each other.

The main problem is that in some European countries and in the United States such a situation is frowned upon and can completely ruin her professional reputation.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

There is nothing wrong with this if you are compatible with each other.

The main problem is that in some European countries and in the United States such a situation is frowned upon and can completely ruin her professional reputation.

Besides, the probability she has any interest in him is really really slim. Women are usually less attracted to men their age, even. Imagine 29 to 18 lol.

I don't believe there is any basis for a relationship at all even. At 29 you've went through so much someone who is 18-20 is in a diferrent world entirely.

The only basis for any type of relation I can see with this is just using each other for casual sex if there is no other options or just for casuality's sake.

 

[Syt]

If this is what you want then go after it. These desires are also a great way to test the strength of your mind and soul. You are young and this will be a great learning experience.

However, before applying your self to this task, ask yourself this:
- Is this is worth it.
- How will this affect the your job performance?
- Will this affect your pay which is tied to your performance?
- If you or she decides to pursue another romantic interest while being employed, how will this affect you and your job?

HS.

I fell in love with her, we are of the same race, I am a capricorn and she is a fish, will it be worth it for me to do a magic so that she falls in love with me, we get along very well but she is older than me but I still want to have something with her, I need help and advice from more experienced and older people, I am young I am between 18 - 20 years old and she is 29 years old.

 

[Priest - Alexandros Iowno]

It is a problem that she is a fish. The human body is different you know. See if you separate the authority she may not be that appealing. Don't reason desire if you have common sense, have a backbone in your instincts as a man and go for it.

 

[Priest - Alexandros Iowno]

There is nothing wrong with this if you are compatible with each other.

The main problem is that in some European countries and in the United States such a situation is frowned upon and can completely ruin her professional reputation.

Besides, the probability she has any interest in him is really really slim. Women are usually less attracted to men their age, even. Imagine 29 to 18 lol.

I don't believe there is any basis for a relationship at all even. At 29 you've went through so much someone who is 18-20 is in a diferrent world entirely.

The only basis for any type of relation I can see with this is just using each other for casual sex if there is no other options or just for casuality's sake.

There are a lot of older females who are borderline predators towards younger toys, sorry I mean boys.
The same is for the younger females to older boys, men.

I remember one time I was harrased by a 26 year old female and I was 16. Explicitly going for the kill and trying to convince me to have relations with her.

Don't reason out what is instinctual. You don't know what and how one might react or want. It is totally normal to be hopefully of these things and for it to be pursued, especially as a testosterone young man.

I don't promote degeneracy, but at least some discovery of the real world that must happen. Either that or people stay sexless and depressed because they deny their own instincts or destroy these by pornographic material.

 

[hailourtruegod]

It is a problem that she is a fish. The human body is different you know.

Not to be cliche but I literally choked a little when I read this as I was eating at the time :lol:

 

[Bluecollarbutch666]

Just go up to her and ask to take her out to eat. The worst you can get is no. I mean no is no, but it hasn't bit me yet :lol:

 

[Head Guardian Blitzkreig]

A sad situation that a 20 year old young man would be attracted to a woman who is almost 10 years older than her. This is what young women feel about older men. Your situation is the inverse of natural law. This is what happens when you live in a pornified society where you are subconsciously brainwashed to find unnatural things attractive.

This can happen in cases where the male has aspects of Saturn to their Venus or 7th house. While the planet Saturn is normally associated with masculinity and therefore OP's situation is not common, I wouldn't call it totally unnatural.

There are likely other factors at play, like personal synastry, as well.

 

[General Yeager]

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A sad situation that a 20 year old young man would be attracted to a woman who is almost 10 years older than her. This is what young women feel about older men. Your situation is the inverse of natural law. This is what happens when you live in a pornified society where you are subconsciously brainwashed to find unnatural things attractive.

This can happen in cases where the male has aspects of Saturn to their Venus or 7th house. While the planet Saturn is normally associated with masculinity and therefore OP's situation is not common, I wouldn't call it totally unnatural.

There are likely other factors at play, like personal synastry, as well.

My astrology shows certain placements and fixed stars that indicate that I am a Genocidal Psychopath and I will be involved in directing a Mass Genocide.

But that doesn't mean that it's natural, that it's going to happen happen or that I am those things.

Negative Karma can manifest in ways to make your sexual proclivities unnatural. That doesn't mean that it is correct.

As a Satanist you must free yourself from your Karmic bonds.

 

[hailourtruegod]

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A sad situation that a 20 year old young man would be attracted to a woman who is almost 10 years older than her. This is what young women feel about older men. Your situation is the inverse of natural law. This is what happens when you live in a pornified society where you are subconsciously brainwashed to find unnatural things attractive.

This can happen in cases where the male has aspects of Saturn to their Venus or 7th house. While the planet Saturn is normally associated with masculinity and therefore OP's situation is not common, I wouldn't call it totally unnatural.

There are likely other factors at play, like personal synastry, as well.

My astrology shows certain placements and fixed stars that indicate that I am a Genocidal Psychopath and I will be involved in directing a Mass Genocide.

But that doesn't mean that it's natural, that it's going to happen happen or that I am those things.

Negative Karma can manifest in ways to make your sexual proclivities unnatural. That doesn't mean that it is correct.

As a Satanist you must free yourself from your Karmic bonds.

How is it against natural law for a man to go with an older woman if the older woman is still youthful and and beautiful. 29 is not old whatsoever. Many women at this age and older have a beautiful body that younger women haven't reached yet unless they are exceptions.

Not to mention the wisdom and intelligence that comes with age that is also very attractive to men who are into that stuff and this can also be seen in their charts if they are into these types of partners.

I would agree with you if someone was attracted to grandmas but this is far from the case here.

Unless the example of a 30 year old woman is the NPC who by that age the toll of drugs or even just alcohol every weekend is showing along with a bad diet then I would understand your point. That's not natural/normal (real normal and not modern normal) so I wouldn't count that.

Eastern White women are a good example of longer good health and youth in later life if you're looking for examples outside of Asians and Blacks who tend to look younger later in life. The average White woman in Blue Zones are probably the best example for the West.

Even animals still mate with their female counter parts if they are older.

Not sure where you got this idea from.

It's almost like you are being the other side of the coin of people who look down at men into a 20 year old when the man in question is 30 or above.

I wouldn't care to reply if you just shared your opinion in your type of women but you're making statement of facts that could use some more explanation if you don't mind.

 

[Hyperactive Melon]

I fell in love with her, we are of the same race, I am a capricorn and she is a fish, will it be worth it for me to do a magic so that she falls in love with me, we get along very well but she is older than me but I still want to have something with her, I need help and advice from more experienced and older people, I am young I am between 18 - 20 years old and she is 29 years old.

Go for it if you really love her trying won't hurt

 

[Head Guardian Blitzkreig]

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Your concerns of health are valid, but there are also valid reasons why this relationship had blossomed, which are rooted in the energy connections between the two souls. It does not necessarily have to come from porn.

People enter into relationships for reasons other than having the healthiest child possible, such as romantic, emotional, or sexual connections. Although having children is one way for society to prosper, it can also be done through a fulfilling partnership between two people.

Instead of trying to strictly define the energetic connections of a specific and unique relationship, it is better to focus on the broader influences that have altered child birth rates as a whole. That is because not everyone will have or want children in an equal manner.

By removing the limitations on child births, rather than trying to force them on everyone, you can respect individual differences, while also doing a good job towards the root of the problem.

In other words, attack porn, but don't necessarily try to tell someone that they should only go one way, where their soul may be trying to go another. This could lead to an unhealthy relationship, one where the kids or parents may suffer. Yet, another family may want to have 2x as many kids, so you can instead give them more resources to do so.

This would be playing into the natural tendencies of both parties, rather than trying to treat them both as similar.