Question #1917: Love Working on my Best friend of almost 2 years.

[Ol argedco luciftias]

If you actually had as good of a relationship with her as you are saying there would be no reason for a love spell.

 

[AFODO]

You put a love spell on her with her permission wtf? :lol:

I love these love stories, mainly from SS, but I don't understand why would you put a love spell on her when she knows you will.
Maybe if it would be just for an experience, but if she agree she literally agree to be with you, so there is no need for love spell.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

Venus retro is here. (In shadow phase.) Don't do any Love spells anytime soon.

As well as what Agredco said.

Also, the way you say my best friend who is like family to me is coming of age as a woman and asking to do a love spell on her is more than creepy lol.

Also, I don't think you should tell her you're making a love spell on her. Let's assume you do make a love spell and she starts having feelings and fantasizing about you then realizes these are not her own thoughts, even subconciously she will feel this is not her will. I think it will just distract the whole working.

The point of these spells is to influence the person's subconcious. They have to be unaware, open and relaxed to this to open up to your will.

 

[666t666]

Venus retro is here. (In shadow phase.) Don't do any Love spells anytime soon.

As well as what Agredco said.

Also, the way you say my best friend who is like family to me is coming of age as a woman and asking to do a love spell on her is more than creepy lol.

Also, I don't think you should tell her you're making a love spell on her. Let's assume you do make a love spell and she starts having feelings and fantasizing about you then realizes these are not her own thoughts, even subconciously she will feel this is not her will. I think it will just distract the whole working.

The point of these spells is to influence the person's subconcious. They have to be unaware, open and relaxed to this to open up to your will.

Venus retrograde start on July 23? Do the effects start before the retro begin?

 

[MercuryWisdom]

Venus retro is here. (In shadow phase.) Don't do any Love spells anytime soon.

As well as what Agredco said.

Also, the way you say my best friend who is like family to me is coming of age as a woman and asking to do a love spell on her is more than creepy lol.

Also, I don't think you should tell her you're making a love spell on her. Let's assume you do make a love spell and she starts having feelings and fantasizing about you then realizes these are not her own thoughts, even subconciously she will feel this is not her will. I think it will just distract the whole working.

The point of these spells is to influence the person's subconcious. They have to be unaware, open and relaxed to this to open up to your will.

Venus retrograde start on July 23? Do the effects start before the retro begin?

Before the official dates of retro start there is a shadow phase where it is in its energy and starting to shift. With Mercury Retro aswell. He can try but Venus retro or anytime near that is a turbulent time for relationships in general and the worst time for love spells.

 

[Henu the Great]

I do not agree with the opposition to love spells in cases like this. Done right, these efforts can deepen the relationship even further. Regarding affirmations, I would always urge people to search for info about how they are done and some examples regarding affirmations by using search in these forums, and then making their own to suit their own needs. It really is not that hard!

 

[hailourtruegod]

Love spells are not mind control. If a very spiritually advanced person man was out there having full control of women's hearts and minds he desires (or vice versa) thru rituals and spells then it wouldn't be a "love spell" at that point as they would be controlling others against their will.

Real Magick and spirituality has practicality to it but people just see stuff on the screen or read things from people who misunderstand spirituality let alone practice it and believe that's how it works.

Love/sex spells work to open possibilities. Just like money spells. As with the latter you don't have money appear out of thin air just the same as after a few love/sex spells the person you want will not be at your knees begging you to be with them.

The only thing close to the above is if the person was already into you but this is in realistic terms and not some fantasy movie like scene.



As an example, I highly doubt a God will consider it a love spell to seduce someone happily married and with kids and also as humans aren't machines I highly doubt it would work if it was just merely a spell. If a being at that level would do such a thing then that's more along the line of mind control than a spell as it would be against the person's will to do so.

Again, I'm only using this to make a point and not saying our Gods would do such a thing as basically possessing(?) someone to have sex with them or fall in love with them if said person was in a situation where that wouldn't be ideal.

If the mind is open to suggestions then it will receive the energy and the influence will work or won't work depending whatever obstacles there are or lack there of... but it doesn't work like jedi mind tricks.

Any person in general will still have to put in physical "work" after a love/sex spell. They still need to be physically in front of the person and be likable. As with all Magick it just makes it easier for the possibilities to come easier for the person doing them.

All in all I don't see anything unethical about love/sex spells on their own. The ethical parts become relevant depending on the SITUATION, not the spell itself.

Also there will be a difference between doing a spell for someone who is already into you then doing a spell for someone who you barely know. The latter can become a situation where a spell needs to be constantly done especially if there is little to no natural synastry between the two but the spell itself will find ways to make what you want happen even with the possible obstacles.

One can see how the results can be easier to come to if it's done with two people who have good synastry. An example being that opportunities will come to the person doing the spell where they can show the recipient why they are a good match for them.

Lastly, love/sex spells aids greatly someone with really good charm but it makes sense also for people who lack it and need some other type of influence to help them beside their personality or lack thereof.

If the latter is the case for anyone then I recommend building your personality and have confidence in it. The forums has made many posts on how to do this.

 

[BlackOnyx8 [SG]]

She's coming of age? Do you mean she's becoming an adult?

If that's the case and you performed a love spell on her before, when she was still a minor, you'd be a paedophile, since you're 10 years older.

Thank you, I was just going to say that. Definitely something strange going on here.

 

[Henu the Great]

Also many women (not all) fully mature physically around 16. Then there's the some cases of young women that age only being being older men as how it's been for many a millenia.

Maturation happens around the age 25. The front lobe of the brain is developing until around that age. Give or take some months or years. Of course, if we take into account health issues, curses and substance use/abuse then this can be later too. But most certainly almost anyone is not mature before the age of 20. I could see some exceptional exceptions, but those are another matter altogether.

 

[hailourtruegod]

Also many women (not all) fully mature physically around 16. Then there's the some cases of young women that age only being being older men as how it's been for many a millenia.

Maturation happens around the age 25. The front lobe of the brain is developing until around that age. Give or take some months or years. Of course, if we take into account health issues, curses and substance use/abuse then this can be later too. But most certainly almost anyone is not mature before the age of 20. I could see some exceptional exceptions, but those are another matter altogether.

Yes that's correct but I was speaking about the body maturing not the mental capabilities.

The brain technically never stops developing either and reports show that brain development goes well into the 60s.

Seeing I was speaking about the body and ones sexual development I don't think that part is relevant to my reply nor to the OP. If it was I would had brought it up as well but deleted it as there was no point as that's not the discussion unless we were speaking about how the rationality of a 20 years is different from a 16 year old and the latter different from a 13 year old etc.

The frontal lobe is where rationality comes into play but doesn't mean one becomes fully rational all at once they hit 25 and have no rationality before that.

 

[Fiery Pluto]

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A lot of then are single and can't even find suitable partners. Then they're 29 30 ,when they decide to get married and at 32 she has one kid because raising a kid is expensive according to the articles you read online and it's better to not have kids and change the climate. (But let Africans have the kids because they don't somehow change the climate. )
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If parents today tend to spoil their children, it is normal that having children is expensive. They need to realise that they can give their children love without having to buy them a huge amount of gifts and toys. Parents must transmit the ethics and value of work.

This prevents young people from becoming nihilistic consumerists who are an economic burden.

 

[hailourtruegod]

I understand and agree with you on the hypocrisy behind the views of modern thought towards sexually active mid to late teens. People act as if this isn't happening and it's mainly those who themselves didn't experience this type of life at that age and are only coping at worst or just don't have the experience to make such judgement but still do. Or even people who feel shame about sex.


In my opinions when I reply to these type of posts I want to make the point that it should be taken into consideration how juvenile the mindset of many adults are even into their 40s. Mostly in the West. In this context these type of men and women who are older but want younger partners are usually for weird selfish to creepy reasons made by mainstream cultural influences from porn to mainstream music etc.

A lot of cases it isn't for mature thought that you brought up as to why someone in their late 20s would want a younger partner. Not anymore.


Lastly, let's remember to not take the modern thought of how women should be viewed that was corrupted from NS views and twisted into basically islamic filth.

Each woman are their own persons and not robots that should follow the exact same life patterns.

Yes, the average woman should drop the filth Yehuborim nonsense of hating children and family life but the solution is not something close to abrahamic teaching of women.

It's more about appreciating life and the what's of Nature like a family unit and things related to it.

 

[Stormblood]

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A lot of then are single and can't even find suitable partners. Then they're 29 30 ,when they decide to get married and at 32 she has one kid because raising a kid is expensive according to the articles you read online and it's better to not have kids and change the climate. (But let Africans have the kids because they don't somehow change the climate. )
...

If parents today tend to spoil their children, it is normal that having children is expensive. They need to realise that they can give their children love without having to buy them a huge amount of gifts and toys. Parents must transmit the ethics and value of work.

This prevents young people from becoming nihilistic consumerists who are an economic burden.

There are other things children may need to grow better, and these are expensive. Things like personal tutoring and personality-building activities. One should aim to get their children develop many skills early on as that will make things easier for them later on. They are also not meant to sit in front of a book or a screen all day but to climb, run and develop their body as much as possible, with structured gymnastics classes and outdoorsy experiences like hiking, camping, and so on. Teaching them leadership and other things too.

Raising a child is not as simple as just feeding them and buying them clothes, in terms of costly things. Unfortunately, nowadays we don't have Hitler's Youth and things like that, where they start at a young age and learn all I mentioned and more, including community development. Nowadays, most children aren't even taught self-awareness and left to rot in front of a screen, escapist tendencies and excessive leisure, whether they are spoiled or not. This contributes to create dysfunctional teenagers, and then even more dysfunctional adults.

Otherwise, you also made good points.

 

[General Yeager]

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A lot of then are single and can't even find suitable partners. Then they're 29 30 ,when they decide to get married and at 32 she has one kid because raising a kid is expensive according to the articles you read online and it's better to not have kids and change the climate. (But let Africans have the kids because they don't somehow change the climate. )
...

If parents today tend to spoil their children, it is normal that having children is expensive. They need to realise that they can give their children love without having to buy them a huge amount of gifts and toys. Parents must transmit the ethics and value of work.

This prevents young people from becoming nihilistic consumerists who are an economic burden.

There are other things children may need to grow better, and these are expensive. Things like personal tutoring and personality-building activities. One should aim to get their children develop many skills early on as that will make things easier for them later on. They are also not meant to sit in front of a book or a screen all day but to climb, run and develop their body as much as possible, with structured gymnastics classes and outdoorsy experiences like hiking, camping, and so on. Teaching them leadership and other things too.

Raising a child is not as simple as just feeding them and buying them clothes, in terms of costly things. Unfortunately, nowadays we don't have Hitler's Youth and things like that, where they start at a young age and learn all I mentioned and more, including community development. Nowadays, most children aren't even taught self-awareness and left to rot in front of a screen, escapist tendencies and excessive leisure, whether they are spoiled or not. This contributes to create dysfunctional teenagers, and then even more dysfunctional adults.

Otherwise, you also made good points.

Absolutely true