Question #1584: to gain something you have to give something

[Ask Satya Operator]

I have always been a selfish person, but not that selfish. Since I was a child I always hated to share my things no matter what, food, clothes, etc. I like to help people, but not by giving them my things. My grandma says I am a bad person. I don't want to be like that but sometimes I have really bad thoughts and actions, I don't see that in my birth chart.

 

[AFODO]

It's not about giving out your stuff for free. This "to gain something you have to give something" is mostly only works with the gods, and true friendships. You should give nothing to a stranger, because they won't give back nothing.
In cases if a stranger suffers, or crying for your help, you should help, its ethics.

 

[Aquarius]

I was like that but regarding food, I hated sharing my food. Even now sometimes I hate it when someone takes something from my plate, even if it's a loved one.

 

[MiniMe3388]

It is in the very foundation of the universe itself.

Henu, what do you think about volunteering?

We can look at 'transactions' also on the mental level (and soul level, in some cases) in addition to the material level.

I understand. Thank you for your reply!

 

[Head Guardian Sophiles Phylax]

I have always been a selfish person, but not that selfish. Since I was a child I always hated to share my things no matter what, food, clothes, etc. I like to help people, but not by giving them my things. My grandma says I am a bad person. I don't want to be like that but sometimes I have really bad thoughts and actions, I don't see that in my birth chart.

Look at aspects to the 2nd house, or anything pertaining to Taurus or Venus, as one possible area here. As giving is a part of transactions, as well as important for maintaining relationships, then you should look into clearing negative karma here, if the problem is bad enough.