And then to fancymancy Am asking you, again, that we should put this behind us sister((you have to be a sister)) Hehe. So am dropping all this. Just like that
And yet I have learned something so crucial from this. And, Hail Satan for that. I got upset because because Zola called my work BS. I got very upset because of the attitudes we use in these groups, they are very misrepresentating.
Which is not good at all. And then, @taolvanswd, You are absolutely right. I got upset for throwing insults at me, but then went ahead myself en threw insults... For no good cause at all. Silly of me to think that I could put out fire by adding fuel to it. I would privately call what I did as simply not turning the other cheek but, my mind tells me that's not the case. So since I love to be treated with respect I should have put myself above that and acted classy. But I did not. So... Shame on me. But now that I know better
am going to do better
Because respect is something very important.
But you demand for it, you work for it. I see that now. However we should really try to be civil in our responses. We all have very different emotional settings. I for one, I really feel I can take on anything, and when I made all those posts my ((upset)) - was not typically anger, but negative excitement from having an opportunity to teach somebody some good manners. And I went about it the wrong way yeahhyeah... I know
But there rr some of those who can not take on the mean words. Let us not be a problem to them. The way we respond in these groups shows lack of discipline.
I wonder why is that? . Is it the way it's supposed to be? Because I see its the order of the day....Yes, I know this is not church were we have to constantly restrain our tongues and pretend to be nice en all that but, there's no harm in being nice and good to each other. And that all starts with communication. That's what we are doing here, trying to communicate to each other. People come here for help,
And you can't start off helping, or teaching a person by calling them idiots. Or telling them there full of BS. Discipline and respect are very import qualities. And I always try to emulate them. But today I have made a mistake
and am owning it. Also.. No one is going to read or cares about your rambling. Most of them appear to be your own thoughts.
Which none of us can or want to comment on. The greatest lesson I have learned is that. Some thing tells me that you have disregard my research not because it's entirely point blank, but because of the other things that I posted along with it. Hence ((when you dnt respect yourself people dnt respect and have regard for anything that comes from ue)) I should have known better. Finally,
On very happy knot
This is not an apology It's gratitude for @toalvanswd for point me in the right direction. Thank you. Hail Satan. For teaching me so much, and helping me to emotionally evolve. For I was sure not like this 4yrs ago. And thank you our HPs for helping bringing us into the light Devil'sAdvocate nic I don't care if you invented education or are incapable of learning. I reserve ad hominem attacks for other people to use against me, be them subtle or blatant, when they have no arguments to stand on. I take perverse pleasure in other people being bothered about me negatively. Thanks for giving me that power over you.
