Pornless existance (boys only)

[BB13]

I discovered porn a long time ago being a kid. I’m always trying to stay off it but I guess the biggest problem for me is how fast I get hard with it. Is there a way really to turn on fast? At this point my brain is super fucked up and I guess I just don’t experience much of what sex must feel like. Any advice from successful fuckers is appreciated. How do you really get turned on without porn?

 

[Lucius Invictus]

A good looking woman should naturally turn you on, especially in anticipation of sexual intercourse with her. That drive you have to watch porn can be redirected into seeking a partner and building a connection with her.

If you're asking about releasing in the meantime without porn, as that is required to stay healthy as a man, then try to develop your imagination. However, after about 3-4 days with no release, you should have enough sexual energy to release with little effort during self stimulation.

 

[Recycler1337]

Sexual tension requires an outlet, and you're simply accustomed to releasing it by watching porn. The best option is to find a partner. If that's impossible for some reason, switch to fantasies or dreams. If that doesn't work for some reason, watch erotica instead of porn, say, cute, harmless videos of beautiful girls showing off their charms simply and without any violence. The harm from increasingly perverted pornography is the same as with drugs: you'll constantly increase the dose, descending deeper and dirtier—that's where the harm begins.

 

[BB13]

A good looking woman should naturally turn you on, especially in anticipation of sexual intercourse with her. That drive you have to watch porn can be redirected into seeking a partner and building a connection with her.

If you're asking about releasing in the meantime without porn, as that is required to stay healthy as a man, then try to develop your imagination. However, after about 3-4 days with no release, you should have enough sexual energy to release with little effort during self stimulation

ok right thats cool. erotica sounds very innocent

 

[MarsUltor666]

Even holding the hand of somebody you love is 100000x superior to porn.

I've discovered that interaction and bonding with the opposite gender is truly a beautiful thing, and it's really good for you in so many ways. A girl doesn't even have to be that good looking, in my honest opinion; you just need to love her and care for her, and for her to be a good match for you. Synastry can help with this, in astrology, if you know her birth date, time and location.

Even having "that moment", where you see a girl you like and you both smile at each other, despite being strangers, is beautiful. That could be the start of something, you know?

Once you experience this, you'll never want to go back to porn, and it will motivate you to develop healthy and happy sexual relations with others.

If you don't have somebody, imagination and fantasy is still superior. Plus, this approach will strengthen your visualization skills, and it can be used to further a goal you desire (e.g., sex magick).

I also agree with the suggestion of tasteful, sensually-erotic photography/artwork. This is superior to porn, as it's a genuine expression of beauty and not something that's just supposed to be material to get off to and rot your brain.