hailourtruegod said:
Shael said:
My 5 cents on porn:
I watch it from time to time. But I literally NEVER watch porn with actual real people, because with the degree that my 3rd eye is opened, they all look disguisting to me. I just couldn't possibly get off to people like that. The only form of porn that I find useable is hentai/3d porn. Ofcourse in this case I'm referring to the vanilla part of those. I don't watch the classic tentacle bullshit or anything like that. There are a few 3d animations from senran kagura that depict real, sensual 1 on 1 sex fairly well, for example.
But yeah in the end I'd also say to stay away from porn whenever you can. And if you do use it then stick to the realistic vanilla stuff (I may be biased here, but I'd recommend the hentai stuff over conventional porn, simply because in my opinion it's not very healthy to sexually connect to some xian idiots or let alone even jews).
When a person masturbates to porn they are fantasizing about the woman they are looking at. So isn't watching cartoons fuck just as bad if not worse since you're fantasizing about having sex with it but in this case they will never have her because it's a drawn cartoon or 3d model. This seems like what leads to waifu obsessed weeb creeps. I remember a friend I used to have tell me that I should watch hentai because it's awesome compared to porn with real people. I stood quiet but with my eyes wide and looking like wtf.... Idk it just like it's just as bad if not worse for the reason I just mentioned.
Feel free to try to change my mind since I have seen normal looking people who admit to watching hentai sometimes but in my guess they will eventually lead to being weird or maybe they'll be fine if they keep it moderate just like with few people who cab watch porn sometimes and be okay at the end.
Well I'm not gonna try to change your mind because everyone here is free to have his/her own beliefs, but I can just say that - from my personal feeling in regards to porn - I would feel completely disgusting everytime after watching porn with normal people, but I don't have this with hentai. If you know which kinds of hentais to watch and (as with porn in general) stay away from the bullshit stuff, then I still firmly believe it to be the better option, by a long shot. Literally the only way I could ever possibly get off to 'normal' porn would be by watching some video where only close-up erogenous zones are shown, like a pov boob-/handjob or something. One look on the face of one of those 'porn-stars' is enough for me to be unable to continue, so to speak.
In my opinion, (good) hentai depicts sex on a higher level entirely. The characters usually have perfect skin and gorgeous body proportions, for example, which is generally present in those people who are very spiritually advanced. Also, the characters are made to actually reflect a genuine desire from both sides to have sex (which you wont be able to find in like 98%+ of all 'normal' porn videos).
Don't get me wrong - if the real-porn industry turned satanic and became something decent again, I wouldn't even throw a second glance to hentai. It's just the best porn option around at the moment, that's all.
I think that the general thought of "wanting to get what you see in porn" is the problem here. For me, porn is something I use rarely and only from time to time, for example when I'm in a hurry or - for some other reason - don't have the time/ability to lengthily release my sexual energies. I'm not like "Oh I wish [insert japanese girl name here] was real oh she's so gorgeous!!" or something of the like. I just search for a hentai with the right criteria and a female that is attractive, I do my business, and then that's it.
Also, I can clearly see how this kind of attitude can be harmful if one was to do this every day for long periods of time. This is why - again - I strongly recommend to stay away from porn in general and only use it if the only other choice would be to not masturbate at all, because that's even more unhealthy.