Maybe the husband has some friends or relatives that can pop in once in a while to see how he's doing. It would be good for his mind and spirit too to see friendly, familiar faces. So he doesn't feel so isolated and needy. But since you are the one he can rant to (and the kids probably don't give the responses or sympathy he is looking for), he's really taking advantage of that.Probably because you are the caretaker, he is taking you for granted too. Give him some books to read, or magazines, so he doesn't talk your ear off. If you have a backyard, plop him on a comfy lawn chair and park him under a tree or in the shade, the fresh air and change of view would be good for him, instead of staring at the same walls. If it's possible, that is, I am unsure of how much you can move him.
Make sure you are getting enough sleep, and eating well. Perhaps get up about 10-30 minutes earlier in the morning to do some meditation, the Five Tibetans (good for energy!) and some yoga. And allot yourself another 10-30 minutes at the end of the day.The sure place to get some privacy is the bathroom. Whether you are showering or taking care of other needs, you can also do your meditation in there if you get no quiet otherwise.
Don't let the kids get a free ride. He is their father too. Sit them down and explain to them that it would be good for the bunch of you to share responsibilities, and that they help out around the house, (cleaning, washing dishes, helping prepare meals, washing rooms etc.) and see to their father's needs, if there's anything he needs. And talk to him, see how he's doing. I am sure he would appreciate it immensely.
It would take a weight off of you. You are a family, it would be good to work together as a unit.
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To: violet.louisa <violet.louisa@...;
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Sent: Sunday, June 23, 2013 2:47:04 PM
Subject: [JoyofSatan666] Re: Need to get close to Father!!!
Do Meditation on Satan
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Dear brothers and sisters.. HAIL SATAN!!!!! I love our Father so much!!
The trouble is, I live in a very crowded house, with my children and my husband's children. Husband and me sleep on a sofabed in the living room, and because he is long-term sick, he cannot leave the house...and he wants ALL my attention!! He rants and raves about the zionists all day, and other politics, and he is confused about Jew-sus etc...I cannot turn my head away for a MOMENT without him calling me back!!
I need time with Father!!! Urgently!!!
Any suggestions????
HAIL FATHER!!!!!
