This is pretty disturbing but will make you aware of tactics used by emotional predators:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mSDGv2DvJXg
This obviously doesn't only concern men (or Asians):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dGHfSHIFCqw
Your problem could be Solar and not just Venus squares or love workings: https://ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?p=437736#p437736
Sun squares will give you self love and confidence. If you don't have those qualities, you might not attract people properly even if you are attractive. Others don't feel attracted to depressed people unless they are predators. Also, doing physical workout will cultivate this significantly: https://ancient-forums.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=89196
Except of that, magical workings tend to have a delay from the moment you do them, most workings aren't a one time deal. That is why empowering and fixing your self from the inside out is important too.
Then, you can move to a magical working top attract a partner (you can use the Trines by HP HC if you're a donor).
From brother General Yeager:
Do a Working using Gebo + Waujo or Aum Klim Kamadevaya Namah and affirm,
"In a healthy and positive manner for me I am attracting my Ideal Partner right now."