Learning proper etiquette

Hello I am new to J.O.S. But I am not new to what I originally thought of as an ideology of satanism; by reading just what little I have been able to find it has progressed the energies within me so much that I know that this is all true. I am trying to learn all the proper phrases as to not disrespect or displease my fellow brothers and sisters as well as the entities I have made successful contact with. As for some background I am 19 right now but I made my first spiritual contact when I was 14. It was a succubus now when I did this I didn’t use any ritual items; just my mind and energy but I have so much more to learn if someone on here has in-depth knowledge on these type of subjects please help me thank you